Is it possible to get an ex back after 3 months?
Love is funny... It can make us move mountains, it can make us make mistakes, it creates new habits, and its one of the strongest emotions a person can feel. I dont want to give you a definition of what love is, but its important to remember these elements because a lot of people dont understand how a situation like the one we are about to explore can exist.
I know that most of you arent necessarily happy about not being able to move on from the breakup you had gone through. You want to be able to move on and to no longer feel like somethings holding you back. You dream of your ex and youre asking yourself all kinds of questions about how to proceed.
But the one thing that you cant seem to figure out is why they still occupy so much space in your mind, and you want to know why you cant stop thinking about this relationship after such a long time.
First of all, the most obvious reason is Love. Love is what makes you want your ex back after 3 months or more. Your feelings for your ex havent disappeared; youve shared some very special moments together, you had a strong affinity, and you miss all of this. You havent found another person that made you feel like this...
If you have kids together, its even harder to move on and to forget an ex. Youre still in touch for your childrens sake and you still see each other often. Its not rare for your emotions to remain strong, even if its been years since the divorce. You spend an afternoon with the whole family together for a birthday, and that night you dream about the first time you had gone on vacation together, and about your relationship. This shows that youre ready to take action to do what it takes to be together once again.
You shouldnt try to have the same foundations that you had when you were still together. A huge number of men and women make this mistake. Dont forget, the relationship ended up in a separation so avoid the past at all costs, and dont make the same mistakes as before.
One tip for getting your ex back after 3 months is using physical attraction. You already know each other and if you had been together it means that there was already a considerable amount of attraction. So its up to you to recreate this chemistry with the person that youre still in love with. The best thing to do is to begin a game of seduction. If you can spark their interest by becoming more seductive and more confident, youre going to make them want to approach you again despite the distance between you.
He started a new job, and in the final months we argued on and off rather than support him I would get on at him for not prioritising me. I regret that. I lost sight of what was important. Eventually he said he couldnt take the arguing anymore and tried to end things, but I convinced him to give us a shot him wanting to leave made me realise nothing else was important. So we then spent 2/3 weeks just moving forward, no arguments.. but I catch him messaging someone else, and when I confront him, he breaks up with me said obviously hes not happy and he knows we wont make eachother happy in the long run.
This was 4 months ago. I did a month of no contact, and then tried far too soon to reconcile, we met up a couple of times, just to talk, nothing serious.. and it was nice. The second month he was very hot and cold. Since then Ive decided to close the door and just move on, Ive grieved. Weve spoke rarely just on Christmas / birthdays / and when I had a family problem he was there for me.
Now Im working on myself, trying properly to move on, date etc. But I truly miss my best friend, and appreciate so much what we had together. I just want that chance that he never really gave me to not be petty about little things, just appreciate him, and our relationship.