What is the best thing to happen in your life nowadays?
Break up !!!
Indeed the best thing that happened in my life !
When I was in class 8 I had crush on a girl. She is not the best looking girl, but she was when compared to my other classmates. NO one in my class like her because of her arrogant and bossy act ! (and of course EXCEPT me !..)
I just used to keep looking at her the whole day.. This continued for some months, in fact years ! She herself understood it. One fine day she came and confronted me and on that day I said I love her. She didn't say anything but simply smiled and shook my hands and left!! (I took the Silence for YES !!..)
But things didn't go the way I wanted. She was unable to cope up with the teasing from my classmates and eventually my school mate !! So she came up with a idea to tie Rakhi (a thread sort of thing generally tied to the girls "BROTHERS" ) in front of my WHOLE FUCKING CLASS !!!!
That day when she tied Rakhi to me it was the BIGGEST Blow !! But my friends stood in favor of me and helped me overcome it. (indeed my best friends )
My boyfriend dumped me.
I don't know how should I describe our relation. We never met outside. Never exchanged gifts. Never wished each other on midnight 12 on birthdays. I only knew he love me and I loved him too. One year passed.
From the past six months I'm suffering from auditory hallucination and started behaving weird. I left all the groups, uninstalled whats app etc., I was longing for someone. We talked only 20 minutes a day. 10 minute in the morning, 10 minute in the evening. 20 minutes of chatting in the night. I waited for his calls and messages everyday.
He got tired very soon of my weirdness and stopped calling and messages came down. I never said anything to him. One day he said we can't stay together because his mom is not well and he cant give more stress to her. Which was only one of the reason. I requested him not to let me go. Then he said the real reason behind it. It was my weirdness.
I'm not blaming him. I understand it is difficult to understand mental pain than physical pain. It is ok that is failed to understand.
It was never easy for me but after counselling I realized it's good to let go. When someone can't stay with you in your tough time its better to let them go.
I'm trying to come out of everything and yet it is not that easy. Everything is going to be better. He dumped me and its a good thing happened to me and to him. Both free from each other, him from my weirdness and me from insecurity. I'm sure I will come up strong.
Edit - Thank you for the support. I will be writing my experience of being schizophrenic in this blog. "Being schizophrenic " please read and support me. It might help you understand your fellow friend who is schizophrenic.
The best thing that can happen to you when you're a toddler is the ability to walk, and walk without falling down in front of people.
The best thing that can happen to you when you when you're a kindergarten-junior school kid, that red star on your hand from your teacher or an appreciation from your teacher, it makes your day!
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in middle school is being able to talk to a girl without stuttering.
The best thing that can happen to you when you reach high school is that feeling of being an adult. (The worst thing then is puberty, I swear!)
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in 12th grade is watching that smile on your parents face when you do well in school.
The best thing that can happen to you once you're done with 12th grade (or even while in 12th grade) is the offer letter from the university you've been dying to attend.
The best thing that can happen to you once you're done with college is your first pay. (This feeling cannot be expressed in words, really!)
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 20s is getting married and traveling around and jumping around from job to job (who settles eo easily Eh?)
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 30s are your kids and the new house you bought with the thought of settling down.
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 40s is that promotion letter giving you that dream position.
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 50s is working out your pension plans and planning what to do after retirement.
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 60s is watching that smile on your grandchildren's face.
The best thing that can happen to you when you're in your 70s is not being much of a burden to your kids. (You might call this unrealistic but this is true :( )
There's no particular best thing in your life. It changes according to the need at that moment.
I AM GOING TO PUT THE ANSWER IN THIS WAY. WHAT I AM GRATEFUL FOR IN MY LIFE.
Everything is best if you look at the brighter side of things. If you indulge in self pity and stress then the quality of your life will turn out to be miserable.
. I have good parents who never restrict me to enjoy my freedom and encourages me to do what I want.
. I have good cousins who help me and never fail to bring a smile on my face.
. I have dreams and ways to achieve them.
. I got admission in my dream college. Christ university.
. I am grateful for what I have.
. I have good, shelter, and clothes to wear.
. I don't live in a warzone.
. I have a cute pet.
. I have friends.
. I have the love of teachers.
. I have my family's support.
So what I want to tell is just be grateful for what you have and then go for what you want and enjoy the journey. True happiness lies in it. Enjoying the journey of life is true happiness.
HAPPINESS IS THE ESSENCE OF LIFE AND LIFE IS A JOURNEY. ENJOY THE JOURNEY, ENJOY THE LIFE.
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Quora is the best thing that happened to me. I was in great agony when I came to know about Quora.
To help myself, to divert myself I started reading answers. I have read so many answers about love failures, loosing the person whom you love most. Here is the best answer I have read,
Mom took her 5 year old kid to a grave yard. 5 years is too young for anyone to go to a grave yard. I have gone only in my 20's. But that kid had no choice as his father was died previous day in an accident. When kid has been asking her mom about her dad, she brought her to the place where he was buried and
Baby daddy is dead
I can defenetly say that, at the age of five she can hardly understand the meaning of death. With the knowledge that she has, she uderstood that her dad won't comeback and she replied to her mom
Mommy I need a new heart this one hurt's
My heart stopped for a second. Tears started rolling down in no time. I desperately wanted to see that kid, hug her. I can hardly imagine the situation if her mom.
Compared to the PAIN that kid and her mom is undergoing, loosing a girl looked small and I motivated myslef to be happy for what I am left with.
Thanks to 5 year kid and to her mom for sharing the story and helping me out.
Well I am feeling lucky enough to give this answer. Nowadays I am doing those things which I really wanted to do. I am the CEO of Life art 4 all.
When I started my website I was quite enthusiastic and excited about it. But slowly and gradually I find that nothing is working properly and was losing interest. But after a few days of such disappointments I again thought to work on it.