Has your cheating boyfriend/girlfriend/wife returned, begging you to take him/her back? I'm so afraid of getting cheated on because I don't think I can take back a cheater.

I'm not exactly sure of your situation, but let me answer you this.Trust is one of the key ingredients of a healthy relationship. Trust is also like a glass panel: it can be broken once, after that it will never be repaired.If you are referring to taking back someone who has cheated on

How to know if your wife is cheating on you

If she is acting out of the ordinary then she is. For example everytime she comes home she would rather to the washroom to take a bath above everything else.If she is having too many girls night out is one of the signs. There is nothing open at night besides bars, clubs and strip joints. So

How to forgive and stay married to my husband after he had an affair

Is staying in a marriage after an affair stupid? By Anne BerchtQuestion: Dear Anne, The issue that has concerned me currently is the constant political talk on the news of late, about spouses who decide to stay or reconcile a marriage

I am a 32 year old married woman. My husband is having an extra marital affair with his colleague. How can I save our 5 year old marriage?

I'm not like most people here to say yay or nay b/c ultimately the decision is yours. It is a choice.  There is a reason for the affair. There is a problem with the marraige. Very simple. Happy people don't enter into affairs. If

I am a 43-year-old married, attractive woman. I have a 31-year-old man who is a friend and interested in me. He knows my marriage is on the rocks but keeps pursuing me. What does he want?

A good man never pursues a married woman until she's separated from her husband. He knows you are not happily married and he couldn't care less. All he wants is to have sex with you. Then when he's done, he'll move on exactly when you are ready to file for divorce. Then you'll lose your marriage and the

I cheated on my husband, but somehow my kids came to know about it. I don't want to lose my kids and husband? What to do?

I remember the night I confronted my EX-wife of her cheating. There was nothing to discuss as I had placed a GPS tracking device on her car and had a PI videotape her actions. She could not lie, her response was

I cheated on my husband. I had an affair with a guy who does not know I am married. I want to end this affair but am afraid that my bf might tell my husband everything and I don't want to spoil my marriage. What should I do?

I had the same problem except my lover knew I was married and he also knew I was unhappy so he was my scape from the unhappy frivolous marriage. We always had a crazy attraction for each other and even before I got married we had started meeting for lunch or coffe.

I cheated with my best female friend's husband and she told me that she won't forgive me until I allow her to sleep with my husband. The thing that worries me is that my husband seems interested in it. What do I do?

I cheated with my best female friend's husband and she told me that she won't forgive me until I allow her to sleep with my husband. The thing that worries me is that my husband seems interested in it. What do I do?You cheated on your husband and you are more concerned

I found out today that my husband's best friend is cheating on his wife, who I am pretty close with. Should I tell her?

Wow. That situation really sucks loudly.For whatever little it's worth, here's a guys' perspective from someone who's been in your shoes and lost two dear friends because of it... this is one of those No Win situations, no matter what

I had an affair with a woman my husband thinks it was a man should I tell him the truth?

Yes. You have no choice but to own up to your indiscretion if you want to keep your marriage, and keep your faith in yourself. In the long-run, these types of indiscretions end up hurting you more than anyone else. The reason is clear, once you have had one affair, the next one becomes easier.

I had an affair with a woman who showed behaviors typical to BDP. Should I tell her husband?

If I were you, I would not. What is the upside for you? Seriously. No one is going to come out of that action better off for quite a long time, and you will be hated by the other two. You can't force her to take responsibility, to realize anything, to do anything. You can only control

I had an year long relationship with a married woman without her husband knowing about it. Should she tell her husband about it?

Both of you already spoiled her husband life, she decided to go back to her husband it means she is bored with you now so she is going back it is hurting I know but that is the fact,People get bored

I still miss him. Even though he cheated on me. What should I do?

Nothing.There is absolutely nothing that you can do.Yes, you miss him. And it is going to be like that for a really long time. There are many sleepless nights yet to come. There will be those 4 AM awful times when you will need

I think my wife is cheating on me. What do I do?

GIVE HER SURPRISE !!!  READ ONSo I had a feeling she was cheating, as she set off a lot of red  flags. Constantly laughing and smiling when texting, saying it was just  her mother when I asked. Needing to stay late

I've been married to my husband for almost 9 years. I've been cheating for two years. What should I do?

After five years of marriage, my wife revealed to me that she had two sexual experiences with another man and had been cheating emotionally with him for several months. I was unbelievably hurt and angry and a thousand other feelings passed in and out of my life. In the end, I determined in

My best friend is cheating on her husband who I am having an affair with. Should I feel guilty?

Your best friend's action in no way absolve's you from cheating. You really think that because she's cheating, you have the right to cheat on your husband? The only one who's not cheating in this menage a' trois? Is your husband. You're a

My cheating husband is asking for a divorce. What should I do?

I am so sorry for situation you are going through and appreciate your decision to give your marriage chance.But wait a minute ,don't you think you should give a chance to re-think your decision .- He is already cheating you from past two and half

My friend is having an affair. Should I tell her husband about it?

I am utterly shocked by most of the answers here:"reveal the affaire, don't worry about the consequences""cheating should be punished in the harshest possible terms""tell this woman that if she doesn't tell him....you will"The right thing to do

My husband and I have been married for three months. He invited his ex girlfriend over for the weekend, and put her over me the whole time. He think he did nothing wrong. Is this evidence of cheating? Should I divorce him?

Hi,I am sorry but I am very confused after reading this question. So I will start with some of my questions to clarify the situation (pls don't mind if you find any of my queries or statement offensive I am just trying to help).First of

My husband cheated on me and claims that this is my fault. What should I do?

Get out of the relationship asap, in no way is it your fault. Did you find a woman and force him to sleep with her? Because that is the only way it would be your fault. Think about it, he's blaming you for his

My husband cheated on me with another woman. He told her about my weaknesses so she asked him to divorce me. What should I do?

You can not change him. He is what he is and do not judge him. Just because you are married to him, you do not own him. BUT you do own yourself. Are you willing to accept his infidelity? I hope not. Do not play the victim. That keeps you in the rabbit hole. Think clearly. What do

My husband cheated on me with different women and now I have evidences. Should I stay or divorce him?

Tough question, should I stay or should I go. Unfortunately we can't answer that for you. I can tell you that I've seen many marriages survive affairs, and even prosper after someone strayed. Here's a website that can help with how to handle this subject. InfidelityI highly recommend

My husband had an affair and now I don't trust him out of my sight. I don't know how I'll be able to let him leave and hang out with people without me. Will this control ruin our marriage?

Jenna, now listen up. He ruined your marriage by having an affair. Not you. No matter what he says or excuses he makes, no matter who he blames, he's a big boy, and adult. He knows right from wrong and fully in charge of his senses. Yet

My husband had an affair, should I divorce him?

This is something only you can answer. People may tell you absolutely yes, he's a jerk and you should be rid of him, but they do not have to live with that decision. They do not have to pay your legal fees. They will not be

My husband has a relationship with another girl, but I love him. What can I do now?

Is he in love with her, or is it just a fling?  By 'just a fling', I don't mean to minimize it, but there is a difference, and it could mean the defining factor for you.   Do you know if she's the first one he's cheated with?  If he is just having a fling

My husband has another woman. What should I do?

#Question name: My husband has another woman What should I do?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope you love it.1. Try

My husband is cheating on me, what should I do?

#Question name: My husband is cheating on me what should I do?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope

My husband is having an affair and I know who it is, a 50 year old, and he is 29! We have a baby. How do I prove that he is cheating legally? Do I need to take pictures? What would you do?

So sorry.  Sin sucks.  It hurts us all.  Why do you need legal proof?  Perhaps your courts require it for divorce proceedings?  You would need a licensed, professional private investigator to provide legal testimony and exhibits to a court in my state.  This could provide a better outcome for you in divorce proceedings.

My husband sent me pictures of his pregnant 19-year-old mistress the day I turned 40, along with divorce papers. We have a pre-nup so I'm getting nothing. What can I do?

To all you women that blame the other woman and not your husband, STOP!!! This is your husband's fault. Stop using "I am the wife" act. You may be the wife but he feel in love with another woman. He gave

My husband walked in on me having sex with another man. Now he wants a divorce. Is this reasonable of him?

Yes, it is."Sex with another person", also known as "adultery", breaks the marriage bond. If you don't understand this, then there is not much hope that you will be faithful in future, so there is not much point in trying to reconcile. Your husband is wise to

My husband wants to divorce because of an alleged affair. How do I save my marriage?

More information is needed - who had the ‘alleged affair'? If it is true that one or the other did have an extramarital relationship the future is bleak for that marriage. Betrayal and dishonesty are very very hard to recover

Should I forgive my husband for cheating on me while we were still dating?

Cheating, whether you are dating, engaged, or married is an insidious behavior. It demeans the process of loyalty. And yes, a person who makes a commitment to you, in any phase of your relationship has promised to be loyal to you. It's like promising to buy a

What should I do with a wife whom I have caught cheating 3 times?

In part is depends on what the story is and why she is doing this. It also depends on why you are still with her. It seems to me you really only have two choices. This is often the choice in any

Why do I feel so bad because my wife cheated with another man?

You feel bad because she broke your heart and betrayed your trust.  Part of you feels bad as well because you're blaming yourself for her infidelity. It doesn't matter why she did this Jerry, you are not to blame for her infidelity.  There were obviously problems in

Why do I miss my ex husband who was verbally abusive, controlling and found out after the divorce he was cheating too? We were married almost 5 years. Together 7 years. We have two children, shared custody.

It is natural to miss someone who has been a big part of your life and left a legacy with you. 7 years is a big chunk of time if you are in your 20/30's and we have a tendency

Your wife had an affair and this affair resulted in her getting pregnant. She feels guilty and doesn't want to your to divorce her. Can your marriage possibly survived this? If so how?

If she has an abortion yes. You might be able to salvage the relationship. If not, then Jesus Christ no. Trust is the foundation and heart of all successful and loving relationships. She destroyed that and it's unlikely you will ever be able to trust her again

I just found out my wife had an affair. What is some advice?

I realize some time has passed and this might be dated, but here are some thoughts after reading our post.  First, know that my wife had an affair that lasted 1.5 years that ended in the summer of 2013.  I won't go into the background of why and how it happened,

My wife lied, is adulterous, has spread lies to her friends and family as to why she began an affair (although keeping the affair secret from her parents to the best of my knowledge) what are some options for how to go forward?

First off you have to realize that regardless of what kind of bullshit your wife is spreading about you, for the most part nobody gives a shit.  They don't want to hear it when your wife is talking about it and although they may act sympathetic to her alleged plight and blow smoke up

Has your cheating boyfriend/girlfriend/wife returned, begging you to take him/her back? I'm so afraid of getting cheated on because I don't think I can take back a cheater.

I'm not exactly sure of your situation, but let me answer you this.Trust is one of the key ingredients of a healthy relationship. Trust is also like a glass panel: it can be broken once, after that it will never be repaired.If you are referring to taking back someone who has cheated on you in the past,

How to approach a situation where your significant other was pretending to cheat with a fake Facebook account

Was this just over a week ago?It was April Fools Day recently. Maybe it was a prank that she started and didn't finish.Maybe she was actually cheating.Maybe she set you up to see if you would spy on her.There are a lot of possibilities, none of which are particularly mature or

I cheated on my husband while I was traveling. Should I keep my secret?

There will be those who disagree but I think it depends....If you go get tested and find out you have an STI of one flavor or another then you definitely should tell your husband so that he can go get the needed medical treatment.If you are STI

I enjoy sex with my side woman more than my wife. In fact, I am no longer interested in having sex with my wife. What should I do?

I am not married but have parents who have been together for over 30 years and dated over the years. Marriage is not a one sided affair. You and your wife became one the day she became your wife. You vowed to be with

I found messages from women in my husband's Facebook. He states he is a secret agent and those people are undercover using fake names and accounts and not even women. What is going on?

Wow! With no disrespect to you, you ought to have an IQ of 10 ... at most!So let me explain it to you like you really have an IQ of 10: NO! Your husband is NO secret agent. The only secret he is hiding from you is that he's a pervert who has been

I found out that my SO of 6 years cheated on me recently. Should I give her a second chance?

Cheating is a big offense against trust. I do not wanted to say once a cheater always a cheater. But I am sure that there are lots of chances this can be repeated behind the other party or it is simular to theft or visiting a prostitute ‘s residence.

I had an affair with a married man. How does he cover it up from his wife?

Maybe he doesn't. It bothers a lot of women, but there are women who have no problems with their spouse or companion having affairs as long as it isn't thrown in their faces and they aren't embarrassed by it publicly. They have made a decision, good

I had an affair with a woman who showed behaviors typical to BDP. Should I tell her husband?

If I were you, I would not. What is the upside for you? Seriously. No one is going to come out of that action better off for quite a long time, and you will be hated by the other two. You can't force her to take responsibility, to realize anything, to do anything. You can only control

I just found out my wife cheated on me with eight different guys in a short amount of time because she said she was insecure. Does this even make sense and why? Wouldn't being insecure make you less likely to cheat?

Found in early February my Wife was having an affair with a former good friend. We were so close with this family. My wife and my ex-friends wife were even closer.Once things came out and they got caught essentially with their pants down, things obviously came

I just found out that my wife cheated on me with a family member. Should I forgive her or leave her?

Really, only you can make that decision. I can tell you a fact that cheaters cheat. There's no such thing as

I think my husband is cheating on me with a man?

Is it any worse happening to a man than a woman?Me...im openminded..i would be mad if he would cheat with a vagina...why is that any better than mine,right??A man ..i would ask him if he was bicurious,if he is bisexual,gay or whatever. Its something you guys shouldve discuss long time ago. Im surprised

If I catch my wife cheating on me, do I have to pay her a settlement at the time of divorce? How do I avoid the settlement?

Depends on the prevailing law in the place you reside and the law that governs you. In most cases, if the divorce is granted on the fault grounds, then the erring party is not entitled for any maintenance/ alimony post passing of divorce decree as the conduct of the parties is one of the important consideration.-

If my future wife cheats on me and we get divorced, what's the worst thing that could happen financially?

I hate cheaters, my fiancee never gave me a reason to be suspicious until i found her and her colleague at a romantic restaurant. she told me it was work stuff but something wasn't right. i was worriedi was referred to (cyberblaster at g mail dot com)

If you saw your friend's spouse in a romantic situation with another person, would you tell your friend, confront the spouse, or ignore the situation?

If I reverse the situation between me and my friend, I would not consider that person to actually be my friend - that is, in the true sense of what a friend is - if they did not find a way to

I've been cheated on by numerous partners even my husband, does this mean that there is something wrong with me? Should I have cheated back to even the score?

I doubt they cheated on you just to try and hurt you, rather it was for their own personal gain. If you were to revenge cheat, you'd have to do it for personal gain and not because you're trying to hurt them....they'd be pissed off, but not hurt.All the men who cheated on you are guys that

My husband said he's cheating on me and doesn't want to stop? What should I do?

That's up to you. He's already told you what he wants to do. so now it's your turn to make up your mind on what you wantyou have two choices here.accept that is going to continue to cheat on you and stay married to himor divorce his cheating ass and allow him the freedom to sleep with whomever

Should I cheat on my wife if she is constantly threatening to cheat on me?

Sure you should,then you should go home and tell her you did it because she wants to do it also. She will then go and do it and you can both live happily ever after!OrYou can be a grown up and work out why she is threatening to do it? Speak to her and work out together if

What are some tips for cheating on your spouse?

Well, I've met married guys in a section of town called

Why am I dating a married man?

This is a very complex situation, however, not uncommon. Despite all the condemnations, there is no easy answer because every situation is different.First is how did you two end up dating. I will assume there is mutual attraction. Second, from attraction comes emotional attachment. Third, when there is emotional attachment then there are no logical rationalization

Why can't I stop cheating on my husband?

Because you have no honor, your disloyal having no love respect for your husband. You treat him with such disrespect it's appalling. You send to have no conscious no self esteem. How would you feel if you were the honorable

Your wife had an affair and this affair resulted in her getting pregnant. She feels guilty and doesn't want to your to divorce her. Can your marriage possibly survived this? If so how?

If she has an abortion yes. You might be able to salvage the relationship. If not, then Jesus Christ no. Trust is the foundation and heart of all successful and loving relationships. She destroyed that and it's unlikely you will ever be able to trust her again or it will be a very very