I struggled with that. But after the second divorce (it took a while) and about 6 months of work, I thought I was finally through with my emotional work.But as I was thinking that, I heard a voice in my head saying
Sounds like a beautiful case of insecurity here.1>Set some serious rules and stick by it.2>Use dramatic approach like Amitabh Bachchan : Aey!!! Mere maa baba k khilaaf ek shabd bhi bola toh mere se bura koi nahi hoga....ahaha.3>Sometimes parents can be
Seeing as women file 70% of divorces, then yes they are more likely too seek a divorce, but separations I believe are roughly the same, 50/50.But the thing too remember is that separation can't completely turn your life upside down, divorce can and it
Yes. Abuse takes many forms. It can take physical forms and it can take emotional forms. Women are as capable of abusing men as men are as of abusing women. Unfortunately, I have known several men who were or are in abusive marriages. Women do not tend to do serious physical damage
Insecure people are jealous of other people. Wives, husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends, unrequited crushes, complete strangers--people in general feel jealous when they feel insecure, fear abandonment, or feel they might lose something they feel entitled to.In my experience, secure people tend not to feel jealous. This has nothing to do
I am the first wife in a monogamous marriage, so for me this is purely hypothetical. I cannot conceive of ever sharing my husband's love with another woman, whether she was a second wife (in traditional context) or a mistress. I do however, feel that I can still do justice to the question at hand.I am
Not married. I want my future wife (Definitely not wives) to know these things.You don't need to pay me for letting me into your life. But, if you want a grand wedding I'm not spending my entire savings on it.Be prepared for our
Hindu polygamy is prohibited by law in indiaArticles 494 and 495 of the Indian Penal Code of 1860, prohibited polygamy for the Christians. In 1955, the Hindu Marriage Act was drafted, which prohibited marriage of Hindu whose spouse
Sure, you can ask for almost anything. That doesn't mean you're going to get it. If a husband and wife are living in the same house, they're both entitled to stay in the residence. Either can ask the other to leave, but neither is obligated to do so. If there's a divorce, the courts
Can you?Sure.Should you?That's a question for your wife. It would certainly do you no physical harm to drink it. In fact given its nutritional components, it would probably do you a lot of good.Unless of course, you were my husband. If you were my husband and you purposefully drank my baby's milk, you can be sure some
Maraige is a divine institution although sometime over hyped topic still this should get highest priority. When two people are involved in decisions should be taken mutualy. Both should be agreed upon and no one should force or influence their decisions.In india major problem is
When a woman learns that she has a right to be treated with respect and starts honoring herself, then she can learn to confront disrespect whenever she encounters it. In this way, she will teach others to respect her.Yes, absolutely, a wife can teach a husband to respect her. Once she starts confronting and standing up for
According to Indonesian law, yes. As long as they married legally. It mean they married in KUA (Kantor Urusan Agama - Religion affair office) that handle marriage for muslim people in Indonesia. However, they have few conditions: First wife permition (written one) and able to support both wife finacially (showing husband's monthly salary for example).Then
f you are from the Husband side and your wife is capable of earning and having good qualifications and if you are unemployed then how will you defend the interim maintenance case filed by wife.Here are the few judgments which you must use to fight interim maintenance cases these judgments are handy.
Yes if the marriage survives and no decree of divorce issued dissolving the marriage, then the status of the woman after the death of the husband shall be that of a widow, she can get share in the property of her deceased husband. As such no right of the wife is their in husbands property when the
No. Impotence (Erectile Dysfunction (ED)) of husband is a ground for divorce, but that is a much stronger condition than dissatisfaction. Also dissatisfaction can result also due to psychological issues (as opposed to physical like ED) between couple, and it
Is this a real question? If you live somewhere other than America, or any other place where the deceased party is considered legally unable to maintain property or present themselves in court, then disregard this answer, or maybe ask someone in the legal
I think the question you're asking is what gifts can a wife get for her husband that he will really like? The answer to that really depends on what things her husband is interested in.For example, I work for a
I am assuming you are female.According to my knowledge , in Arabic countries you can.Depending on the reason it may be a divorce or an annulment of the marriage.I would assume you could world wide.Speak to a Lawyer.
Did you ever have a spouse talk you out of filing for divorce and then they turned around and filed for divorce from you?
Nope... once we started down that road we finished it.My divorce became final in Valentine's Day.... To my surprise and laughter, while she hated that.If you want yours to do the same make sure all your papers are filed with the county clerk's office on August 14th. Six months later it becomes final.Badda-bing! Badda-Boom!
I believe it could have. But she still is denying it because she is afraid for her persona or image to be tainted you could say. She has ALWAYS been the woman that would never do that kind of thing because of the character she cast herself as for years. So she went with Divorce and I found
I will specifically address verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse from first-hand experience and over 15 years of research on the subject, but I believe this would apply to physically abusive people as well. The answer is YES, but the
You have described a life typical in many families in India. You are not the first husband and will certainly not be the last one to go through this phase of married life.Your wife must have either had a
I used to hear from the fragrance department at the store I worked at, about this one man who came in every year around Christmas.He would buy two expensive bottles of perfume.Same size. Same special wrapping. Same scent.He said he got the same scent for the two ladies in his life.His wife and his mistress.He said he did this
Remember as in they will remember their names and who they were . And why it did not workout between the two and thats about it . Dont we all remember all those friends we fought with ? Its just the same
Well, humans like/love/admire/envy/follow/wish-to-be stronger humans. Strength means :1. the capacity of an object or substance to withstand great force or pressure.2. the influence or power possessed by a person...and similar meanings..!!.So everyone eventually requires a stronger everyone...son wants a strong dad/mom, wife wants a strong husband, mother wants
Do husbands taunts their wives about her past relationship after marriage even after wives being loyal to their husbands?
This question is very important because the relationship scene is changing greatly in India, at least in metros. School and college children are having relationships. it is not cool not to have boy friend or girl friend.Under such circumstances, it is important to know
A lot of them.I'm an escort and when I first started out I was really surprised as to the reasons why women cheat on their husbands, also in a country like India, where marriages are considered a pure bond. However, there were so many common factors, some I never really thought about but here are a few.Surprisingly a lot
Both men and women dominate each other, but in a different way. It's just that we don't realize it easily.Due to biological factors, men are supposed to be domineering in nature. They are physically much stronger, thus it creates a psychological pressure
Ireland has changed so much in the last 100 years and particularly in the last 20 years.Irish men and women are very liberated and the population has changed dramatically.Up until I was 16 I had only ever seen people of different races on T.V. or in magazines and now I live in a country
Do modern age husbands feel inferior if their wife is more successful or earns more than the husband? Especially in India?
Nothing like that if they know intricacies of a happy marriage.Prudent to study intricacies of happy marriage/relationship/co-habitation , so that both of you can keep happy for life. Details follow:WISH YOU [every prospective bride & groom] HAPPY, HEALTHY & PROSPEROUS REMARRIED LIFE*/EVER
Spanking can be an enjoyable experience for a wife and even a husband, depending on preference.As far as some wives who do like to be spanked, the level, severity and type of spanking will differ based on their individual preference and pleasure.It can add spice to the
Not all of them of course. And you can't group any set of humans that
Surprisingly, when the wife first finds out of her cheating's husband's affair, the reaction of the vast majority is NOT to dump his lying, cheating sorry self, but to make herself even more attractive than the husband's affair to keep him interested in her (the wife), instead of him focusing his attentions on
Hari om , you are asking a question as to : " Do wives think about keeping their husbands happy?." If wives don't keep their husbands happy , whom else they will keep happy? After marriage , for a woman the whole life revolves around her husband only.
Every choice and decision you make in life shapes who you are and what happens to you.I respect myself and, as is human nature, only want the best possible outcome for everything I experience in life.I married my wife because she is awesome, but also because I felt that she would be the best life
Beyond words. I can't believe, after what I went through in my first marriage, that he fell into my life.I'd been in love with him for years. He has this amazing smile, and a laugh that lights up a room. He's kind, thoughtful, loving, and
I don't. I had heard about my spouse prior to meeting him about a year before actually I met him. Once we met he immediately asked me to date. He even took me to a bed-and-breakfast in our second month of dating.Our third month of
YES...CERTAINLY I DO AND I HAVE REASONS.She joined gym some 8 - 9 months ago and used to come home in the next 1 or 1.5 hours but over the time she is coming after 2+ hours. When asked she gives all irrelevant reasonsShe had many friends before marriage & out of them I know
Does a marriage stand a chance after an affair if the betrayed spouse polices the cheater and takes control of their life?
Not making it easy.This is the thing. You should NOT stay if there isn't any trust. When the conversation of getting caught and staying, something about trust has to have come up.It's very hard especially at the beginning to have any trust in
Mine belongs to me, as I do her..Not at all like property but we definitely belong together. Belong has more than the one connotation.It is the natural state of our hearts..Until the end of everything and we start again and seek each other out in the next place...Its cheezy, I know., but there was a time
It is unfortunate that anyone is getting tortured by the spouse, and it gets worse when the wife is the one to do so, and also plays the victim card to get alimony from the husband.Fortunately, laws in India does not support such an
Does anybody have any examples of an ex-husband and ex-wife continuing a close relationship after their divorce?
Sure. My co-parent and I divorced 20 years ago-her choice. Coming out of the courthouse afterwards, she turned to me and said
Does the military frown upon military wives reporting their husbands for cheating or domestic abuse?
No. The military is the most corrupt organization funded by the government out there. They will do any and everything to protect their investment while dumping on anyone that tries to discredit them.Until it's inconvenient; then they harass, hassle, and neglect their members until
I see that nobody has given any sources to their answers, so I'd like to start with the Qur'an.Qur'an 4:19, Allah says:
God no!When my new wife asked me what would happen if we ran into my ex, I said I'd crawl out a back window and run. I'd call her later to tell her where to pick me up.She says she'd love to meet her. She's 18 years younger and beautiful as well
Yes! He used to torture me before our divorce. On our wedding night he raped me. He didn't even ask me whether I wanted to have that night or not. After that he used to tie me up in a room for the whole day and used to leave me some water for me. He used to come
For those ever divorced and remarried to someone else, would you marry your first spouse again? Why or why not?
Ohhh Hell. To.The. N. NOoooooo!Not if my entire life depended on it.Nopes. No way. Let the miserable, narcissistic, lazy, two-faced, impotent asshole be someone else's extra
I divorced my husband due to infidelity and eight years later, we connected on FB. We didn't have any children together and he was having some health issues. Because I moved to another state, I was supposed to fly to meet
I've done many spells to bring back
We're from Mumbai. Wife is from Delhi. Our's is a arrange marriage. I've always be a one woman man who my life. No looks no physique. Nothing but money that can call for woman. Being part of affluent family I was though will be a spoilt brat. However I knew
Have any woman been in a marriage situation when the husband knows his wife is cheating, and the wife knows that her husband knows, but they both choose to not talk about it, or they just pretend that the husband doesn't know?
He wants a confession to have closure she's to frightened of how people will look at her or how he would react
I don't want to mess up my life so going anonymous.I'm a house wife, we are middle class family, its me, husband & my son who live together.We live in a small complex of 4houses, 2 on the ground floor and 2 on the first,we stay in the first floor. It so happened
Insights While Caring for an Elderly CoupleI was with the elderly couple, sitting in same room while relaxing after completing my morning duties for them, namely, getting them up out of bed, changing their Depends adult diapers, dressing them up and serving them breakfast.
I would request some scientific data behind the question or I would assume the question is motivated by misinformation or presumptions. As rightly pointed by others, Bharat is a secular nation and every citizen has right to choose their faith as long as they don't cause trouble to others because their faith is different and
I am older to him (few months though)I am from Haryana, he is from UPI am from a typical Jaat family and he is a KaayasthMy childhood was full of struggle and he is a pampered child from a well to do familyI am younger one in my family and he is the elder one out
I see a lot of sarcasm in the answers, and my guess is those writers are never controlled by their spouse.Let me provide a direct answer to your question, from a wife who was controlled by her husband.We have been married for over 5 years and have 3 kids together. Beautiful kids. They're under 6 at
Honestly, a husband can't stay happy with her wife forever. Its totally hypothetical. There may be a lot of good days and very few bad ones but there will be a balance between happiness and sadness.You can keep the love intact between the two of you and treasure it all along and build on it. This will
Women are just as capable of domestic abuse as men are. All domestic abusers generally use the same tactics to one degree or another. Women may do it slightly differently, but they can still do it.Gaslighting: Trying to make the target of abuse think
There are some great answers already. So I'm going to see what I can find underneath the question.This is about forgiveness. Forgiveness for what? Something the OP obviously considers "unforgiveable." However, I don't see that the OP is actually in a situation where this would be an issue. If (she?) is, she's not telling
Answered from an Indian perspective.Now a days, below is the tried and tested strategy(endorsed by lawyers) that most urban, educated and
It is like playing a mix doubles match. It's a teamwork.One takes the lead, other watches with appreciation. Encourage the other partner to take the lead and watch it. When the rythm gets going there is no one to stop, life will be fun and full of bliss.When one partner is tired take the brunt
I bet you are or will be, by only raising the concern you have achieved one important value, that you care about your partner happiness, I will speak based on my experience:Faithfulness, betrayal can destroy a relation in a fraction of a
You mean while you have a living wife? You cant. Its totally against Christian mores and teachings. And in the US its illegal so not only would a marriage be invalid, she would be living in sin according to Christianity. It would be a life of adultry and fornication as well as breaking the law. . If shes
Ask him for the divorce papers, like the order and decree of divorce issued by the court, you can confirm the facts about the divorce from the court records yourself or through some lawyer of the state where the divorce process took place.
#Question name: How can I get my wife back 1?TOP 11 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Heyyy friends, I checkedd all Quora answerrs and marriagge tips on the internnet and below are besst tips to save your marrriage.
Well you were specific what you didn't want to pay for but under Pennsylvania law here's what would happen,Starting with Alimony if you can prove the other party was at fault it won't be order. You say she committed adultery even if you can prove it but the court says it's only indignities. That's a fault ground so
So it all started back in the summer of 2016 my wife was just a few months into her new job. She had left the ems field for a 8 to 5 job. To be home with are two boys more. A little about us we meet in 2008 got married in 2010 had
Hi! Do you have some examples of your wife being controlling? I'm a "controlling" wife...with that said, can I just offer some insight? When I am being super "controlling", what I usually want is more information; I don't just want to control the situation. For example, you
It is not at all common for a wife to beat her husband.. Simple reason is if the husband hits back she will be in more pain..Playfully wife can beat her husband also I have seen wife biting her husband.. But these are only
Yes it's common to share wife,Because, it's common in my life . I am now 36 year's old and my wife is 30 . We successful married for 10 years . We has a son who is 8 years . It all began after 2 years of our marriage. I an account in a company
Which one? LolFirst relationship (spouse), I was never exactly sure, but plenty of signs I was in denial about. Two purchases for spa/massage treatments on credit. I received only one. He said the other was for an old lady customer of his that'd been so nice. Umm-hmm. Also discovered computer conversations, plus he completely denied me of
It was a gradual realization, after we were separated and had filed for divorce. She wouldn't do her paperwork, so the divorce could move on. She told my aunt she wanted to reconcile, but she couldn't tell me, and he hadn't done any of the personal work I needed her to do in order for us
order of protectionservedhe didnt even look at it for a year, went into defaultat court he asked if we could try again, so i knocked it to a separation trialhe violated his oop, got a stay away orderhe left for a
I was 34, 4+ years post divorce, and was single, happy and didn't see myself ever getting married again. I had great friends, a good career, great hobbies, a full volunteer schedule and was a better father to my kids then ever. Life was good. I was in a grocery store and ran into a
The interesting part of this question for me is the
By running around. We had a daughter just over a year old. I was working two jobs. When I woke up in the early am to do my second job (the army was my first) no wife...and no car.Kinda went downhill from there. I kept what we had, such as
I was married for 25 years, blessed with 3 beautiful children, and an absolutely lovely stepson I had in my life since he was about 2.My husband and I had worked hard, struggled at times to make ends meet. He worked as
We had been together for nearly 10 years. Living together for 9 of those years. Married for the last 4.We spoke the same 6 languages. We were both crazy enough to pack up and move to a new country without much of a plan. Taiwan, Switzerland,
My husband and I have one bank account that we share. We both put both of our salaries in that account (we put money in savings and investments, too, but all joint accounts). I pay bills, he manages investments because that
How do husbands catch their their wives cheating on them? Is it by checking their wives phones? Or by their behavior changes?
A lot of things go on in our life that affects us in ways we can not imagine.Sometimes we are the cause of all this things and when i say we are the cause i mean there are things we can avoid yet
Know someone who's been cheated on? Chances are, the answer is yes. In this day and age, cheating is more common than ever. With hookup apps like Tinder and hundreds of online dating sites, it's never been easier to cheat and get away with it.If your partner has a smartphone, or even just access to
I was planning to divorce at the 10-year point in our marriage. One of the most impactful questions our counselor asked me was
Very, very, very easy to answer question.You make appointments with women friends and go out. Have dinner; a pizza or McDonalds.Go to a movie afterwards or join them and go home with them. Have a glass of wine and a good conversation.But take care you are away often.When your husband asks you where you are going, NEVER, NEVER,
Lol, it would be great if one only had to follow steps 1 through 7, then possibly repeat a few steps and voila wife and great marriage.Alas, its not so simple, and honestly everyone's situation will be so different that what works for one probably wouldn't work
R2A.Well, if you do not know where your spouse is..send a notice to her permanent address, which I assume you definitely know. A lawyer should be able to guide you better in this regard. Serve her summons through a lawyer, you might
We moved to states 16 years ago. If your wife cooks,cleans and a good house maker, she can work from home. Tell her to do some research and invest her time to learn a new skill. It is hard to find good job in US without special education.I was a teacher in India.I could not find any job
The question needs to be changed to how can I help my wife want to be with another woman?First, she needs to know you will not touch either woman, this is all about her. You intend to sit in the
How do you want to react ? it's your husband , it's his cheating, and if you are sure of the facts ( why were you looking on his phone, did you already know intuitively about his affairs ?)You are using the past
To begin with, you need to look into the reason behind why your wife is mad at you. Ensure that you have rightly understood it and are on the same page as your wife. This first step is crucial as both of you need to be working
I'm no expert in divorce law but I do work at a top consulting / finance / law firm on the US east coast, and I would hate to see someone lose the investments that they worked so hard, over the years for. I know many people can take out loans, using the 401k as collateral. There
The best presentation I've seen on this was by Sam Margulies, a divorce mediator. He handles the language, and recommends how to soften it.Here's the link: Divorce For Grown-Ups: How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a DivorceHe recommends using I statements, avoiding blaming your spouse,
Recently during karva chauth it was my aunt ‘s and uncle's first so my aunt was on her fast and my uncle secretly kept fast for her but this is indirectly.In my family i have seen the respect between couples as-HELP IN KITCHENTHE WORK IS DIVIDED BETWEEN MY MOM AND DAD AND
This is a really important, and yet potentially delicate question. Nothing is more important than safety in any therapeutic setting. Marriage Counseling can be potentially risky for couples where there has been domestic violence, so it is a crucial part of the assessment process.Of course there is an intuitive component to assessing any relationship.
wives do discipline their husbands by telling them they have been very bad and telling them to go stand in the corner and wait. then the wife will approach their husband tell him to turn around and face her.Then She will proceed to unbutton
Filing for divorce won't compell him to have to leave. You can usually get a restraining order immediately, but depending on the reasons you give for needing it its unlikely that a judge will force him to vacate his own home
After many unproductive therapy sessions and after so many nights of tense bickering, yelling, and general unhappiness I said:I want a divorce.She looked at me like the fact our marriage had ended months ago was news to her.What, why?!?While it
I always knew I wanted to have children. It never even crossed my mind that I may not have them, it was just a given. I was almost 27 when I met the man who would become my husband and while I knew the night we met that
When your partner cheats, a lot of things change, i hope you understand the way I explain in my own little way, from my experience. When a partner has been dealing with you in spirit and in truth for years, giving all
How important is it to you that after marriage there is a name change by many, who either add or take on spouse/man's last name? What do you like to see happen for your loved ones and in society in general?
I got married at age 36 and I did not change my name. I was not planning on having kids, and I am rather proud of the family from which I came and saw no good reason, outside of tradition, to change my name. I simply did not want to, nor did I
Depends on the fight, if it is silly mistakes, the husband will know how to convince his wife in such incidents.If the fight is about something where the wife hurt to the core and decides to even leave you, then the husband will have to keep on trying in all chances he gets.The wife or a woman