Have you so far kept your gender reassignment secret from your partner?

I currently don't have a partner but I never keep my transgender status from a partner... at least, not to the point when we're about to do the mattress dance. I make it clear on all my online dating profiles and if I met a date in person and we arranged to go out in meatspace, I do try to make a point of "coming out" within three dates. My reasons for this are:

  1. I don't wanna be murdered. I think my chances of being murdered by some transphobic piece of shit is reduced if I am out before any sexual activity occurs.
  2. I don't wanna be falsely accused of "tricking" anybody. Being myself is not a "trick" and honestly, making it clear about my transgender status makes it easy to weed those people out. No, I didn't "trick" you, I made it clear on my online dating profiles. In a couple of places. I am trans.

But, I do believe that trans people should have the right not to have to disclose our trans status. I just believe it's unwise from a practical and logistical standpoint.


What's the most embarrassing thing that happened to you when you tried to contact an EX after a break-up?

Nothing embarrassing ever happened because I generally dont contact my exes-except in the case of one. I had a premonition that something was going to happen, but what and what, I didn't know. I called him and we talked for 28 minutes and 51 seconds. It was a good talk. Two

Are calisthenics superior to the average gym?

So many things to answer...First: There's no such thing as functional movement or functional fitness. There is nothing more functional about a body-weight pull-up than there is about a barbell deadlift.You should be able to do both anyway..but let's say hypothetically

Are people with depression always depressed?

I have been living with diagnosed depression well over ten years, and likely a good while before that.Except during my worst episodes, I can act like a well socialized human for a few hours, carry on small talk at parties, laugh at stupid jokes, pretend I enjoy meaningless chatter, and even be a productive member in work