How do children at different ages adapt to divorce?

I can only speak from my own experience.Not sure whether there is a "best age", but I'd like to point out that the trauma of divorce can continue long, long after the event has taken place. I'd suggest that if you must divorce, don't drag out

I had an affair with a woman who showed behaviors typical to BDP. Should I tell her husband?

If I were you, I would not. What is the upside for you? Seriously. No one is going to come out of that action better off for quite a long time, and you will be hated by the other two. You can't force her to take responsibility, to realize anything, to do anything. You can only control

Why do abusers only abuse certain partners?

Think of it like exploring a campus. You can try different routes at first, but eventually you will almost always pick the fastest and shortest route. Once an abuser recognizes who buys into their manipulation methods, they're more likely to manipulate and abuse that person. Why would you abuse

I had an affair with a woman who showed behaviors typical to BDP. Should I tell her husband?

If I were you, I would not. What is the upside for you? Seriously. No one is going to come out of that action better off for quite a long time, and you will be hated by the other two. You can't force her to take responsibility, to realize anything, to do anything. You can only control

Why do abusers only abuse certain partners?

Think of it like exploring a campus. You can try different routes at first, but eventually you will almost always pick the fastest and shortest route. Once an abuser recognizes who buys into their manipulation methods, they're more likely to manipulate and abuse that person. Why would you abuse someone who