A divorced woman aged 35 years filed a petition against me, (age 24) that I used her, promised to marry and took money from her. What do I do now?
Your situation requires more background story. First of all, who is this woman to you in the first place, and how did you know her?If you don't know her: You made it sound like you don't know this woman at all and she simply appeared in
A girl I really like told me a while back that she likes me too. Then today she told me she didn't like me anymore and is talking to other guys. I have 4 classes with her. How can I get over her?
Girls notice a lot of things about guys that guys don't notice about themselves. It could be that you did something that offended her, or that you don't take good care of yourself. On the other hand, she could just be a shallow biatch. The best way to handle this
A man broke up with me after 3 months, which I feel like wasn't enough time for him to fully get to know me and all I have to offer. How could I stop being haunted by thoughts of what could have been?
Accept the truth.He doesn't want you.Guys are weird.They start out really liking you and then something suddenly changes their minds. Should they push through that and get to know you better...probably but you can't control that.There is NO could have
My ex divorced me, because I had a hard time getting along with her parents, and she used the excuse that
There are many techniques that emotional abusers use. I've experienced some of these before.The Cold Shoulder - they won't talk to you, listen to you, show no affection at all for a certain period of timeIsolation - they absolutely do
Let me tell you, unless you've been exactly there and lived it, no one could possibly know or imagine exactly how this wrecks your mind, body, spirit and soul. Especially if they were leading a "double life" so to speak, meaning they were telling you one thing
As per Hindu law, if a man and women get married they can further re marry only after ending their first marriage.So if a married man starts staying with a widow before marriage that amounts to illegality. So in order to start living with the widow is to end the first marriage.An expert
According to Indian law if a married woman living or marries other man without getting divorce from the first husband what will be the consequence?
Without divorce second marriage is an offence under section 494 of ipc. He/she can be live with him/her as live in relationship only.She may file a divorce petition before family court through power of attorney holder.1. You
Respected madam/sirExtremely sorry to note that you are thinking divorce with in a month ..Are you having stand by arrangements.. meaning some one waiting for you to come out of Marriage .?Divorce is start of new problem ..you have to again start afresh and how many times you
If you are Indian, and if you have not re-married yet, you can claim for maintenance, but you will have hard time convincing court why you did not ask maintenance for 10 years. If you already received cash as 1 time settlement,
The problem indicated in this question does not depend on the choice between love marriage and arranged marriage.It depends on the FALSE EXPECTATIONS of people, and this factor of false expectations can apply both to love marriages and arranged marriages.So the solution is
I suspect that the small differences between two people who are otherwise attracted to each other early in a relationship often seem to grate on each other and assume larger importance as the relationship deepens. They were charming at first, but now the fact that he doesn't like the way she
What causes a divorce after 25+ years of marriageWell, I was with my husband for 26 years, until one day when he sent me a text message that said he
Yes, You Should Go to Marriage CounselingIf you go to any kind of counseling, you know there's a brief hitch in a conversation whenever it comes up. Even if you just casually drop that you had a counseling appointment the other day, the person
It's great to see people wanting to know is it possible to get back together with an ex. It's great because this means that people realize how important it is to have loved and lost. Millions of people across the world don't realize how important relationships are, but they do know that it can be hard
I was single for three years. I had dated some and decided I did not like dating in middle age. If you dated me, you paid for the date. I felt guilty that a guy was treating me and I had no desire to pursue a
If you really love him that love never really goes away. But ways you can move on is first of all accepting the divorce, and not hold any negative feelings for yourself nor for your ex husband. Focus on all the things you gained and learned throughout the years
This is a complex question. Most couples address this paramount decision before marriage. Since you are past this-it seems like you, both, need to make a dicision. Parenting is not something to "do" under pressure-it's very challenging and NEVER ending. If your husband
I am not your lawyer, I am almost certainly not licenced in your jurisdiction and this post is not legal advice.I do not know where you reside. Laws differ from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. I note you use the term
If I understand your question correctly you're asking me if I would remarry after getting divorced a 2nd time. My answer to that is an emphatic
After divorce, should the parents and/or siblings of the ex-husband continue to pay alimony and child support to the ex-wife if the ex-husband dies?
First determine what is the likelihood of this.Many terminal illnesses today are curable or can be put into long remission, eg. cancer.An organ transplant might solve the pressing health problem.No, the family of the ex-husband will not do it except if they are extraordinarily kind.You
After divorce what is the healthiest way for a couple to put their marriage back together? Both regret the divorce
If both of you regret the divorce and want to be back again. Congratulations. Nothing is tough after this. Work on your differences. Most of the time in divorce, the actual issue is never addressed. Mostly people are so entangled in their blame
It will change yes because you are no more
Sounds like a beautiful case of insecurity here.1>Set some serious rules and stick by it.2>Use dramatic approach like Amitabh Bachchan : Aey!!! Mere maa baba k khilaaf ek shabd bhi bola toh mere se bura koi nahi hoga....ahaha.3>Sometimes parents can be
Although I cheated on my husband for 4 years, I really love him and regret ever doing it. Now he's hooked and cheating on me with his female friend. What do I seriously need to do to get him back?
You destroyed your husband's self-esteem-in spades. He sought validation from another woman-and apparently is getting it.The first thing you need to do is profusely apologize for your past actions and to do damage control. You obviously never lifted a pinkie to restore his lost self-esteem.
Among the men whom beautiful women want to marry, do some of the men not deserve their beautiful women?
Women will marry good looking and not so good looking men. That is just how it is. Why? Because the man is a good provider, or works his best to provide and be a good friend and protector to the family he wants to make with that woman. Women
The question and its description clearly shows some grave misconceptions that you have. Unfortunately, many people share the same thought.First of all, please don't think that people go for arranged marriages after getting rejected lots of times. In fact, such cases are really rare and there is a huge number of
No. At least not in the sense that there is any causal relationship.There's a common myth that cohabiting before marriage increases your chance of getting divorce. This story has circulated widely for 20 years, but it's based on really sloppy statistics.It's
One of the difficulties in doing a good statistical analysis of this is in defining the appropriate control group. I don't think that just pre-nup v no pre-nup would give correct results.For example; perhaps those who would consider a pre-nup already see
It really depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of girl you meet. When I was growing up, I was a sad depressed kid. I did well in school. But I always felt extremely lonely. Negative
Yes! Many women love fat guys, and honestly don't even care or notice. Some do, but not all.Here's an answer from a guy who started out fat, and became filled with muscle. And had fat friends, buff friends, skinny friends, gay friends, straight friends,
Marriage in India is much more about binding families, and much less about personal choice and fulfilmentIndia remains a highly traditional society. Marriage is much more about binding families, and much less about personal choice and fulfilment, than in most other parts of
That is such a weird question! Why would it be a problem? People can marry anybody they wish to...Maybe you are referring to immigration and citizenship issues? I doubt there are any laws against marrying somebody from a different country. Immigration can be easily handled by a lawyer and citizenship takes a couple of years
I was a Japanese wife, though I am not Japanese. I experienced infidelity in my marriage which is what led to our divorce. My husband was trained by his father, who cheated on his wife on- goingly, and his friends, who encouraged him to see prostitutes in college. I
First I want to mention I am not against Husband but just to give a glimpse I am penning down some facts which people should know--( including girls who worships their shitty husbands).Most of the times women get abused specially in North and East states. I found South Indian Women
In general, what makes a woman beautiful is her fitness for reproduction plus a bit added for the eccentricities of style. So a woman in good condition is probably a good sign for reproduction; the same is true of a man from the perspective of a woman.And even though there
Research has consistently shown that men benefit from marriage far more than women do. I know I will get attacked by every red piller/MRA/MGTOW on the planet but you can't argue with the data.-Married men are healthier than single men. The same is not true for women.-Married men make more money and get promoted faster than single men.
Men have a much higher rate of suicide and depression than their married counterparts and divorced women.Men's Health - How Divorce Affects Men Emotionally and PhysicallyThere are potentially many reasons for this, but the clear obvious reason is men are far more likely to be pressed into financial servitude than women.Dads Represent 85%
Personally, I think women are more beautiful, at least from a purely aesthetic perspective.On a more objective level, well, things get a bit more complicated. There doesn't seem to be a scientific consensus on this, and our conception of beauty, like most
At first I thought of responding with some sort of joke answer, because it is a strange but interesting question that cannot really be answered. Then reading Gwen's answer, a good one, I realized it could be taken seriously.
From The Financial and Emotional Realities of Divorce For Women:90% of divorced mothers have custody of their children (even if they did not receive it in court)60% of people under poverty guidelines are divorced women and childrenSingle mothers support up to four children on an average after-tax annual income of $12,20065%
I feel the same thing for someone, these days.So I think I am well-placed to answer your question.You see, your feelings are creating dependance towards the person you love.This dependance is as strong as your feelings for him are. And so, you feel lonely, unhappy, left out when you are not the center of his attention.So that is the
Healthier than what, exactly?Healthier than randomly hooking up with strangers? Physiologically safer. Psychologically preferable for me. I don't like the risk. Others might prefer the thrill of the unknown.Healthier than celibacy? Physiologically riskier (generally.) Psychologically preferable for me. What can I say? I get horny.Healthier than
I was a single divorce attorney for awhile until I moved to another area of practice. It did make me skeptical of marriage. Partly because of the way the soon-to-be ex spouses used their children to hurt each other, but even more it was that many of my
Yes it would. I am not considering the population fluctuations or rate of bachelors/spinsters against married couple. These numbers will have a huge impact on the divorce numbers too. Lets assume these factors are not varying and only other socio economic factors are. Even in this case divorce rates will still increase.
Sure, reported reasons for divorce might be lies or face-saving exaggerations. They are interesting in a voyeuristic way, just as reality television is. It only matters for entertainment value. Please note that the newspaper report was reported in a newspaper. This means it was worthy of note and not a typical divorce story, but
Of course.I try to never lie personally, but sometimes little lies are harmless.-spouse gets an article of clothing that they love and are very excited for, but you just don't like-
Are there any significant differences in the divorce rates of marriages from offline dating and marriages from online dating?
Yes, there are. We (eHarmony) just completed two studies with Opinion Research Corp. looking into this and found: * A few ways of meeting do affect your divorce risk. There were 67% fewer divorces than would have been expected (based on share of marriages in the
Are there ever situations where a married man deeply loves another woman and becomes unattracted to his wife but doesn't leave his wife?
Yeah, that happened to me. With a woman in our neighborhood.Why stay? The kids, because my wife has been a good wife, and she didn't deserve it. Because the other woman's (the OW) views on guys who leave their families are not admiring and
May be its because she is also worried about your future. May be she is feeling as what if you will find another gf? You just can't say that these are the signs of breakup. You should talk to her about this. Ask her clearly that why she is thinking like this. There
Are victims of emotional abuse more likely to choose emotionally abusive partners in subsequent relationships?
Yes, it will very much play out that way.....especially if the victim never receives
Considering the Case for Early Marriage sparks debate amongst many people and to be honest, I think it boils down to whether or not you truly love each other. My husband and I met in high school, fell in love, and married at 19/20. We've been married for 20 years this June and let me tell you,
Some Indian women are attractive. In my opinion, the ones that directly from India are the ones that are attractive. They come over here with those colorful gowns and makeup and it makes them look nice. Even though they seem to be educated and attractive, I personally would never ask one out or date one. Their beliefs, morals,
Insecure people are jealous of other people. Wives, husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends, unrequited crushes, complete strangers--people in general feel jealous when they feel insecure, fear abandonment, or feel they might lose something they feel entitled to.In my experience, secure people tend not to feel jealous. This has nothing to do
Well, questions like this are always VERY complicated, because people are complicated. So while it's true that yes, some women will always love shy guys, a trend amongst women seems to be the following (at least in dating): women in their
YES i did ...and i m happy that i didi met my wife when i was in my 2nd year of graduation since then she is the only women form whom i had my eyes for ..i loved her more than i love myself some of
Whenever we listen to the stories of the people who are in the divorce conditions, we probably ask them with one question that is they happy much by getting through tough divorce situations. Most percentage of the people will rather be saying it as yes. If
This question hit home for me.I'm surprised at the people who suggested to not date someone due to age differences because
As a 24 years old girl, soon to be pushed into an arranged marriage, should I just accept that my husband would someday fall for another woman and make peace with it?
From where will you get this kind of ideas??This is called negativity. Even in your guessing you can't see positiveness?Anyway you don't know, what surprises your life will bring. Then think of rainbows instead of jolts.There is a story. A man full of negativity asked a pandit . I want to offer a flower garland
‘Nothing super weird in my experience. About as ridiculous a
I had just lost my black lab to lung cancer who had been by my side for 14 years, even before I had met my wife. And then two weeks later I lost my cat who had been right there as well he was 14 also. I am a very softhearted guy especially
Ambition has its role in life, I'd say. Being a highly ambitious person makes you more likely to take opportunities where you find them, and work towards opening new opportunities. At least, from a lifestyle/work mindset.There's nothing particularly wrong with having a lack of ambition. It changes your mindset to make you more
I myself belong to a baniya family. And I have undergone a few of this. Nothing will happen unless the women themselves want things to change. You as an outsider cannot go and fight with their family members. While it will
There are two types of men who ask this question: good men and bad men.So many people, when they see a question like yours (i.e.,
Toxic femininity.Yes, femininity can be just a toxic as masculinity. But let's set a couple of definitions, to help keep things focused.Like its masculine counterpart, toxic femininity is the twisting of the natural evolutionary patterns of behavior and biological programming in a direction that is coercive and destructive.
I have a a few.
Yes, I did.Some backgroundI met my then husband where we were working together. I fell in love and everything was perfect, one of the things that I fell in love was the fact that I could trust him with everything. My secrets, my
I got engaged, I think at 13 to a wonderful man. He asked me to marry him in a series of questions. Like this: what is your fave color? where would you like to live? what is your fave sport? How many kids do you want? Then, do you want to get married? I said yes. I meant, yes
As an attorney, have you handled a divorce where the parties got married again after they were divorced?
Yes. I happens. I knew one couple that married and divorced numerous times. They could not stay away from each other but when married they could not get along. I suggested to them to stay away from each other because it seemed like theirs was an
As an Indian living in the EU who have suffered discrimination and racism heavily on an everyday basis, I think it is normal for Indian men to seek White women for marriage to atleast give their kids, a genetic advantage. There are other factors like female to male ratio - less number of women for Indian
As someone who is just starting to date again after a long term relationship, what do you struggle with most?
I struggle with finding anyone dateable.My ex, for all his issues, was fun. Unpredictable. Smart. Romantic. Creative. Looked young for his age. Willing to try new things. Great sense of humor. We enjoyed just being together.As I close in on 50, living in a smallish city surrounded by rural areas, there's not much to choose from.
At what age did you get married? And how did you know that was the right person to marry? Does everyone eventually settle down and get married?
There is no age for marriage. Some get married when they are 16 and some at 49 or even 56. Not everyone wants to be married. They get tired of dating wrong people and choose to be alone. Some are too indepenedent minded to let anyone
I'm going to answer this question as a lesbian, to put some perspective on things.I check out women of all ages, colors, and shapes. I ogle away. Sometimes I leer shamelessly. Sometimes I tell them they look pretty, and when I'm feeling sassy, I may say something like,
Age 23-25Most probably you would have started earning.Sexual energy, excitement, stamina are at peak you will enjoy your sex life the best.Irrespective of natural looks your youth is at it's best during this age.You would bond really well as you guys would mature together.You won't need IVF for kids, fertility issues and medical conditions would be
When I decided to take the blame so she stays happy.I am an Indian guy, 24.During my Engineering days in my third year, I was introduced to a girl who was a year senior than me through our common friend. She was pretty simple, smart and good looking girl but I wasn't attracted to
tl;dr - when I felt we worked through life well together; when God opened doors I thought were locked; when I felt loved so much I was free to be vulnerable.I had my first
At what point is it time to walk away from a long term relationship when you love that person but realize you are incompatible?
A difficult yet a necessary walk out:After being in a long term relationship, a person kind of gets used to the other person, both- the likes and the dislikes and all the small and big things that matter to the significant
Yeah, I understand you. I was a
Yes, of course.When I was 39 years, 3 months, and 16 days, a girl I had known for about 3 years asked me on a date, she was 18 years, 1 month, and 6 days old. I was her first date, first kiss, etc. 86 days
I'm going to agree entirely with @Jamal Hussein and @Raf Akan on this matter.As a disclaimer, I am not Bangladeshi or of Bengali origin, though for the past few years I have studied the culture of South Asia in general and
If the uncle is the blood relative of the boy, then sure, the boy could marry the uncle's former wife after the uncle and his wife had divorced. Family holiday dinners might be a bit weird, however.If it's the former wife of the
If you read closely all the answers from these Islamic readers you will get two things. One: You may not marry your sister of your mother or father. Two: You may marry your sister or brother if the father has not married the mother. So, of we look at this closely we will find the following. Man
Mine did. If a covert is truly capable of some kind of love I believe she felt it at times, but it came in cycles. Typically it went in the classic love bomb/abuse/discard cycle, except instead of completly discarding me she'd have a failure to launch and change her mind. Or
It would be in the divorce decree (settlement agreement).Before I got divorced, I called my pension fund and asked them about changing my soon to be ex-wife as a beneficiary. They said I could do it at anytime.I then asked well
If the love was real, I'd imagine it could take a little while longer.Or you can experience what I experienced. We dated in 1989 for 4 months, while in college. I was 23, she was 19. We stupidly broke up, motivated by my fear of commitment.
Absolutely! Otherwise I'm completely screwed.That said, it definitely can be more challenging. The specter of your abuse and your reaction to situations, as well as your various coping mechanisms, survive and cast a pallor over all your relationships.For instance, I have a tendency to withdraw emotionally from conflict. If someone raises their voice at me or appears
In Islam it is prohibited..this provision is to make Talak a serious issue.In most of other religions ,it is possible but before Divorce relationship is distroied to the extend that both do not wish to see each otherOnce Divorce is granted person feels relived Sometimes they do not want to remarry also ..In Europe,break is celebrated and party organised
Sure, you can ask for almost anything. That doesn't mean you're going to get it. If a husband and wife are living in the same house, they're both entitled to stay in the residence. Either can ask the other to leave, but neither is obligated to do so. If there's a divorce, the courts
I work in the field of infidelity, so I've heard this story from a variety of husbands.Often the story starts out like this:
Not a chance in the US. Our
Officially yes. Section 497 IPC can be registered against the lover.However unofficially No. 99.99% cases will not be registered by the cops who will insist that the case be filed as a PCR with magistrate , so that FIR can be registered
Maraige is a divine institution although sometime over hyped topic still this should get highest priority. When two people are involved in decisions should be taken mutualy. Both should be agreed upon and no one should force or influence their decisions.In india major problem is
Sure anonymous, go right ahead, but just know this, there will be consequences for slapping Mrs. anonymous.You can end up being charged, and arrested for domestic violence, and then find yourself in a cell with a much bigger guy who will probably
By Divorce Notice, I'm assuming a Contested Divorce filed by either of the spouse.Yes. Despite the notice and pending Court case, both the parties can live together. There is no legal objection to the same.The husband can also opt to move out and live in a separate accomodation till the pendeny of the case.The wife too
Yes. It would seem the first question could be summarized like this, can one person love two people at the same time? Sure. I have four children and I love all of them. I'm not certain I understand how that's any different than saying I could love two women at the same time.You did say love and
#Question name: Can a man come back to his wife after a divorce?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope you love it.1. Try to be adventurous in bedFirsst of all,
Can a man committing adultery with a married woman be forced to marry her if the woman wishes to marry him after divorce with her husband?
It would be foolish to believe that the man who has been commiting
Alsalamu AlaykumIn accordance with Islamic rules, a man is allowed to divorce his wife even though she is pregnant. Another case which is important to express in this regard refers to the matter of her 'Iddah. sheikh zein al-din ameli says:"وعدة الحامل وضع الحمل أجمع
Yes! My husband and I have a happy marriage of over 17 years and counting; we've brought five children into this world together, four of them still living. My husband is in love with his girlfriend of two years and shares a son with her who will turn a year old soon.
Divorce anywhere is NOT hard. It can be annoying to handle legal matters of the divorce, but if a guy or girl doesn't want to be with their spouse anymore, they can easily leave. The divorce will come naturally afterwards, and if they don't care about the legal matters, they can