Although I cheated on my husband for 4 years, I really love him and regret ever doing it. Now he's hooked and cheating on me with his female friend. What do I seriously need to do to get him back?

You destroyed your husband's self-esteem-in spades. He sought validation from another woman-and apparently is getting it.The first thing you need to do is profusely apologize for your past actions and to do damage control. You obviously never lifted a pinkie to restore his lost self-esteem.

Can a relationship get back to normal after someone cheats?

Normal?Look my wife and I have been trying to put the pieces of our destroyed lives back together after her indiscretions very early in our relationship and HOPE there will be a marriage there too. It's only been four years that we have been working on this.There is no normal now. I'm not

Can a relationship survive infidelity?

One of the most unfortunate things that can happen in a relationship is cheating or being cheated by your partner. While many couples see cheating as a deal breaker and part their ways, some decide to give their relationship another chance. Frankly speaking, it totally depends on you which way you wanna go. If you wanna give

Can an attorney be disbarred for cheating on his or her spouse or significant other?

No, assuming they did nothing illegal (and adultery hasn't been a crime in the US since the late 20th century).  I guess that could happen if the attorney lied under oath in a divorce proceeding (committing perjury, which is a crime), but I don't think that's what you're talking

Can an Indian wife forgive her husband after cheating?

Why specifically Indian? it depends on the person.. if she wants to, she can. If she cannot, she will leave and move on. Life is too short to be spent with unwanted people around and imagine having to live with one, it will be insane.Also, I consider marriage to

Can I win my cheating husband back?

Why would you win him back?To all the wives in this world: Why would you always make the effort to keep your husbands? Why would you keep someone who does not make the effort to do the same with you?What you need to do

Can infidelity be repaired?

I believe it can. If, and only if, both parties are willing, not only to forgive each other, repent (in a non religious way) and be forgiven, but are also willing and capable of looking long and hard at themselves and their actions past and present.

Can my husband forgive me for cheating on him?

That is a tough one. Each person is different, however there is a way to increase your chances of success. It is a lot of hard work. Here is a outline of what MIGHT work. Realize that your husband may treat cheating as a deal breaker and there

Can you ever get over your husband having an affair?

You may not get over it but you can learn to live with the knowledge. It's a terrible disappointment but it cannot spoil a good marriage unless both parties hold bitterness and anger in their hearts. Start talking to each other. Forgiveness may seem impossible but it isn't and this can make

Did your marriage become stronger after an infidelity?

I believe it could have. But she still is denying it because she is afraid for her persona or image to be tainted you could say. She has ALWAYS been the woman that would never do that kind of thing because of the character she cast herself as for years. So she went with Divorce and I found

Does a marriage stand a chance after an affair if the betrayed spouse polices the cheater and takes control of their life?

Not making it easy.This is the thing. You should NOT stay if there isn't any trust. When the conversation of getting caught and staying, something about trust has to have come up.It's very hard especially at the beginning to have any trust in

Had an affair. Now what have I got myself into?

It sounds like you said it was okay for this person to move in before really getting to know him. It just like I tell all the youngins when they're trying to get with their crushes, you've got to vet them before you actually make a decision to get with them and then you have to be willing to

Has your cheating boyfriend/girlfriend/wife returned, begging you to take him/her back? I'm so afraid of getting cheated on because I don't think I can take back a cheater.

I'm not exactly sure of your situation, but let me answer you this.Trust is one of the key ingredients of a healthy relationship. Trust is also like a glass panel: it can be broken once, after that it will never be repaired.If you are referring to taking back someone who has cheated on

Have you ever had a relationship with someone who was cheating on you, and everybody knew about it but you?

Yeah, My first love was stolen from me in High school, but not by cheating but hate and intolerance.Brian David Parry's answer to Who was the rudest parent you've ever met?But my second Love and she became my first

How to get my husband back when he cheated on me with another woman

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How to prove to my wife that I know she has been cheating on me

If you really are sure that she is cheating on you, the question is not how to prove it to her as much as what are you going to do to handle this piece of news. It is not about her now, it is rather about you. Clearly she made the choice

How to forgive a cheating husband

It's down to you, and your perspective.He is the same person he was before the affair, and I guess feels the same way about you, and regrets what he has done.He had the affair for a reason. It might not be a good

How to know if your wife is cheating on you

If she is acting out of the ordinary then she is. For example everytime she comes home she would rather to the washroom to take a bath above everything else.If she is having too many girls night out is one of the signs. There is nothing open at night besides bars, clubs and strip joints. So

How did you catch your cheating spouse?

Which one? LolFirst relationship (spouse), I was never exactly sure, but plenty of signs I was in denial about. Two purchases for spa/massage treatments on credit. I received only one. He said the other was for an old lady customer of his that'd been so nice. Umm-hmm. Also discovered computer conversations, plus he completely denied me of

How did you figure out that your significant other was cheating on you?

We were together almost seven years. Our relationship began in a whirlwind and we both felt that we had found our soulmates. She was recently pregnant (not mine) and I was recently separated. We promised to be together forever and

How did your marriage survive infidelity?

Yes, I can honestly say had it not happened we would be divorced because our marriage was a sinking shipmy marriage survived, the affair itself actually breathed new life into it. My wife and I were fighting all the time, our relationship turned into fighting roommates with sexual

How difficult is it for a woman to take back a cheating husband?

It happened last year when her work took my wife far from me for 6 months. I didn't find out until she told me she wanted to confess something terrible. She thought about not telling me about the incidence but the guilt was just unbearable. She told me over the phone. I was angry,

How to catch a cheating girlfriend

Wow, so I'm not trying to sell you a product or service ... let's get that out there first off! Sheesh!You could sneak around and go through their phone but do you want to reduce yourself to that? You could drive by their house or follow them three cars behind everywhere they go, but

How to catch a cheating partner

I think most people know in their guts whether or not their spouse is cheating or not. My question is, what is your intention? Are you going to leave him or her if you discover that they are cheating? Are you looking to confront him or

How to catch my spouse cheating in a long distance relationship

People find it hard to stay committed again. It's becoming a thing. Getting information & data you need is quite not a big deal. Sometimes the truth needs to be unveiled by whatsoever means necessary.The latter of the case should always be reckoned with, of which it would be known

How to check a cheating spouse phone without him knowing

Know someone who's been cheated on? Chances are, the answer is yes. In this day and age, cheating is more common than ever. With hookup apps like Tinder and hundreds of online dating sites, it's never been easier to cheat and get away with it.If your partner has a smartphone, or even just access to

How to forgive and stay married to my husband after he had an affair

Is staying in a marriage after an affair stupid? By Anne BerchtQuestion: Dear Anne, The issue that has concerned me currently is the constant political talk on the news of late, about spouses who decide to stay or reconcile a marriage

How to get over my husband cheating on me

This is a question that woman have been asking themselves for centuries. It's only in recent decades that divorce has really been an option for women whether their husbands cheated or not. While it's hard to believe in silver linings right now, the bright and shining

How to make my husband forgive me for cheating on him

If he felt for you like I felt for my wife before she temporarily annihilated me as a human by betraying what I used to consider the most basic point of trust, do not seek to get back to previous status. This does not mean you can't stay together. Ultimately staying together as

How to start to get over my wife's infidelity

I read your comments. And from those comments, it sounds like you are already over your wife's infidelity. You want her back. This is what appears to have happened in your marriage. You two started off on the same highway. At some point, she got on the slip road, so you were on parallel

How to cope with a lying and cheating husband

Find yourself a really good therapist, and work on discovering why you have such low self esteem. Only someone who truly believes they are worthy of a lying cheating husband, would want to learn to cope, and continue to put up with it, rather than kicking his lying cheating ass

How to forgive the person you love for cheating

YOU DON'T FORGIVE A CHEATER when they're the love of your life. You just TRY to forget about the damage and hurt they caused you.Some people just end the relationship and some, still in hope try to forget things and make it work. But

How to forgive your husband/wife for cheating on you

Infidelity is unforgivable.... but for once pause and think

How does a wife feel if her husband cheats on her with another man?

I can tell you exactly how I feel since this recently happened to me. After nearly 33 years of marriage, 2 sons, and 3 grandchildren, I found out that my husband, my best friend whom I trusted with all my being, was having sex with other men. I found out by looking

How does it feel to be cheated on by your partner?

Terrible. I was devastated.I am a simple, affectionate and a fiercely loyal person. I give all I have to all my relationships and my marriage was no different. I loved my husband and trusted him with my life and yet he cheated on me. He had

How should I appropriately punish my cheating wife, other than divorcing her?

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Dont get me wrong. I caught my wife cheating on me just a month after our marriage. It was with her boyfriend before our marriage. I was devastated. Completely. I gave second chance by giving her the benefit of doubt that may be it

I am a 32 year old married woman. My husband is having an extra marital affair with his colleague. How can I save our 5 year old marriage?

I'm not like most people here to say yay or nay b/c ultimately the decision is yours. It is a choice.  There is a reason for the affair. There is a problem with the marraige. Very simple. Happy people don't enter into affairs. If

I cheated on my husband. I had an affair with a guy who does not know I am married. I want to end this affair but am afraid that my bf might tell my husband everything and I don't want to spoil my marriage. What should I do?

I had the same problem except my lover knew I was married and he also knew I was unhappy so he was my scape from the unhappy frivolous marriage. We always had a crazy attraction for each other and even before I got married we had started meeting for lunch or coffe.

I found out today that my husband's best friend is cheating on his wife, who I am pretty close with. Should I tell her?

Wow. That situation really sucks loudly.For whatever little it's worth, here's a guys' perspective from someone who's been in your shoes and lost two dear friends because of it... this is one of those No Win situations, no matter what

I had an affair with a woman my husband thinks it was a man should I tell him the truth?

Yes. You have no choice but to own up to your indiscretion if you want to keep your marriage, and keep your faith in yourself. In the long-run, these types of indiscretions end up hurting you more than anyone else. The reason is clear, once you have had one affair, the next one becomes easier.

I still miss him. Even though he cheated on me. What should I do?

Nothing.There is absolutely nothing that you can do.Yes, you miss him. And it is going to be like that for a really long time. There are many sleepless nights yet to come. There will be those 4 AM awful times when you will need

If a husband returns after 10 years to find that the wife has moved on with someone else, is that cheating?

No. Not at all its not cheating..Why did the husband leave at all. It's husbands responsibilityto take care of wife and if the husband has not been with his wife for 10 years of she needing him. Then it's all right to move on and leave the idiot in the first place.So if

If one has an affair with a married man, does one tell his wife?

Question to this other woman..Has he been raping you?First off, the affair shouldn't have happened. But since there is no ideal world, it happens in the real world. Could even be for reasons held valid in some opinions.And if it does happen, the

If you found out your husband cheated on you with another man, how would you feel?

I heard about a young woman that came home early from work one day and caught her husband and brother sodomizing each other on the bed.She did not let them know she saw them.At the breakfast table her evil husband and evil brother acted totally innocent.. normal as if nothing had happened.That poor woman couldn't stop vomiting for

If your significant other cheated on you, would you give him/her another chance?

No I wouldn't!Once someone cheats, the all-important bond of mutual trust which is sacrosanct to any relationship - is broken irreparably, and there is no way back from it once it has happened. I've seen it happen many times between people I know and have even suffered it myself many

If your spouse cheats on you, and you decided to end the marriage, does that mean you could not forgive them or does that mean you can forgive them you just couldn't trust them again?

It's not about forgiving, you can forgive and divorce.It's not really about trust, because you can trust them and get a divorce.Forgiving and trusting someone is 100% a choice...Some people don't have the ability to move on, they dwell on the affair

Is cheating more compassionate than divorce?

If she was going to cheat, I'd want her to keep it a secret and not let me ever suspect. I'd much rather happily go along living in the belief that things are ok than become suspicious and start watching and catch

Is cheating on your wife/husband illegal?

What the HE/SHE is doing of having a haraam (an unlawful) relationship with a woman/man who is not his/her mahram is a betrayal of the rights of Allah before it is a betrayal of the rights of hiher partner. The Muslim is bound by

Is cheating worse than lying?

Nope. Not in my opinion. We pretend to be faithful humans and only hurt about the lies and deception rather than the actual act. It is societal inbreeding that makes us react horrified at the thought of least in public. But inside your own head as a unfaithful person or as a person who knows their

Is it true that if a girl cheats once, she will cheat again?

From my Professional experience I have to say that once a women cheats, especially a married one it is impossible to put the genie back in the bottle.Unlike a a guy who is at the wrong place at the right time, and

Is it worth ending a marriage over a husband's infidelity?

If your husband having sex with other women is not an issue to you, then by all means do not end the marriage. Agree to have an open relationship in which one or both of you can see other people and allow each other to be happy that

My best friend is cheating on her husband who I am having an affair with. Should I feel guilty?

Your best friend's action in no way absolve's you from cheating. You really think that because she's cheating, you have the right to cheat on your husband? The only one who's not cheating in this menage a' trois? Is your husband. You're a

My cheating husband is asking for a divorce. What should I do?

I am so sorry for situation you are going through and appreciate your decision to give your marriage chance.But wait a minute ,don't you think you should give a chance to re-think your decision .- He is already cheating you from past two and half

My husband cheated on me and claims that this is my fault. What should I do?

Get out of the relationship asap, in no way is it your fault. Did you find a woman and force him to sleep with her? Because that is the only way it would be your fault. Think about it, he's blaming you for his

My husband cheated on me like three times. Should I forgive him?

If he already cheated on you three times what is stopping him from doing it a forth time.The reason he keeps doing that to you is because you keep forgiving him. In my oppinion this would be the best time to

My husband cheated on me with another woman. He told her about my weaknesses so she asked him to divorce me. What should I do?

You can not change him. He is what he is and do not judge him. Just because you are married to him, you do not own him. BUT you do own yourself. Are you willing to accept his infidelity? I hope not. Do not play the victim. That keeps you in the rabbit hole. Think clearly. What do

My husband has a relationship with another girl, but I love him. What can I do now?

Is he in love with her, or is it just a fling?  By 'just a fling', I don't mean to minimize it, but there is a difference, and it could mean the defining factor for you.   Do you know if she's the first one he's cheated with?  If he is just having a fling

My husband is cheating on me, what should I do?

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My husband is having an affair and I know who it is, a 50 year old, and he is 29! We have a baby. How do I prove that he is cheating legally? Do I need to take pictures? What would you do?

So sorry.  Sin sucks.  It hurts us all.  Why do you need legal proof?  Perhaps your courts require it for divorce proceedings?  You would need a licensed, professional private investigator to provide legal testimony and exhibits to a court in my state.  This could provide a better outcome for you in divorce proceedings.

My wife cheated on me. Should I divorce her or give her one chance?

The short version, stay married.The long version...Put yourself in her shoes. You may not have cheated, but how many times have you looked at a woman lustfully, watched pornography, or otherwise committed adultery in your heart as Jimmy Carter would

Should I divorce my wife unless she agrees to stop cheating?

What Should I do when I find out that my partner is cheating on me?Should I divorce my wife unless she agrees to stop cheating?Peter Taradash, answers from Manila, 2-14–2019:The word

Should I forgive my husband after he cheated on me?

What you are seeking is an extremely personal decision that only you came come to terms with. Unfortunately infidelity happens and unfortunately happens often:(What you could ask yourself is.... Has my husband realized that what he has done was a grave mistake.. has he genuinely shown remorse for the hurt

Should I forgive my husband for cheating on me while we were still dating?

Cheating, whether you are dating, engaged, or married is an insidious behavior. It demeans the process of loyalty. And yes, a person who makes a commitment to you, in any phase of your relationship has promised to be loyal to you. It's like promising to buy a

Should I stay with my cheating husband of three years?

So sad that you need to ask strangers whether you should stay in your marriage. Only you can know whether you can get intimate with a man who is betraying your trust. He is a liar and a cheat. He has the problem,

Should I tell my wife I'm cheating on her with another married man?

Personally, I think you should tell your wife, and let her decide if she wants to stay married to you or not.Being transgender has nothing to do with this - you are cheating on your wife.Being bi-sexual has nothing to do with this - you are cheating on

What are sure signs that your spouse has cheated on you?

My wife was very sneaky and covered her tracks very well .. though it's been 5 years but still I get very sad and remember what I did to myself after I found out still hurts like someone poked my heart with a rod maybe because I loved her

What did you do to get revenge on your significant other for cheating?

First, by finding my own high quality house and closing the deal long before "the smarter of two of us" found hers. Next by having to co-sign with her so she could buy that piece of crap home she did. Then getting into a new relationship sooner than she

What is considered cheating?

Easy, when the situation is such that you would not engage in it in front of the person whom would be cheated on.Would you flirt like that if your significant other was right there beside you?Would you talk about that subject if your mate was there listening?Would you hold that embrace that long if your mate was standing

What is the best revenge against a cheating husband and his mistress?

A friend of mine told me this story years ago, not sure how true it is though.Anyway this couple is married, the lady has a corporate job and is always travelling. The husband is nice and supportive of his wife but has a young mistress on

What is the worst thing that can happen to a cheating man after being divorced by his wife with kids?

The question is:"What is the worst thing that can happen to a cheating man after being divorced by his wife with kids?"Wow. The WORST thing?What the heck, I'm in a dark place today...Let's assume that the divorce went badly for him: he lost his shirt, lost custody, lost the house, the car,

What leads to infidelity in a marriage?

Statistically married men cheat over sexual reasons, married women cheat over emotional reasons. In other words people cheat because they want to have sex with another body, or because they don't have sex in their relationship, or because they don't feel desired/loved by their spouse.I think

What should I do if my wife had an affair?

You have not offered much information – so, allow me to answer generally. You are asking because you love your wife ( or you wouldn't have to ask). At some point in the marriage, the two of you did not have a good,

What should I do with a wife whom I have caught cheating 3 times?

In part is depends on what the story is and why she is doing this. It also depends on why you are still with her. It seems to me you really only have two choices. This is often the choice in any

What should you do if you just found out your spouse had an affair more than 10 years ago?

Ugh. I had this exact experience almost a decade ago; 7 Feb 2009 to be exact. That was the night that I had decided to snoop on my wife for the first time in our (then) 9 year marriage. Of course, there were suspicions... more

What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Why would a person cheat on their partner?

I had been married for almost 20 years to my husband who I had been in love with for 25 years when I discovered that he was cheating on me.Usually when we make a joke about such things in front of friends, like when he used to playfully say that he is going

What would you do if your wife was cheating on you?

This is not hypothetical. It happened.First, she spent about five months villifying me, saying that she was

What would your husband do if he found out you were cheating on him?

He might feel as if the ground was knocked out from under him, decide he would ask you to leave, then totally change his mind when confronting you, and grant you the time you'll ask for to see if you want to stay or go.Then he'll continue paying for your spendthrift

What's the craziest excuse someone has given you after you found out that they were cheating?

Many years ago, I foolishly got engaged to a guy without really knowing him or his actual situation.I was a single mom with a young daughter. He was a musician who had come to perform at my daughter's school. We hit

When do wives cheat on their husbands?

I'm an escort and when I first started out I was really surprised as to the reasons why women cheat on their husbands, also in a country like India, where marriages are considered a pure bond. However, there were so many common factors, some I never really thought about but here are a

When you found out that your partner was cheating, did you blame them or the person they were cheating with?

Wanted to. Wanted to tear into him also. But that was my initial feeling until I saw my ex. She was cold and uncaring as I asked her why she was sneaking the neighbor next door, without an apology, explanation or

Why can women forgive their cheating husband, but men can't?

There are a number of interesting hypotheses here. I would like to add one more:Genetically, men and women couple to procreate. Unconsciously, both the husband and the wife want to perpetuate their genes. Their marriage brings their different abilities together to better ensure the success of both of their offspring.For the wife of a man

Why do husbands cheat on their wives?

I'm an escort and when I first started out I was really surprised as to the reasons why men cheat on their wives but there were so many common factors, some I never really thought about but here are a few.A) Surprisingly a lot of

Why do people cheat on their partners?

I must be one of those stupidest people on Quora who is giving a chance to everyone to grill, sit back and enjoy reading comments.But you know, it's okay. Quora does have people who write idealistic answers and I am sure, I am not one

Why does my husband's friend told me my husband cheated on me?

Because he wants you to cheat on your husband and have an affair with him. Had he been a true friend of your husband he would have kept mum in spite of your husband cheating on you. Or he would try to pull your husband back for that path. As of

Why does my husband want me back after he cheated on me?

Greetings of Peace;Your husband cheated, ok. Did you ever have a candid and open discussion about why he made such a decision? Did you discuss why he risked your relationship for something he had to know would be very challenging and painful for you? If you had the answer to any of these questions, are there a

Will I regret cheating on my wife?

Without going into a lot of detail, let me say that I was faced with a similar situation and went ahead and had the affair. I was very clever about it all; my inamorata knew I was married but my wife did not know I was seeing anyone. She had been accusing me of

Women who are married and love their husband but serially cheat, why do you cheat?

Married couples get caught cheating is very common in many Asian countries, if they get caught red-handed, the husband or wife who is the cheater will get punished or beaten up, they don't usually end up in divorce court, that is why you don't

Would having an affair myself help me to get over my husband's brief affair?

You are in a very complex situation.I have often stated my opinion on Quora, that a relationship without trust, is like a basketball game without a basketball.It is an empty gesture. A useless procedure of going through the motions.As I see it, you have two problems:1.A lack of trust in

Your wife had an affair and this affair resulted in her getting pregnant. She feels guilty and doesn't want to your to divorce her. Can your marriage possibly survived this? If so how?

If she has an abortion yes. You might be able to salvage the relationship. If not, then Jesus Christ no. Trust is the foundation and heart of all successful and loving relationships. She destroyed that and it's unlikely you will ever be able to trust her again

Do narcissists cheat on their partners?

ABSOLUTELY. Their insatiable need for supply and to flatter their egos and assuage the feelings of insecurity and shame drive them easily into infidelity. They will be ‘fishing ‘ constantly on social media and dating sites too, always looking for ‘better ‘ and ‘more ‘ and ‘just in

Is cheating on a spouse worth it?

Cheating is naturalPeople are sexually attracted to other people and being married or in some kind of committed relationship doesn't change that. While you can prevent yourself from performing the act of cheating with some discipline, it is very difficult to prevent yourself from thinking about cheating. You will very likely interact with other people in your life

What is the best revenge against a cheating husband and his mistress?

A friend of mine told me this story years ago, not sure how true it is though.Anyway this couple is married, the lady has a corporate job and is always travelling. The husband is nice and supportive of his wife but has a young mistress on the side he

I just found out my wife had an affair. What is some advice?

I realize some time has passed and this might be dated, but here are some thoughts after reading our post.  First, know that my wife had an affair that lasted 1.5 years that ended in the summer of 2013.  I won't go into the background of why and how it happened,

In a prior relationship I cheated and it made me feel like a scumbag. I don't feel like I'm a bad person per se. I have this overwhelming guilt. I've been dating my current significant other (SO) for a year. Should I tell him/her that I've cheated?

I agree with Wil Senger...initially.If there is a chance that your current relationship may meet your prior relationship and he/she is still hurt, your previous indiscretion may come back to haunt you. Be ready to explain in GREAT detail what lead you to cheat on your prior. Be ready to

My wife lied, is adulterous, has spread lies to her friends and family as to why she began an affair (although keeping the affair secret from her parents to the best of my knowledge) what are some options for how to go forward?

First off you have to realize that regardless of what kind of bullshit your wife is spreading about you, for the most part nobody gives a shit.  They don't want to hear it when your wife is talking about it and although they may act sympathetic to her alleged plight and blow smoke up

What is the best way to deal with a cheater? What do you do with the dog you got for him after finding out about his cheating? The dog did nothing wrong but I don't know if I would be the best option for being the owner right now.

Where would the dog be fed, safe, happy, taken care of, and the owner be happy giving it a forever home? If neither of you are this, perhaps a rescue may be the answer. Don't just give the poor dog to someone because

What should you do if you just found out your partner had an affair 2 years ago?

Understand yourself. First and before anything else. What is your reaction? What are your feelings? Red lines? Attitude towards forgiveness? Most people, including myself, do not have the discipline to form and keep to an exhaustive list of

A married man and a married woman are having an affair. Should I tell their partners?

Why should you tell their partners? It is not your business. You should never interfere in the married life of others. You are not doing it with the good  intention of saving their marriage, are you?The cheating man and woman will leave trails of their infidelity. They will