After 2 years of marriage, what is the difference between a love marriage and an arranged marriage?

The problem indicated in this question does not depend on the choice between love marriage and arranged marriage.It depends on the FALSE EXPECTATIONS of people, and this factor of false expectations can apply both to love marriages and arranged marriages.So the solution is

Am I an irresponsible selfish wife in the following scenario?

From what you've said and the details you'e provided your husband seems to be an insecure chauvinist. You met with him and tried to compromise and things never seem to work out for him and he's bitching about it.I'll tell you that cooking and leaving a job is NOT

Are arranged marriages forced love?

There is a very famous line

Are Indian women allowed to marry American men?

That is such a weird question! Why would it be a problem? People can marry anybody they wish to...Maybe you are referring to immigration and citizenship issues? I doubt there are any laws against marrying somebody from a different country. Immigration can be easily handled by a lawyer and citizenship takes a couple of years

Are my feelings so strong they could drive him away?

I feel the same thing for someone, these days.So I think I am well-placed to answer your question.You see, your feelings are creating dependance towards the person you love.This dependance is as strong as your feelings for him are. And so, you feel lonely, unhappy, left out when you are not the center of his attention.So that is the

Are there ever situations where a married man deeply loves another woman and becomes unattracted to his wife but doesn't leave his wife?

Yeah, that happened to me. With a woman in our neighborhood.Why stay? The kids, because my wife has been a good wife, and she didn't deserve it. Because the other woman's (the OW) views on guys who leave their families are not admiring and

At what age should a person get settled in their life?

Its not about the Age, Once you are capable to handle yourself and your dependent...emotionally and financially then you are good to settle down.Settle down means get married, start family, buy car, get home etc etc...In older days life wasn't that tough and people used live in joint families so there were always some to tackle your problems and

At what moment did you know you were in love?

When I decided to take the blame so she stays happy.I am an Indian guy, 24.During my Engineering days in my third year, I was introduced to a girl who was a year senior than me through our common friend. She was pretty simple, smart and good looking girl but I wasn't attracted to

Can a brother and sister get married in Islam?

If you read closely all the answers from these Islamic readers you will get two things. One: You may not marry your sister of your mother or father. Two: You may marry your sister or brother if the father has not married the mother. So, of we look at this closely we will find the following. Man


Mine did. If a covert is truly capable of some kind of love I believe she felt it at times, but it came in cycles. Typically it went in the classic love bomb/abuse/discard cycle, except instead of completly discarding me she'd have a failure to launch and change her mind. Or

Can a girl who loved you really get over you in a few months?

If the love was real, I'd imagine it could take a little while longer.Or you can experience what I experienced. We dated in 1989 for 4 months, while in college. I was 23, she was 19. We stupidly broke up, motivated by my fear of commitment.

Can a man be in love with another woman and still love his wife deeply? Is it honest?

Yes. It would seem the first question could be summarized like this, can one person love two people at the same time? Sure. I have four children and I love all of them. I'm not certain I understand how that's any different than saying I could love two women at the same time.You did say love and

Can a man sleep with you all the time if he doesn't love you anymore?

7 tips to tell if you can get your ex-partner back and how to do itHe wasn't just determined to get his ex-girlfriend back; he wanted to marry her. Trouble was, she was just about to marry another man - she was literally at the altar. But

Can a married man and a married woman be in love?

You certainly aren't talking about husband-wife love.....So, i'll cut the crap that most of the other answers have talked about.Short answer for your question is- YesNow, here's the detailed one- Your heart doesn't care about your marital status. When you love someone, you just love them. Period.I know there'll be a lot of moral policing around that statement, but

Can a passionless and loveless marriage be awesome and successful?

MANY A HAPPY RETURNS OF THIS HAPPY WOMAN'S DAY!!!Passionless & loveless life before marriage. Anxiety + Depression can be vanished through marriage.40% modern women are victims of Anxiety Neurosis & depression [2 sides of same coin].Tips are given to make a happy healthy & marvelous

Can a person fall in love again?

The harsh truth is he won't. He won't be kneeling before you holding red roses requesting you to become 'his' forever (As I received & saw the edit). There may be a possibility that he's not ready for you at this time despite

Can a relationship get back to normal after someone cheats?

Normal?Look my wife and I have been trying to put the pieces of our destroyed lives back together after her indiscretions very early in our relationship and HOPE there will be a marriage there too. It's only been four years that we have been working on this.There is no normal now. I'm not

Can an ex fall back in love with you again?

Well, I am going to swim against the current here and say YES but before you hold your breath, read my entire response.He dumped you because of different things. He may have not been happy with you anymore . There was something he wasn't getting. Try to find what that was and fix it.Now,

Can anyone fall in love with his/her first love after losing once? Can you fall in love with same person repeatedly? Can lovers become friends again?

First love is very powerful love. It often came to us at a time in our lives when we were young and innocent and idealistic. They say you never forget your first love, and the remnants of that memory can color everything that you do ever after.They say that you should

Can anyone fall in love with the same person again and again?

I disliked him for I found him way too egoistic.Apparently my teacher intentionally grouped us together for an assignment.He called me up at 10 in the night to discuss the project. The call lasted an entire night.I fell in love with him.I fell for his impeccable

Can couples fall back in love again after falling out of love?

It happens often, especially in long-term relationships. Things ebb and flow in life and relationships. To assume that all relationships are never-ending love fests will lead to disappointment and heartache. Being in a successful relationship takes work - real, honest,

Can I live without getting married?

The question says "Can I live without getting married".Whether you can live without getting married is up to you. It depends on how badly you need it or don't need it. We will not be able to tell whether you will survive well

Can men love and be faithful to their partner forever?

Although popular belief is that men wish to screw any good looking girl they see walking on the street, that is not the case. There are many men out there who merely wish to bond with a partner and spend their lives with

Can men love as hard as women love?

To borrow a phrase: When a man loves a woman...yada yada yada. Ok thats a combo of two phrases. Men are initially more analytical. We measure everything whether we mean to or not. Her smile. The way she is with her own family. Her body. How good she is at stuff whatever that stuff is and most

Can someone start Dating After Divorce?

Divorce is one of the most traumatic events we go through, and when we reach the proverbial "light at the end of the tunnel," many of us feel that little spring in our step and start to think about dating again.So how can you start off on the right foot

Can you compare adoption to a man finding out that his wife/girlfriend getting pregnant by another man?

You could agree with both stands, because both make sense. I think it'd be the best to separate the two events/states of affairs:1) The wife cheated. That's rightly considered a bad thing in a monogamous relationship, and should be treated as such. There's many different solutions to 'fix' it, one of which is splitting

Can you fall in love with someone else even when you are married?

Edited, 10th April 2018It is just over 3 weeks since my wife found out about my online emotional affair with this "soulmate", and I'd like to make a number of corrections to my original answer below.It turns out I've been deluding myself heavily and acting incredibly poorly. The majority of interactions with this

Can you love two people deeply at the same time?

In my heart that is so. What would be the lessons, and up's and down's. Good moments and the ones you want to last forever in your mind if we only had the ability to love one person. I like to think if I have the power to believe in

Could you forgive infidelity and accept that your husband or wife to come and live with you, forgetting all without fear that thee be unfaithful again?

I can forgive, and have, and am working on our marriage again. But forgetting is just almost impossible. How exactly would one do that anyways? He doesn't get to burn down the house with everything in it, and then have me pretend I don't remember just because I

Dating a girl and going through a divorce, should I leave the girl I'm dating alone?

If she wants you to leave her alone, leave her alone.If she wants to be with you (and you do too), then be with her.There's no inherent reason why you should behave a certain way in this situation, it all depends on how the two of you feel.Seems to me that you've treated

Dating and Relationships: How do I fall in love with same person again?

The question and description are not in synchronous.1. You are still in relationship and you don't feel the same for them.2. The relationship has ended but you still want to pursue it.To my understanding the question points to first situation so

Dating Older Women: Should I ask my girlfriend why she divorced her two ex-husbands?

Of course one should ask a lover with whom things are getting serious what caused her marriages to go south and also what was wrong in any other relationships that went on for a while. If she takes umbrage with this, you're fuck buddies

Did anyone get their love back after years?

I am in a relationship when i was in class 10th and he was my senior in school. After completing his 12th he cleared CLAT exam and selected in NLU assam. All the problem started from here only. We both are immature and young. It's really difficult for

Did you marry a weirdo?

I married the most un-weirdo person on the planet.She made me promise a few things to her just before we were married:Always be faithful to me (check!)Always love me (check!)Make me genuinely laugh at least once a dayThis last one has proven much more challenging than I thought it would be. I'm not going to

Do a lot of divorces happen between partners who still love each other but nonetheless have irreconcilable differences?

Love is not the only ingredient in a marriage. I think what many people forget is that marriage takes work. It is not a state of complacency, where you ride on your love for one another to carry you through, because love needs to be recognized and nurtured. Because of this, love and marriage go hand in

Do high business ambitions and the ambition of staying with the person you love forever (commitment to partner) go together?

I think that a good partner will encourage high ambition. Next year I'm anticipating doing my PhD in the US while my fiance remains in Canada, most likely. I want to become a professor and it's much easier to become one if you get a PhD in the US. My fiance is encouraging me to follow this path. He

Do husbands love their children more than their wife?

Assuming a set of healthy relationships between all parties, then the two kinds of love are pretty incomparable in my own experience. That is to say that the love I feel for my wife is of an entirely different nature than the love I feel for my sons. The question you are asking strikes

Do husbands love their wives less after they have kids?

Answering this anonymously because of the potential backlash I may get.Do not mistake what I am about to say. I love my wife to death. She is one half of my soul, my teammate against the world.BUT, I do not find her as sexy as I used to before she had our son.Before you

Do most people end up finding love?

The secret to finding love is to "Love In General". That means be kind and warm hearted to EVERYONE! The mailman, the check out girl, everyone. It is contagious.If you are outgoing, smiling, that in itself is much more attractive than a cute figure or fancy clothes. Let it be your "calling card"....the person who remembers their name

Do people have regret after getting a divorce? If yes, why and what do they regret?

Definitely they will regret , if they had mutual love in their marriage life. They will recall the memories spend together. They will think about the future plans they made together. The real depression point is their kids. They will really start worrying about their kids

Do people usually get back together after breakups?

Here is the true story one of my friend.They were into long distance relationship, beautiful couple, compatible , loving and partners in crime ( I think thats enough to understand that how much they are into n how Perfect they were)They got break-up both have their

Do women like unintelligent men? Why or why not?

Not. NEVER. NEVER EVER. Oh, my God, you can't be serious.I get many people has different types of intellect: I can perfectly find myself loving a man who is a great conversationalist, a social butterfly, but has no formal education, only curiosity and charm. Or, instead, loving a strong, silent man, who is really confortable in intimacy,

Do you believe in love after 30-yrs of marriage?

Of course. In fact if there wasn't some degree of love involved it is doubtful that there would be 30-year marriages.While some people may cite children,convenience or fear of dying alone, after 30 years with a person, unless you both are emotionally damaged, you develop feelings of concern and care which

Do you still love someone after you married someone else?

I know a friend who married someone but he still love the girlfriend from his college days. He's in his 40s now with kids in their teens married for years. Yet in his heart he never let that flower die he planted in his college days.May be he didn't

Do you, years later, regret filing for divorce?

Of course I do! No one ever marries thinking it will end in divorce! I think there are some good reasons for people to get divorced, but I also think there are many equally good reasons for people to stay married. The path we choose depends on our perception of

Does age matter for a marriage?

Depends on the state you live in. If you are of age there should be no problem. Now, and most importantly, you must be mentally and financially stable. This is not the 19th or the early 20th century when before technology had an effect

Does anyone ever get back together with their first love after years and years apart? How did it go?

No, it is unlikely. If you have no communication with an ex for years and years (especially since people can reach out anytime nowadays), it is a clear sign of disinterest on their part, and you should move on. Here are some tips on moving on:Mark Lawrence's answer to It's been two years

Does every couple fall out of love after many years of marriage?

BACKGROUND: I met my boyfriend when I was 19. I have no family cause my mom is a narcissistic woman that abused me physically and emotionally. I never met my mother. Having such background, I trsted him enough to move in with him after a year cause he was always caring

Does getting married help you?

Actually depends on the kind of person you are getting married to. Also the kind of family. If the family is supportive, forward looking and your partner is a balanced individual then it can really help you to grow as a person. If you get married to a real friend

Does love marriage spell actually work? If there is refusal from the boys family for the same will this love marriage spell solve the problem and let marriage happen?

Yes,it works provided you trust each other and be there for each other during hard days..I am married to my husband for past 6 years..The thing in my marriage is ours is love marriage..I am north Indian whereas my hubby belongs to south.. Initially his parents were not happy with our relationship but with time they

Does passion always die in relationships after the first few years? Can it ever be rekindled?

I am no expert by any stretch but I have been married for over 15 years and experienced what you are talking about.  It is true that the brain does produce the chemicals that give you that dizzy euphoric feeling when you first fall in love with someone and

Does unconditional love exist?

One day a man went to a park. He saw an attractive woman seated on a stone bench. He settled down on the same bench. After a few minutes he moved a little closer. She moved away. He waited for a few minutes, then moved a

Does your first love come back?

In my case, yes she did come back.we were in a relationship for 3 years and suddenly she broke up with me.I was devastated and was in depression.I understood that now i have to help myself live without her, i was

Has anybody married the same person after a divorce? Why?

Me? No.But I know someone who did. She's my mom. Just last month, she re-married my dad. A guy that I didn't know for the majority of my life (and still hardly do). A guy that left when I was the tender age of 2 and didn't

Has anyone got back with your ex after a few years and married him/her?

Let's call the guy G.G and I grew up together, were really good friends. When we were about 15, we started dating. Stuck through high school and made it to the same college. Moved in together, only to find things rocky a year and a half later. We tried to make it

Has anyone stayed in a marriage when they knew their husband had a mistress? I love my husband and I feel like this is just a phase he needs to get out of his system. Am I being nieve?

No. We split for good once I knew for sure (straight from his mouth) that he was cheating. It was a deal breaker for me. This happened years ago now.Now let me talk to you from a different perspective, the mistress. Yep, I've btdt in recent times. I'm not at all proud of it. I'm

Have ever regretted doing inter caste marriage with your love?

I regret my Love marriage at the time when my marriage was happening. I am guy from UP currently working in product mobile company with a very good salary. I engaged in Dec 2018 and My marriage was happened in Feb 2019 and spent a good amount of

Have you ever married your ex (husband/wife)? What made you take the decision to reunite?

Yes, I don't recommend it. We had remained friends while we were apart for 4 1/2 years. Her dad had terminal cancer, she lost her health insurance, and her job soon after. Basically I felt bad for her. She had given me sole custody of our daughter so she could be a flight attendant a year earlier. 2 years

Have you ever regretted getting married to your partner?

I don't regret it but I do wish the circumstances where different wish I handled the marriage more seriously and treated her better.but I've pushed her to seek an affair that I'm positive was going on for sometime.i was with her for about 7 years and when we met didn't take long for me to fall madly in

He doesn't love me. What can I do?

Hey, first of all, trust yourself and your intuition.Here is the story: on of my friends loved a girl. She wasn't interested in him even in the least. She told him quite openly about that. That would be the end of it, had the guy

How a good wife should be? How a good husband should be?

This is an example of a bad one,but its funny as hell! :A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door. She goes to the door opens it and sees a man standing there. He asks

How and why did your first love relationship end?

'Letting the wrong girl go!'I'm 18 and look wise I'm a handsome guy. I'm not bluffing but for my alibi I'll tell you that in 11th standard, I was a new admission in this one school and I became an outrage there with every girl falling for me and

How can a widowed person get married again? What are their feelings towards the deceased and new spouses?

This is not so difficult to understand, unless you haven't lived through it yourself. I have, and I will try and explain it to you in a way you can understand.All I ask is that you open your heart and allow yourself to feel my answers.When you fall in love, you grow a unique place for

How can a wife forgive her husband for betraying her?

There are some great answers already. So I'm going to see what I can find underneath the question.This is about forgiveness. Forgiveness for what? Something the OP obviously considers "unforgiveable." However, I don't see that the OP is actually in a situation where this would be an issue. If (she?) is, she's not telling

How to believe in love again after my parents' divorce

How can I believe in love again after my parents' divorce?Just because your parents have divorced does not mean that they do not love each other. There are a lot of people who love each other dearly but just can't stand to be in the same room with each

How to end a long term relationship

Be as honest as you can.Be as loving as you can.Allow some time for you and your partner to adjust.Unless there is a major problem in the relationship, I would try to stay and work things out. There is probably a reason why you guys stayed together for so long.But if you have decided to end the relationship,

How to end my marriage

You didn't provide much information but I do want to encourage you and give you hope. I have seen marriages that appeared completed deal brought back to life and those couples are more in love today than ever. When we trust our relationships to God, He can work miracles. Marriage

How to fall back in love with my husband

Do you have to label all of this as out of love?  It sounds like you still really dig each other, but that you are just exploring other parts of yourself, how you interact with others, etc.   I think it's important to have other friendships, interests, etc. outside your marriage. 

How to find out if someone has truly filed for a divorce

If you are somewhere in the US. I would think you simply go down to your local court house and inquire. For me I was finally directed to a section in our local family court building in California. In the office I was eventually guided to was the

How to get my husband to stay with me after he has fallen in love with another woman with whom he had an affair

Prudent to study intricacies of happy marriage/relationship/co-habitation , so that both of you can keep happy for life. Details follow:WISH YOU [every prospective bride & groom] HAPPY, HEALTHY & PROSPEROUS REMARRIED LIFE*/EVER LASTING RELATIONSHIP/CO-HABITATION!!!Ideal Marriageable age:19–35 Male- To be employed/self-employed to maintain family.19–28 Female

How to get out of my abusive marriage

If you feel that you have the time you start by setting up a bank account using a trusted friends address.  You save as much money as you can (even a few hundred will help).  Start carefully researching where you can go after

How to love my husband more

The basic technique is to watch your words.  PRO 12:18  There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.If your words are health to him, he will want to hang

How to recognize that my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore

Tell Tell Signs...In most cases when woman is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to be the one to end it. But even when she is already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you. This is time

How to resolve conflicts in a marriage

My wife and I have been married for 26 years now. All told, we've lived together for about 28. We stopped sleeping in the same room about 12 years ago. We were both married before - me twice. Between us, we have 6 children. 21 Foster children have come through our doors. 1 of them

How can my boyfriend and I fall back in love?

What do you wear to bed? Men are very visual. Try garters, silk stockings and a matching bra. Or a crotchless catsuit. That ought to work. You could call him into the bedroom, and if you're masturbating when he gets there, I'm sure that

How can my girlfriend and I prepare for marriage?

Get a good education so you can get a good job. Many marriages end because of financial problems.You can even go to couple's counseling a few times for professional advice.When considering where you will live don't overdo it unless you have plenty of money. So many unexpected expenses come up and

How can people break up after so many years of marriage?

I think it's weirder when people don't change after years together. When I think about my first husband, whom I married 36 years ago, I can remember why I fell in love while also knowing if I'd met him now, there is no way I'd consider marrying him. The things that made me excited to

How to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you

From my own experience I can tell you that the BEST THING to do is to stop caring as fast as possible. You see, getting in love and getting emotionally attached to someone is VERY difficult to break apart and this

How could I get over an unhappy marriage?

In your question I read some admiration for your wife. She is smart and efficient. That's something.Please read carefully. You feel your live is empty. You don't feel any love coming from your wife and she most likely not from you. When

How did you know you loved someone?

Honestly, it feels like you don't care if you ever have money, sex, kids, or anything material. As long as this person is with you and loves you, you literally feel whole and happy. I call my wife my

How did you meet your spouse and how old were you?

I was 34, 4+ years post divorce, and was single, happy and didn't see myself ever getting married again. I had great friends, a good career, great hobbies, a full volunteer schedule and was a better father to my kids then ever. Life was good. I was in a grocery store and ran into a

How did your life change after marrying someone rich?

Oh i can ans this. Though we are not married yet, but dating since quite a few years. He has completely changed my perspective on lot of things, and has set really high standards in case we ever break up.We met online by chance, lucky

How difficult was it to let go of your partner of a long term relationship? How do you rebuild/restart when you really love the person and have been in the relationship for too long?

My prequel to this answer - Michelle Thorp's answer to Love: What's the stupidest thing you've done for love?You keep going because there is nothing else you can do. You feel empty and a little lost. The hardest thing is the fact that all your memories, moments and things that

How to accept that my husband loves another woman and go on with my marriage

You are focusing on the wrong thing. You say he loves another woman, but the real important question is, does he love you? Some people are able to love more than one person in a romantic way. Some are not. Some don't accept this possibility because culture is geared towards

How to ask my husband to support me financially while I am unemployed

As a wife and a freelancer, I have often found myself in situations of little to no work at all. In these times it's quite hard to ask my husband for financial support, however, I've found that in my own

How to avoid an emotional breakdown seeing my spouse in court during divorce proceedings

In England and Wales, a divorce can only be obtained when a marriage has irretrievably broken down and it can be proved by at least one of five specific facts, set out in the divorce petition.Might help- This is How I Saved My

How to catch a cheating girlfriend

Wow, so I'm not trying to sell you a product or service ... let's get that out there first off! Sheesh!You could sneak around and go through their phone but do you want to reduce yourself to that? You could drive by their house or follow them three cars behind everywhere they go, but

How to choose guy for arrange marriage

Have you ever find your particular brand or cloth on that very day the day you out for shopping?Atleast it never happened with me. Sometimes it's not fit, sometimes colour, sometimes I thought let's try in other shop or brand. Shopping first time is always difficult because you are attracted to every

How to convince my girlfriend to go to the gym

Step #1: Praise their efforts.On any given week I'll hit the gym five or six times, and I know that for people like us missing a gym workout is the equivalent of marrying King Jeffery out of your own free will. However, even though I have been

How to deal with a husband who changed his mind about having kids

You cannot change his mind, nor should you even try. Having kids is a dealbreaker for many people, and if you proceed to

How to deal with my girlfriend's overbearing mother

Your gf's mom has huge boundary issues, and is trying to control her daughter long after she should have stopped. Unfortunately your gf has probably been taught to accept this since early childhood.Unlearning excessive obedience to her mom will take time. She'll need help to do this. This help could be you,

How to fall back in love with my husband after being separated

Do you mean separated like one of you was deployed overseas for a year, or separated as in the first step towards divorce? It makes a difference. If this was a separation because of the military or work, I'd hope that being together again would relight your fire. Of course, veterans

How to fall in love again with the same person

Here are the mantras of falling back in love with the same person again.Take some time in solitude. Although, you love each other but sometimes to realize the value of other person, you have to back out, you have to go separate ways. ...Be clingier. ...Touch more often. ...You don't need mobile phones when you are together.

How to fall in love with my husband again

#Question name: Is it possible to fall back in love with my husband?TOP 21 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!Hey friennds, I searched all Quora answers and marriaage tips on the internet and below are best tips to save your marrriage. I hope you love it.1. Try to be

How to find a husband

This is what you have to do:Think long and hard about WHAT you want. I mean: Get a CLEAR picture of that husband. Think of age, looks, education, status and personality. Decide which properties are the most important to YOU and if you really need one at all. ;) Put a

How to find a life partner other than from a marriage bureau or matrimony sites

I'm in a somewhat similar situation, not exactly that. I'm elder than you are. I don't want to really get into 'marriage' (that even rhymes with 'cage') giving up my freedom.But my dad wants me to get married. My friends, who love me a lot, insist

How to get back at the many mistresses in my husbands life

It never ceases to amaze me when women, or men for that matter, put their mate's infidelity directly on the doorstep of the person or persons with whom they are being unfaithful. In your situation, it's important to remember that HE is the

How to get divorced in India

Hi There, at the outset, I am sorry to hear this, but my friend even I went through the same, but trust divorce is a pain if it happens suddenly, if you have spent enough time all alone dealing with it

How to get him back

Your heart is breaking. That's a fairly common denominator after a divorce or breakup. You even want to get him back. You still believe that he's the one. All you need now is to convince him that you're still the one for him.Unfortunately, your confidence, in the days and weeks following