Tough question. Thanks for having the courage to ask it. Sometimes these sorts of issues arise and the offending party is often unaware. The real heart of the matter is
As someone who is just starting to date again after a long term relationship, what do you struggle with most?
I struggle with finding anyone dateable.My ex, for all his issues, was fun. Unpredictable. Smart. Romantic. Creative. Looked young for his age. Willing to try new things. Great sense of humor. We enjoyed just being together.As I close in on 50, living in a smallish city surrounded by rural areas, there's not much to choose from.
Absolutely! Otherwise I'm completely screwed.That said, it definitely can be more challenging. The specter of your abuse and your reaction to situations, as well as your various coping mechanisms, survive and cast a pallor over all your relationships.For instance, I have a tendency to withdraw emotionally from conflict. If someone raises their voice at me or appears
#Question name: Can a man come back to his wife after a divorce?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope you love it.1. Try to be adventurous in bedFirsst of all,
Normal?Look my wife and I have been trying to put the pieces of our destroyed lives back together after her indiscretions very early in our relationship and HOPE there will be a marriage there too. It's only been four years that we have been working on this.There is no normal now. I'm not
Shyness is not a disease, it is not something you inherit, nor a personality trait.Shyness is the feeling that you are inadequate in social situations. It is the feeling that you aren't good enough in social situations and therefore, you are better off keeping your mouth shut and let others do the talking.I bet you aren't shy in
You can't fix your husband only yourself. It might be that nothing you do can save your marriage but it's always worth trying. Think back to when you were dating or first married what things did the two of you enjoy doing together. What are things you did for him that brought you both close. I'm not talking
Hi,What I would like start by telling you is one of the key realizations I have had from my relationships. There is NEVER A TIME when both of you will be aggressively working towards the relationship. Once the initial excitement fades away and things start to settle down, we all enter
Divorce is one of the most traumatic events we go through, and when we reach the proverbial "light at the end of the tunnel," many of us feel that little spring in our step and start to think about dating again.So how can you start off on the right foot
If she wants you to leave her alone, leave her alone.If she wants to be with you (and you do too), then be with her.There's no inherent reason why you should behave a certain way in this situation, it all depends on how the two of you feel.Seems to me that you've treated
I spent a lot of time as a young man trying to understand relationships. It was a learning process. I learnt somethings and I still learn.It took me years. Hope this helps you I am blessed to share1. Be Honest
I am in a relationship when i was in class 10th and he was my senior in school. After completing his 12th he cleared CLAT exam and selected in NLU assam. All the problem started from here only. We both are immature and young. It's really difficult for
Obviously, attractive women and men are going to notice each other, but believe you me this is not always a good thing.We older women's mothers and grandmothers had a saying :"Handsome is as handsome does." This means that a man can be
Do you give your ex another chance, knowing that he thinks about his chances with other girls? Good question. At this point, you have a good idea of who he really is, and you are still considering it. You have to decide how you
Here are the scenarios1. You tell him and he doesn't mind2. You tell your husband and he get furious3. You tell him and he seems to be okay about it. When things aren't going fine between you two, he secretly checks your mobile to see if
Here is the true story one of my friend.They were into long distance relationship, beautiful couple, compatible , loving and partners in crime ( I think thats enough to understand that how much they are into n how Perfect they were)They got break-up both have their
Source: How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back: THE Guide To Win a Girl Back As Your GF or Wife 2018These 10 signs can help you know whether your ex-girlfriend wants to get back together:She stays in touch.She contacts you first.She waits a few weeks to
I wouldn't say this is the best position to be in. Your boyfriend obviously isn't ready to jump the broom. He's not even certain about how he feels about you. That to me doesn't sound like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. That sounds more like
In my case, yes she did come back.we were in a relationship for 3 years and suddenly she broke up with me.I was devastated and was in depression.I understood that now i have to help myself live without her, i was
Hey, first of all, trust yourself and your intuition.Here is the story: on of my friends loved a girl. She wasn't interested in him even in the least. She told him quite openly about that. That would be the end of it, had the guy
You're not a bad person for breaking up with somebody if the relationship didn't work for you. That's the sensible thing to do. And yes, it will likely hurt the other person if they are not in the same place, and they'll argue and
You are not ugly.Tell her she's beautiful and introduce yourself.Every single person in the world, no matter how beautiful or handsome you think they are, risks rejection when they put themselves out there. In order to learn to cope with rejection you have to practice practice practice! Talk to
Maybe you can educate me here, why don't you want to be obvious?What if your crush fancies you too but doesn't want to be obvious? You two could go around for eternity not being obvious, never realising and not getting it together!Ask them out already! Ask them
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Ok, that's it – you can't do it anymore. You're done. You've tried your hardest, but you just can't seem to make your marriage work. You want a divorce. But how do you start a divorce conversation with your spouse without devastating them
Do you have to label all of this as out of love? It sounds like you still really dig each other, but that you are just exploring other parts of yourself, how you interact with others, etc. I think it's important to have other friendships, interests, etc. outside your marriage.
Traditionally most people will answer you: you don't.I understand how you feel that's why I'm gonna tell you how. But before all that you should determine if your ex is worthy or not. Bcos once you get her (my ex is a girl, but its
I stayed in one until I married her from pregnancy. Lasted five years till I couldn't stand it. Was in another that should have gone nine months and lasted two years.I was not wanting to hurt their feelings and it was
Wow, so I'm not trying to sell you a product or service ... let's get that out there first off! Sheesh!You could sneak around and go through their phone but do you want to reduce yourself to that? You could drive by their house or follow them three cars behind everywhere they go, but
Me being a guy, I would like to ask you.have asked your husband for a second child?Mothers are the symbol of mamta ("maternal love", in India).A father might be not equal to a mother but again father is
Looks like you have almost made up your mind, and are searching for support what you have decided is right and want to move ahead with it.You seek marriage not a married life with someone whom you fell in love and it feels like you cannot even tell
Do you mean separated like one of you was deployed overseas for a year, or separated as in the first step towards divorce? It makes a difference. If this was a separation because of the military or work, I'd hope that being together again would relight your fire. Of course, veterans
This is what you have to do:Think long and hard about WHAT you want. I mean: Get a CLEAR picture of that husband. Think of age, looks, education, status and personality. Decide which properties are the most important to YOU and if you really need one at all. ;) Put a
It's taken a while, but you've discovered the person of your dreams. Or more to the point, you realized that the person of your dreams was someone you had been dating. With this realization, you've decided to try to win back your
Your heart is breaking. That's a fairly common denominator after a divorce or breakup. You even want to get him back. You still believe that he's the one. All you need now is to convince him that you're still the one for him.Unfortunately, your confidence, in the days and weeks following
Here are few ways which will help you get her back in your life:Get your life back on track.Getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and controlled. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life t So you've been in a relationship for some time,
I could be wrong, and I applaud the fact that you want to be involved in your child's life, but something seems to be missing here. Given the fact that you seem to have a great attitude regarding a relationship with your baby and the mother, it seems unlikely that she suddenly broke ties with you for no
When you have to spell it out to him/her..u shud know its time..When u find a need to tell him/her to care for u..to make u feel good ..unfortunately the essence is gone..thrs always a chance that u can improve upon things..and talk it out
I commend you for taking marriage seriously. All I can tell you is how I knew I was ready for marrying my wife.We talked about a lot of deep things. We are both Christians so we shared the desire to be Christ followers. We talked about raising children too. We
Okay, I am exactly that kind of guy! So I will give you my perspective.We usually don't talk much, because we are very straightforward and we just like to get straight to the point. We don't indulge in banter, because we are not
It is nearly impossible to make anyone do anything - unless you hold a gun to their head or threaten to torture them inside an old Iron Maiden you keep hidden in the basement.I am going to assume your husband is in good physical health, mentally stable, and able to secure employment and hold down a job. I
R u talking about rejecting this particular girl or any girl in arranged marriage.1.If it is this specific girl, then it should be easy for you, while talking to her , don't give any hint to her whether u like her or not. After 1-2 days, when
You don't. That's what most guys and even girls mess up in. They see someone they like and fill their head with the idea of love for this person. However, all it is - is an idea.Why? Because all the information are based on
How long have you been with the current girlfriend?How many times did you hook up with this other girl?Kids involved on either side? (Minus the new pregnancy).How far along is this girl in her pregnancy?What is she planning to do about the pregnancy?I need that
I would go to a therapist first. The person you're in love with is new and exciting and you have a different relationship with them because you're not married to them. If and when you leave your husband, you will begin an entirely different
When I met my husband I immediately felt comfortable. He talked about himself, was very courteous and never judged me. He took me and my daughter out to eat, gave us things he felt we needed like clothes and shoes. He wasn't rich but he was incredibly generous. I told him
How to handle moving past the cheating and giving it another chance? Should you give them another chance
While I don't believe in the term
Long term relationship thrives on:Mutual trust, respect, faithfulness, open communication, can be there for each other in thick and thin, to be able to be vulnerable to each other, can commit to the improvement of the relationship, appreciation towards each other, can laugh together, can handle silence, sexual and emotional
No eye contact, no touching, no calling, verbal abuse, no sex, no intimacy for prolonged periods of time. He doesn't say he loves you after you have told him so.Indifference is the coldest and cruelest way...not noticing you.He says one thing and his actions are no in sync with his words.Listen to your gut!Contact the YWCA (google
I have a big red flag; when you'd just rather not be around the person anymore (or the person seems to not want to be around you anymore). Say you agree to meet for something; dinner at home, whatever. The other person calls and cancels at the last minute...again. Maybe even
Everyone has their own red lines, obviously. And it's true that most people's red lines are in roughly the same area, but when they're crossed?...... that's not when it's over.It's over long, long before that. Unilateralism is the key here. How?Imagine that there is
All you need is to accept the truth.I can say this from personal experience.I had been in a voilent relationship for 2 years and every time I wanted to break up with him, he would apologise saying that he will change and would ask for another chance.I being completely blind in love kept giving
Spend time with your friends. Having conversation with other people keeps your mind off your ex.Find something outdoorsy to do. I have found that sunshine makes me feel less depressed. Exercise increases adrenalin level which would make you feel good.Finally when you are ready, meet new people. If you are at school, join a student club.
Well, how long did I think about ending it? From the first year we were married, 1975, until the day I broke free forever, May3,1983. In between those dates I endured beating after beating, unfaithfulness from him. I filed for divorce, had an affair
I have two answers to this question. How soon do I start SERIOUSLY dating after the end of a LTR? I take my time. I wait until I no longer feel that pull toward my ex, when I'm no longer feeling hurt or angry, and
We are missing a lot of data here.Is this a woman with whom you are in a current relationship? Then treat her like a Queen. Make her feel like she is the most valuable person in the world.But if this woman is just a ‘crush' that you really like and you
If you both have the understanding that your relationship will not lead to marriage, yes. Enjoy being with each other until either you or she decides to end it. There should be no hard feelings if she knows that you are not ready to get married, yet.However, if you haven't
How was the beginning of your relationship with your current long term partner? Did you click right away or not? If not how did you start liking each other?
I have been in three longer term relationships in my life and a few short ones.All of the long term relationships have had an instant spark. Almost an intitative connection that I would say was love at first sight. That said, I don't know if that is real. I suspect that it is a subconscious process of evaluating that
I don't feel any excitement when I'm with my boyfriend anymore but I don't feel like letting him go. I don't want to. Why?
When children get a new toy that they really like, at some point the initial excitement vanishes and they put it down. They seldom play with it anymore and they want something new.Sounds like your situation.Relationships mature. The initial attraction that a person has for someone doesn't always last. That's why its called
I don't want my girlfriend to be my future wife, but she thinks that we are going to marry for sure. What do I do?
WHAT.....?Not again.....I myself have been in that poor girl's position. I know how pathetic it is.It is inhumane.I do not understand why it is so complicated?A 'girlfriend' is not for giving you company, satisfying your masculine ego, emotional
I found out today that my husband's best friend is cheating on his wife, who I am pretty close with. Should I tell her?
Wow. That situation really sucks loudly.For whatever little it's worth, here's a guys' perspective from someone who's been in your shoes and lost two dear friends because of it... this is one of those No Win situations, no matter what
I got married this January, now my husband says thay he has a girlfriend and will marry her soon after divorcing me, what am I supposed to do?
I can truly understand lady what all you are going through. When your Mom has heart problem you fear of her death or illness when she comes to know of your disgusting husband .In india marriage is for keeps
I just found out my ex-boyfriend has started dating another girl a year after we broke up. Should I even try getting back with him?
When break-ups happen as you said it did, it unravels a piece of your life and makes you feel like a dangling thread. It's one of those threads that you fear to cut, because it seems right now too final a step to take.Yet, there's not enough thread there to weave it back
Why not? Religious laws were created long ago and do not account for today's modern culture. How religious are you? Do you live all aspects of your life strictly based on your religious law? Do you follow all the guidelines it sets forth? I'm not talking ‘do you
Considering this episode has happened once, as you have not given any other history of cheating or infidelity.This is a tough emotional situation and just probably, it may be just so that you are over-reacting. I am not disbelieving you, I understand the emotional upheaval this kind of situation creates.
Nothing.There is absolutely nothing that you can do.Yes, you miss him. And it is going to be like that for a really long time. There are many sleepless nights yet to come. There will be those 4 AM awful times when you will need
IME, the best thing you can do for the people you care about is to be the best you that you can possibly be. You can't fix her, you can only control your own behaviors, and one of them is to consciously manage your own boundaries When you hold
I think she has a new guy, but she's afraid to tell because it might hurt me. Do you have any advice?
I was in your shoes.In my mind I would replay my ex and his girlfriend breaking up over and over again hoping he'd come to his senses and come back to me.They broke up but we never got back together...Why?Because it was all in my
I tried dating a Taiwanese girl for four years and failed. Now I am jealous of interracial couples, particularly white male-Asian female and Indian male-Asian female. How can I get over this feeling?
Grow up, for goodness sake. You sound like a toddler throwing a tantrum because his mommy wouldn't give him a cookie. Adults accept that there are things in life they can't have. This also gives them the opportunity to go out and discover new things they might like now that they are mature enough to appreciate them.
Sometimes we fall for people we know we shouldn't fall for, but then we need to stop and ask ourselves if this is truly what we can allow ourselves to do.If you want to marry him, then tell him. Tell him you want to progress more in your relationship with him. If he says no, then you
Maybe it's because although he loves you and cares for you, he realizes somehow that the two of you are not compatible being in a romantic relationship with each other. Things like that can happen and some times people feel that it would be better to speak their peace and leave,
Your choices, as I see them based on available limited information, are:divorce: hope you can figure out how to select for "as good as my ex, PLUS ambitious" next timeacceptance: this man was good enough at the time I married him, and it didn't occur to me to
I'm 39 and my boyfriend is 44. He says he doesn't want another child, but I want to have one. Should I leave him?
Yes. He's 44 you're 39. Your window is closing and if you want children and he doesn't TRUST ME you don't want children with him. Three scenarios will happen.A. Most likely- You break you, you find a guy you love, you have kids, everything is great.B. You stay with him you don't have kids and you resent him
I'm a 22-year-old girl, and I told my parents that I don't want to marry now and might marry after 30 years, but when my relatives found out, they said my parents should take me to a psychiatrist. What should I do?
That one liner in Question Details is quite weird. You may love the idea of adoption but the guy who'll be spending rest of his life with you may not. Okay foolish things aside, I must tell you that most of the girls I know closely have Masters
My wife and I are best friends who happen to be married. With that comes mutual respect. Be your own person - be yourself. Don't change who you are for your mate, or be the person you think your mate wants you to be. Sure, some things are a compromise, but
Infertility can take you from I love you to Its not you, its me...Some couples coping with infertility are overwhelmed with grief or anger, and divorce is the only option. Can you save your marriage and do you even want to?See also: Getting Pregnant Naturally While
Many daters associate divorced people with excess baggage. While there can be some red flags (like if his relationship ended because he was unfaithful), people who've been through a divorce tend to have a deeper, more realistic perspective on marriage than those haven't.1. He's aware of his past mistakes and shortcomings. As a marriage unravels, "wives
#Question name: Is it possible to get your ex back after two years and an ugly breakup?TOP 9 TIPS TO GET YOUR EX BACK!Hiii friends, I checked all Quorra ansswers and best tips to get ex back on the internet as below. I hope you enjoy it.#1: CALL YOUR EX
Of course! My Grandparents were deeply in love with each other after 73 years. I find little notes that he wrote her all over the house and they're sickeningly sweet. Like the kind that a high school crush writes and slides across the desk. They had their problems. People do after that long. They had marriage
We all have needs ... physical and emotional needs . If you are a person who can manage his needs then obviously not ... if you think you can live alone to your whole life then ... not .Many people think that marriage
When it comes to times like this, the decision is extremely hard to make. Both loss & gain are at a level so high you don't know what to do anymore, because whatever the options you'll choose you'd feel like losing
Most of the other answers here are dense with moral judgment. It's up to you to decide whether you feel guilty. If you do then don't date him, period. No clever answer will alter the situation.However, removing morality from the equation, you
Short answer, Yes!As a survivor of an abusive marriage I can promise you 4 things...He will apologize and make you feel
Thanks for the A2A. It sounds like you may be grieving this break up, which is normal. And you may be hoping to get back together so that the sadness will stop, which is also understandable. Now is a good time for you to
Because he doesn't see marriage as a relationship of equals. It sounds as if he sees marriage as a support system for him, with your needs and desires as a separate issue that you can take care of yourself.You need to talk to him
My boyfriend broke up with me twice due to society pressures. Now he wants to come back. Should I give him another chance?
You already have the answer inside. You just want someone to agree and say what's in your mind. Life is too short too overthink. Just do it, whatever is in your mind. If he really wants you back then give him a chance. When he comes back make sure you make him
As I always say, I cannot give you advice but I can tell you my thoughts on such things. If a man cheats WITH you, he will cheat ON you. And this applies to women too! I am not gender
The fact that you ask the questions tells me you already know the answer. I have said this a thousand times. If you are in a relationship with someone who does not make you feel good about yourself, then you should not be with them. Even if
You should be true to your heart. If ambition and drive are an integral part of your identity and are things of utmost importance to you then obviously, you are not well matched. There will come a day when the disparity
My boyfriend tells me to grow out my hair and compares me to others. Now he's picky about what I eat. Is this headed into an abusive relationship?
He's a Control Freak! Move On with Your Life! I was in an abusive marriage (many moons ago). I met him when I was on tour. He was fun and silly and all things nice. Fat forward a few years later. He became someone I didn't know & I didn't want to know. He
My boyfriend wants to live in together without getting married but I wish to get married in a church first..how do I get him to change his mind?
You may not be able to change your boyfriend's mind at all. If your belief is strong enough, you must tell him you won't move in with him. If he cannot honor your wishes, perhaps he is not the right man for you.Your position is very honorable
He's had four girlfriends and other
My friend was not happily married because she was in love with her bf. She divorced her husband and married her bf. Suddenly after marriage her bf started behaving badly and accuses her every time. Should she get divorced again?
Your friend is a practicing hypergamist. She is Monkey branching from one man to the next. Everything in her life is based on emotion. So since everything is based on emotion ,that makes it ok in her mind to break her word because she
My girlfriend slapped me right after a verbal fight. I did not slap her, but angrily asked her to leave the room. Was it correct?
I actually disagree with many answers here. I'm expecting a tonne of backlash for what I'm going to post, but its cool, I just read James Altucher's blogpost on being a fearless writer, so today is my being-brave day. I think sometimes (regardless of the gender of concerned
Although there is no magic formula to stop verbal abuse, there is a formula based on simple psychology that can be used to end this destructive behavior pattern. To understand how this formula works we need to first take a look at the mechanics of verbal abuse.Every time a person verbally abuses,
My husband and I don't want to divorce but he says he wants to separate and needs time apart. I feel like this is just the first step towards divorce. How many people have separated and then got back together?
I am going through a divorce. My soon-to-be ex-wife filed for the divorce 4 months ago. We're done. There is NO second chance. My infidelities destroyed our marriage and another couples marriage. The last couple of years of our marriage was bad.My soon-to-be ex-wife did
My husband and I have been married for three months. He invited his ex girlfriend over for the weekend, and put her over me the whole time. He think he did nothing wrong. Is this evidence of cheating? Should I divorce him?
Hi,I am sorry but I am very confused after reading this question. So I will start with some of my questions to clarify the situation (pls don't mind if you find any of my queries or statement offensive I am just trying to help).First of
My husband does not want to move out of his parent's house, but I can't live with them anymore. How do I deal with this ?
Judging other questions things are a bit more complicated than just ‘my husband does not want to leave his parent's home'.When you marry you make a long term commitment to your significant other. Living together is part of this. And specially in early marriage it's easiest to spend this time with two people and
Relationships are complicated especially if both spouses are working or if they have children. Sometimes the right way to improve your marriage is to all take time off from stress by going to the beach, going on a hike or otherwise changing what you normally do.Because my husband
My husband goes out late at night and doesn't come home until 3 am. I ask him where he goes and he says to a friends. What should I do?
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDSMy EX husband did exactly that same thing. I was naive and thought he just needed some growing up to do .... 10 years later I was still sitting at home, now with 3 children, and he was still out
#Question name: My husband is cheating on me what should I do?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope