Have you ever witnessed someone indirectly ruin another person's life?
Yes... I know several families that were destroyed by husbands cheating, after 15-20 years of love and loyalty they got from their spouses, and they all have kids also... those are real tragedies... once trust is broken, it can never be the same.. all of these woman stayed married, but none loves her husband anymore (and they don't love them, or wouldn't have cheated and lied in the first place)... so for a person that only wanted love and family in life, nothing much, or fancy, this is highly unjust and undeserved, and total destruction of past, present, and future... only good that has come of it was that all these ladies have learned to be stronger, and to love themselves more, and God, faith was the source of strength for them all. Only valuable reasons to get a divorce are: 1.cheating, 2. abuse, 3. neglect (also form of abuse), so these husbands had no justification to do what they did... if a wife (or a husband) gets fat, or ill, or she complains too much in his opinion, it is not a valid reason to discard her (him) and find some low moral person to take her (his) place. These affair partners are also to blame, for taking something that doesn't belong to them, and causing pain and misery to others, most of all children (no excuse whatsoever they can have, anything that is a secret is wrong).
Recently I have heard the best definition of sinners, in my opinion: "wrongdoers are people who discard the ones that hold them close to their hearts"... so very true... if someone discards someone else who truly loves them, they have no love in them, and it is as if they have spit in the face of God... because GOD IS LOVE <3