If you really love him that love never really goes away. But ways you can move on is first of all accepting the divorce, and not hold any negative feelings for yourself nor for your ex husband. Focus on all the things you gained and learned throughout the years
This is tough. I'll start by saying I am VERY pro-choice.If you are considering aborting this child because the MAN is no longer going to be in your life then - and I say this with no judgment - it has to be considered that you don't want
I'm not sure there's a very satisfying answer to this question, but since I was asked to answer I will share some observations that aren't elaborated on in the other answers.
Respected sir ,I am a trained professional social worker and my professional responsibility is to see that problem is resolved, relationship repaired,and both are adjusted well ..It is a good situation having full chances to avoid Divorce.. Kindly note divorce is not a solution but start
Thanks for the A2A.You can represent yourself in most districts in the United States. The real question is: Should you represent yourself? If you have been married a short time, have not accumulated any wealth, own no real estate, have no financial holdings whatsoever and do not have any children; then yes, you may be able
All our clients have a perfect customer support and in-depth instructions concerning how to file for the divorce.Are you in debt because of how much your ex partner took from you during your divorce? Then you are in luck because I
If the marriage is not registered than anullment is possible.If it is registered, than only by means of mutual consent.If you wanted to get divorce right after marriage then why you got married?And if this was something kind of agreement then it could have been done before
I am assuming you are female.According to my knowledge , in Arabic countries you can.Depending on the reason it may be a divorce or an annulment of the marriage.I would assume you could world wide.Speak to a Lawyer.
Did you ever have a spouse talk you out of filing for divorce and then they turned around and filed for divorce from you?
Nope... once we started down that road we finished it.My divorce became final in Valentine's Day.... To my surprise and laughter, while she hated that.If you want yours to do the same make sure all your papers are filed with the county clerk's office on August 14th. Six months later it becomes final.Badda-bing! Badda-Boom!
The possibilities are numerous but I think there are a few that are consistent in the situation you describe. It could be that he desires to communicate with you more. For example, if you shut him out (not saying you have) and the only way he can get you to engage
It didn't for me.I believe it CAN work, and I am all for it, but it is a hard road to walk. It is not enough to believe in change, to have a vision for change, or to have a plan for change.You actually have
I have, twice. Both times I used the same people, Divorce with Dignity, in the SF Bay area. Basically in California if a divorce is amiable, i.e. no children and no property issues then it's mostly a matter of filling in paper work and they, DWD, help you through all that. There are of
I had a best and a worse. Not planning on ever getting married again so perhaps someone else will be able to help you with a typical.Best was about 25 years ago. Uncontested. We agreed on everything and had a lawyer write it
Answered from an Indian perspective.Now a days, below is the tried and tested strategy(endorsed by lawyers) that most urban, educated and
I am puzzled by
Ask him for the divorce papers, like the order and decree of divorce issued by the court, you can confirm the facts about the divorce from the court records yourself or through some lawyer of the state where the divorce process took place.
#Question name: How can I get divorced from my husband 1?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope you love it.1.
Why would you feel like you needed to cling onto something or someone that hurt you from the past? It ended. It's over. Rehashing/opening up old wounds from a previous relationship and/or divorce would complicate your life and setback any progress or any chance for you to heal from such an emotionally draining and emotionally traumatizing event in your
Well you were specific what you didn't want to pay for but under Pennsylvania law here's what would happen,Starting with Alimony if you can prove the other party was at fault it won't be order. You say she committed adultery even if you can prove it but the court says it's only indignities. That's a fault ground so
My husband wants a divorce, go on, say the words, my husband wants a divorce. Coming to terms with reality will make you more inclined to save the marriage. It will take work but love is worth the effort. You might have all the willingness
Kindly study before thinking of divorce.Most of the young couple are unaware of the intricacies of a happy marriage.Prudent to study intricacies of happy marriage/relationship/cohabitation, so that both of you can keep happy for life. Any glitch arising @ a later date
It was a gradual realization, after we were separated and had filed for divorce. She wouldn't do her paperwork, so the divorce could move on. She told my aunt she wanted to reconcile, but she couldn't tell me, and he hadn't done any of the personal work I needed her to do in order for us
I am so sorry you are facing this heartbreak in your life. And I pray you both have sought counseling and support to see if perhaps the marriage can be saved.However, if divorce is the only option after all efforts to save the marriage
Consider these factors:1) Is your divorce amicable, or will you be battling out property division in a community property state?2) Do you have children with your spouse?If the answer to either of the above is
How to find financial records and personal information on my husband before he files for divorce or finds out if he has filed for divorce
First, you are entitled to gather up and compile and copy any documents that are marital documents. They are marital property. Things like joint tax returns and bills, mortgage and insurance and bank statements in both of your names. So if they are in a box
First of all, you need to see a lawyer. Your friend or sibling who went through a divorce, your uncle who is a non-family law attorney in another state, your friend or family member who worked or works in a law office, your hairdresser, your mechanic, and your colleague, are not the best sources for
How to get a divorce done legally if my wife lives out of India and does not want to come to India ever
The Family Court where you file divorce petition against your wife shall send court summons through ministry of law and Indian High Commission in the country where she is presently living. If there is any local address in India where her parents live can also be given
You don't need your husband to be in India for a divorce. You can file for divorce in the district family court where you reside in India on the ground of cruelty and desertion against your husband. Where you last resided together or
R2A.Well, if you do not know where your spouse is..send a notice to her permanent address, which I assume you definitely know. A lawyer should be able to guide you better in this regard. Serve her summons through a lawyer, you might
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When you are no longer angry or resentful.When you have sought to understand your partner and where they are coming from.When you have done your own work on yourselfWhen you are happy on the insideWhen you have learned how to communicate, understood your partner's love language, matched
How to know if my depression pushes me to divorce, or on the other hand I'm depressed because I want to divorce
If the depression is clinical, then you first need to have it treated. Because if it gets worse, you could hurt yourself and/or others.Once you have cleared it, you can take a fresh look at your marriage and have an objective assessment of it. Keeping in mind that your
One wrong step by a spouse ruins a marriage, and cheating is one of the main reasons of several divorce cases. It not only ends a marriage but leaves the other person totally devastated.Cheating has been stated as a ground of divorce under
I have test the cruel of this world since my age 19 years, Im dating an african man . And really in love with him. Because that time he really show his love and attention to me. He never show something wrong and our relation so happy.Until I
How do I survive divorcing a narcissistic husband with 2 small children?Will you or your children survive if you stay in the marriage?Who will you be if you stay in the marriage?How will the children be damaged over the years you stay?Only you know how dire the situation is, but it is not
How to tell my husband I want an open marriage or a divorce because I'm so unsatisfied with him in bed? How to do this without hurting him too much
There are two points here I want to discuss before I get to my advice for you:Sex is not the point of marriage. If your satisfaction with marriage is dependent on your satisfaction in the sack, you're missing the point.An open marriage would not be the answer
You can tell her you want a divorce however you want to tell her... but whether or not she leaves the house is not up to you. You may be the one who has to leave the house, so before you tell her you want a divorce you might
That's an excellent question...I'm still trying to figure out how I'm going to get over 32+ years of my relationship/25+ years of marriage to my husband who abandoned me for another woman (which he decided to seek out online and continue to have an affair with for over
A similar question might help: how do you know if your car is heading toward a collision?You don't, exactly. But you certainly can learn about behaviors that increase risk and skills that reduce risk. You can learn to evaluate road conditions and modify driving appropriately.
I'm not an adult yet, but I'm a girl and I know what I would want a man to tell me if I was married-Be direct, but not aggressive.Of course, this is going to upset her. I guarantee you. There's
How is it even possible for someone to divorce and part ways after a five year marriage and many years living together before the marriage?
I would think the relationship didn't survive the transition from recreational sex and playing house to committed relationship and the serious commitments and responsibilities of marriage. Perhaps on partner wanted to grow up and live like adults but the other continued to play games and party on. You changed the premise of a
As per my views it depends on the standard of a lawyer and area of Court if you are going for the mutual divorce usually it costs in rural areas 8k to 30k and in urban areas 25k to 3 lakhs,every lawyer charges his/her fees as per his/her standard. For further consultation mail me firstname.lastname@example.org
To get divorce when partner, I assume partner means legally wedded wife. It is not easy to get divorce when partner is not ready. If you file a Petition for Divorce then you will have seek divorce on some grounds. They
How should a divorced parent respond to an ex-spouse who refuses to help pay for their child's college?
I expected this is what would happen and I was not surprised. About the only aspect of our divorce that he actually did was pay child support and alimony. And that was because I had it done threw probation since
The best way to rid yourself of a disabled wife is this:Take out a life insurance policy on yourselfGet hit by a busNow, to be fair, this won't be a lot of fun for you and probably isn't what you had in mind
How should I tell my husband I want a divorce? He is becoming too hard on the kids and particularly sexual with another woman.
I think there are 3 main types of divorce: the one when both parties agree, the one which one party cannot contest and the one which both parties disagree. The first 2 are really just getting the paperwork filed. The
How unheard of is it for a person to have to divorce their spouse a second time after the other spouse had the divorce declared 'null and void'? Details in comment section.
It's not especially unheard-of for a divorce decree (or any court order, really) to be vacated. It doesn't happen often, but I've been involved in several cases where this relief was requested and granted.An order can be vacated for various reasons; the way these reasons are couched and presented varies widely from state to state,¹ but
I am a 35-year old Indian lady who has just concluded a very bad divorce. Will I be able to find the right husband after divorce from an abusive one?
I cannot think any logical reason why not. Can you? After abusive relationship one might feel it is impossible, it is normal to feel that way. But it is an illusion and it will pass once you get away from the toxic person and realise that not all people are like that.Where
I am a divorcee, central government employee. I have a 5 year old daughter and I am planning for a second marriage. What criteria should I set for selecting a life partner?
I would recommend looking for a divorcee too- but not for reasons of stigma. There is no longer any stigma in being divorced in most parts of the world. However, if the person has a child it is even better for both of you. My only concern
This is what you can doMade sure you have a place to stay and finances to live onCall your bank and remove your ex as the second holderAlso from policies if you have him/herSpeak to loved oneesDo not keep rage, anger, sadness bottled up speak to a sibling, relative,
I cannot afford a divorce, I cannot do the process alone. How can I receive free legal help with the process of an uncontested divorce in NYC?
Go to Google and enter
I fear my wife will harm our young child if I divorce her or even move out of the house threatening a divorce, what are my options?
Bare fear is insufficient to justify anything.What matters is her past conduct, her threats, and her mental health. Ideally you would have some kind of proof or witnesses to incidents that indicate a threat to the children.You should also study personality disorders and see if there are any indications of, e.g. antisocial personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder.
I filed for divorce because my husband does not want my 8 year old son to join the family. I keep getting told I should not have. Was I wrong to file for a divorce?
I filed for divorce because my husband does not want my 8 year old son to join the family. I keep getting told I should not have. Was I wrong to file for a divorce?You have serious obligations to your 8 year old son to do all you can to help him
I filed for divorce, withdrew it, husband is still very hurt/upset. Separated for 1 month now, how do we move toward reconciliation when he is still so angry?
Obviously, you are having troubles in your marriage. This is normal. Really. But sometimes when a couple is stuck in something they can't get out of it by themselves. If you don't have wiser, older couples that can help you, people whom you trust and
I found out my husband was gay after we divorced. Can I re-negotiate my divorce settlement to include pain and suffering? We were married for 11 years and have been divorced for about 20 years.
Please forgive me if I am wrong, but this sounds very much like a would-be joke, told at your own expense, to the end of making you look very stupid.If that is indeed your goal, you have succeeded wildly.Divorce settlements do not include anything
I got married this January, now my husband says thay he has a girlfriend and will marry her soon after divorcing me, what am I supposed to do?
I can truly understand lady what all you are going through. When your Mom has heart problem you fear of her death or illness when she comes to know of your disgusting husband .In india marriage is for keeps
Drink milk directly from the carton.Buy a case of toilet paper and not worry about that for 2 years.Buy a crock pot and learn to use it.Open the medicine chest and stare in amazement at the open shelves.Climb into the shower and luxuriate in how uncluttered it is.Know how sharp the
I was thinking there are no words for this, but I rethought that. There are words that apply to this situation.
I haven't had a sexual intercourse with my wife from the beginning of the Marriage. Is its a valid reason to get a divorce?
In Australia, you don't need a reason to legally divorce. All you need is the desire and to fill out the forms. And you don't need the other's consent.I wouldn't agree to be married without sex, but for many reasons (such
I lied to my husband over something stupid and he wants a divorce. Is there a way I can save this marriage?
Whether there's a way you can save this marriage or not is not what matters the most here. My question for you is, Is it worth it, when it's clear he's using this little incident as a lame excuse to get what he probably has wanted for quite
You may need to consider a divorce. Before you do, I'd recommend you get therapy to resolve the conflicted issues you present in your comments.Note that I didn't say marriage counseling or couples therapy. You feel you have a problem and you're wondering if getting a divorce will solve it. This isn't a couples
I'm going through a divorce. A day ago, I recorded my husband telling me that he "wants to hit me in the face." Will this evidence help me obtain full legal custody of our child?
Good grief! Your question, when translated, reads as follows:
First of all, you need to see a lawyer. Your friend or sibling who went through a divorce, your uncle who is a non-family law attorney in another state, your friend or family member who worked or works in a law office, your hairdresser, your mechanic, and your
I was beaten by husband & so left home, filed NC with police late. He wants divorce n denies jewellery given by him. What happens if I contest divorce?
You file a NC and still want the jewelry given by him? Laws are in favor of women. If you are working or capable of working, leave out all that he gave you after marriage and live on your own. If you aren't qualified enough to work, get the compensation for getting yourself
If a man owns a house before getting married, does that make it impossible for a later wife to take it from him in a divorce?
It is quite possible for an asset to start out as separate property, but over time (or through events) change to community property.The rules for how this can happen will vary all over the map. You will need to check with an
Your choices, as I see them based on available limited information, are:divorce: hope you can figure out how to select for "as good as my ex, PLUS ambitious" next timeacceptance: this man was good enough at the time I married him, and it didn't occur to me to
If my spouse has filed for divorce, and has valid grounds, what legal maneuvers can I use to drag out the proceedings for as long as possible?
Although I have some limited experience over the years, I am NOT a family law attorney.Although I am in general agreement with those challenging your intention of dragging out the process, I do understand that there can be valid reasons for causing a legal process to take longer rather than shorter.
Infertility can take you from I love you to Its not you, its me...Some couples coping with infertility are overwhelmed with grief or anger, and divorce is the only option. Can you save your marriage and do you even want to?See also: Getting Pregnant Naturally While
Divorce is never easy, no matter who files for it. It's going to be a time of instability, disturbance, unrest and emotional stress. Initial complaints made against a spouse are taken a tiny bit more seriously if she file first. When
My answer pertains to the scenario as well where the applicable laws are Indian laws and the religious laws in question are Hindu laws. It is not mandatory to give alimony after divorce in certain cases wherein the wife is disqualified from getting maintenance/alimony from the husband.Maintenance is the
Me and my husband have not been staying together and I want to go for a divorce but my husband is not willing to file a mutual petition. He is okay with signing the petition that I have filed. What ground can I seek in such case?
The best way is consult a lawyer, there could be lot of Knitty gritty involved in certain other points too.He would be the best person to guide you and help you through the process.Though signing of mutual petition also require a petition to be prepared as per court's requirement.Edit : avoid alleging something, which
Me and my husband love each other but because of his family pressure, he wants divorce and I don't want to separate from him, shall I say yes to divorce or I should fight for it?
Fight for it ..in India no life after divorce for a lady. Love each other and wants Divorce is contrary to each other. There seems to be some problems with youBetter apologize repair relationship and adjust..how many Divorce and remarriage? Yesterday one person told Mr at 50yesrs of age he is Divorce 4 times ..
My best friend's husband is having tuberculosis. She wants to give him a divorce. What should I suggest?
My wife is having Tuberculosis (TB). She is just 29 years of age. Should I Divorce her?Let me tell you in detail:Six moths back my wife caught with a fever and cough. First we started with self medication but when the condition did not improve
I am so sorry for situation you are going through and appreciate your decision to give your marriage chance.But wait a minute ,don't you think you should give a chance to re-think your decision .- He is already cheating you from past two and half
Thanks for the A2A.Talk to your mother, ask her the details of what was wrong in their relationship. Do not shy away.Many Indian families shy away from talking the important and sensitive matters.People should get divorced before they get married to a second woman but people do
My Ex and I are trying to set up a separation agreement and he's trying to put in that when my son is with him I'm not allowed to call to say goodnight or check up on him. Can he even do that is that possible?
Ugh. These kinds of stories just make me sad for the kid that's going to be stuck in the middle of this. Your child will pick up on the smallest nuances in your tone, what you say, the questions you ask... and if you're saying you're needing to say goodnight or "check up on him.."? Well,
My exhusband is violating our divorce agreement. It clearly states that we will not have a significant other sleep at our house, in our room when the children are there. His girlfriend is now living with him. Do I approach this or let it go?
A2A thank you. You do have a quandary on your hands don't you? On the one hand it's a clear violation of a legal agreement, on the other hand if such a condition made sense at the time of the divorce, it might not be applicable now and either of you could apply to the
My friend slept with my spouse and I found out. She said it was to prove that my husband is no good for me and we should divorce. I'm heartbroken. What should I do?
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I can only imagine how you must be feeling, especially being betrayed by two people you trusted.I know it's hard, and I know your mind and heart are both racing in a million different directions, but the reality
My future husband is paying alimony to his ex. Do I have to contribute to her alimony after marrying him?
You'll be contributing to it, like it or not, because marriage makes you an economic unit. It's no longer his nor yours, but household income. So whatever is going out to his ex, is not benefiting you nor any children you may have with him. Clarify prior to marriage what will happen if he loses his income and you
My husband and I don't want to divorce but he says he wants to separate and needs time apart. I feel like this is just the first step towards divorce. How many people have separated and then got back together?
I am going through a divorce. My soon-to-be ex-wife filed for the divorce 4 months ago. We're done. There is NO second chance. My infidelities destroyed our marriage and another couples marriage. The last couple of years of our marriage was bad.My soon-to-be ex-wife did
My husband cheated on me with different women and now I have evidences. Should I stay or divorce him?
Tough question, should I stay or should I go. Unfortunately we can't answer that for you. I can tell you that I've seen many marriages survive affairs, and even prosper after someone strayed. Here's a website that can help with how to handle this subject. InfidelityI highly recommend
If youre saying that he said the 3 magic words
This is something only you can answer. People may tell you absolutely yes, he's a jerk and you should be rid of him, but they do not have to live with that decision. They do not have to pay your legal fees. They will not be
I've never understood
My husband has been having an affair for two and a half years. He is 3 years into a midlife crisis. They live together now. Should I wait for it to pass or divorce? I want to save my marriage.
I can't resist answering this question due to the fact that many American women do not understand how truly difficult it is for a female to escape from an affair in nations of South Asia, South-East Asia, the Middle East and many countries in Latin America. They forget that women of American and Western
It would depend upon many factors. Where the case is filed, is it legal requirement for him to give these details etc.So unless you come out with complete details, no answer is possible,Regards,Shonee Kapoor498a Advisor Shonee Kapoor
My husband is talking to a divorce attorney tomorrow; we have a 6 month old daughter that I don't want left in my husbands care. He lives with his parents and they have a filthy house.. how do I get supervised visitations only?
You need an attorney to answer this question: if you don't have one, get one. However, supervised visitation is usually reserved for cases where there's evidence that a parent could be an actual danger to the child (suspected abuse, an addict in recovery, documented
I don't understand why this husbands think they can do what so ever they like with us. I'm in the same situation, I have been married for more than 10 years now with 3 beautiful children . My husband keep telling me he will want a second wife, I asked him why
Excuse me, but what part of "I don't know what's in his mind" are you fooling yourself about?It's clear to me. He wants to live with you, and see her. Heck, you can probably cook better than the ex. I might want to live with you, too. I can't cook.Do you want to take care of a man
Well, the most charitable answer that I can think of is that he wants to skip the next five or ten difficult years in both of your lives and fast forward to the healed versions of each of you.I understand this impulse,
My husband suddenly wants divorce because he thinks I won't make him happy in the future. I think he's worried I'll end up like his mom (abusive). I don't want a divorce. What do I do?
please tell me your age group and something more about your background say working or not working . family educated or not .orthodox or not.any ways here is a little not so serious suggestion plus experiment for you. Take some time say two three months
Threatening divorce is completely unacceptable in a relationship.Likely he's coming from a place of insecurity, but that doesn't make it okay.Sit him down and say,
My husband threatens to divorce me and take all the children whenever we argue, should I end this marriage?
Tell him hearing this really hurts you.Ask him, what is it that you can do to contribute make the marriage better?Tell him you can't be the only one contributing either it takes the both of you.I'm suggesting this because you have children.I don't. My husband never threatened the marriage verbally he just said it in the heat of
My husband walked in on me having sex with another man. Now he wants a divorce. Is this reasonable of him?
Yes, it is."Sex with another person", also known as "adultery", breaks the marriage bond. If you don't understand this, then there is not much hope that you will be faithful in future, so there is not much point in trying to reconcile. Your husband is wise to
Excepting for Islamic community, it is not as easy for anyone to get a divorceIt's a month since you are married and, if the marriage has been registered, you are entitled to all the laws due for a wife .Firstly, your husband will have to build a case of infidelity or
My husband wants a divorce because he found out I still speak to my ex from 10+ years ago. Do you think this is called for a divorce?
How do you expect strangers to give you sound advice based on 2 lines briefly explaining 10+ years of your life?It depends. Have you kept it a secret all this while? And if so, why? If you and your ex have nothing to
Your #1 priority is YOU. Do not pay attention to him. Do not try to convince him, try to change him or even pray/hope to change him. All of these will only exacerbate your pain. He will come around when you
My husband wants a divorce because I waited to tell him about our miscarriage. How can I handle this?
A request for not being told stressful things while at work could perhaps be interpreted to include an entire week-long trip, but your failure to communicate here went a lot deeper than that. If I understand your description correctly then this was the approximate sequence of events:You discover that you are
It doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman. If you find yourself facing divorce when getting divorced is the last thing you want to do, you are not alone.The question is, if that is you, what do you
My husband wants a divorce, but this means we have to sell our home, which I don't want? What can we do?
Call an attorney.While each state is different... you must find out what are the divorce laws in YOUR state. If you want to keep the home, then you could take your half of the split in
Being in a situation like this is bad. I am sorry you are going through this. Please allow me to show you my perspective here.Marriage is about love, respect and mutual acceptance of each other. In this case, there is no love from him for you and you gave up your