What is it to love someone truly and get dumped before getting married?This happened to me and, yes, it's horrible. I was engaged to the woman I loved and then she realised that, although we made great best friends, we didn't make the perfect couple. We have remained best friends and talk to each other on the phone, by text or in person every couple of days. She is now married to someone else (she introduced us once their relationship took hold, telling him that I was someone he needed to get on with [and vice versa]!) but I have never been interested in anyone else. To be honest, the pain was so great I just don't have the emotional energy any more for another relationship so it would never work. Maybe I'm still a bit raw - it's only been 15 years or so. Maybe I'll feel different some time in the future but I wouldn't put money on it!
it is blessed, glad u already finished it before u two get married. god shows u that he's not good for u :)
It sucks, terribly, but at the same time it's better it happens before that couple gets married because it's much harder to divorce. Divorce is expensive and very troubling to go through, especially if you have children together.