Why does real love always leave us?
Firstly i would like to correct one thing from Question.
There is No existence of REAL LOVE or FAKE LOVE. There is only *LOVE*
Only REAL or FAKE persons are there to LOVE.
And coming to the Question.
If you are really love a person, first of all you have to believe her/him. Belief is the only one thing can always make you understanding each other.
If you are love a person , you should have to accept her/his mistakes and continue loving her/him, if not then accept that U r not loving her/him.
* LOVE never leaves us,
We are leaving the LOVE*
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY.
Actually sooner or later everybody leaves us and we also leave them for various reasons.
In this process / happenings leaving of the person to whom we love hurts most.
Seperation of love ones is such a painful experience that it is difficult to forget ever.
This may be the reason of the question.
Try and differentiate between love and obsession. Love never leaves, it's two people who decide to stir apart due to whatever reasons. It's obsession which forces you to get hold of the other person even if he / she doesn't want to. It is all about the life situations, love is one of the things and not everything that is needed to be with a person. And the word ‘always', it ruins the above question anyways.
Use the below story to verify if it was really a real love or not. As I know that real love never leaves
Real love is not Fish love.
Real love is an extension of your existence.
A story about Fish Love:
Why are you eating that fish?'
The young mans says, ‘Because I love fish.'
He says, ‘Oh. You love the fish. That's why you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it.'
He says, ‘Don't tell me you love the fish. You love yourself, and because the fish tastes good to you; therefore, you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it.'
So much of what is love is fish love. Young couple falls in love. Young man and young woman fall in love.
What does that mean?
That means that he saw in this woman someone who he felt could provide him with all of his physical and emotional needs, and she felt in this man somebody she feels that she can write, that was love, but each one is looking out for their own needs.
It's not love for the other. The other person becomes a vehicle for my gratification. So much of what is called love is fish love.
An external love is not on what I'm going to get but I'm going to give. We had an ethicist rabbi Dessler, who said, ‘People make a serious mistake in thinking that you give to those whom you love, and the real answer is you love those to whom you give.
His point is if I give something to you, I've invested myself in you. Since self-love is a given, everybody loves themselves, now that part of me has become in you, there's part of me in you that I love. True love is a love of giving, not a love of receiving
Because it was not real.. But that is no excuse for people leaving . People declare their love and after sometime they say "Sorry, i realize that was not love" and leave ... that is very cruel.. such people manipulates the definition of love to suit their needs... they make a classification ‘real', ‘fake' etc... they make statements like "I love you but goodbye.." ..How on earth a person can leave someone whom they love .. I would say people who do this are doing emotional cheating.. It's cheating... See them as cheaters . They don't deserve respect..
The classification of love as real or fake give the cheaters a legitimacy so that they can jump into a relations and then after some time leave their partner according to their will giving excuses like these. Like it's not thier fault. Such people are poor (lacking the ability to love)....
God created me as a wolf and hence I eat lambs
No real love never leaves...Nor u do it if there is real love.
Love nevers leaves. Only the person does.
That's two different things.