Do I deserve verbal and emotional abuse?
Well, I hope you know this already, but, no, no one deserves to be abused! Of course, there are times when we act in ways that irritate or make others angry. But they still have a choice in how they respond. And, hopefully, if they love you, they choose to talk to you about why they're upset without personally attacking you.
Of course, unfortunately, I realize this isn't always the case. So, if you are being emotionally abused, I encourage you to reach out for help. Talk with a counselor or another loved one, and let them know what's happening. They should be able to let you know what your options are and how stop this from continuing.
One last thing, this list has some suggestions of help that's available for those in abusive situations-whether emotional or physical. Just FYI if you want to take a look...