How should I deal with verbally and emotionally abusive husband who disrespects me and my parents to a great extent?
Your answer depends on a lot of factors.
Have you tried talking to your abusive spouse ?
Have you told him clearly ,that you feel traumatized ?
If this continues ,and you are in the marriage as you do not want divorce ?
I have no place to advice but seek a counselor to fix your marriage.
I survived a abusive relationship(i was never married) which left me drained and broken.
What i did?
I cut off communication with the douche bag ,sort therapy,rebuilt my life and never will look back or at my abuser.
I will never take abuse of the intensity i went through ,even if i have kids and no penny to my name ,i will walk out .I was also physically abused,i was able to move on from the physical violence but the extreme damage a verbal and emotional abuse can do to your brain cells is unfathomable .
I will absolutely leave (if i had tried to fix it and sort therapy),as abuse and violence will just get worse with time .