The problem indicated in this question does not depend on the choice between love marriage and arranged marriage.It depends on the FALSE EXPECTATIONS of people, and this factor of false expectations can apply both to love marriages and arranged marriages.So the solution is
This is a complex question. Most couples address this paramount decision before marriage. Since you are past this-it seems like you, both, need to make a dicision. Parenting is not something to "do" under pressure-it's very challenging and NEVER ending. If your husband
There is a very famous line
I don't agree to the opinions stated. In my view, arrange marriages can be durable that too with loads of happiness if we make them work. Nowadays our parents take your opinions into considerations, we get some time to spend together before marriage, we do have a choice
That is such a weird question! Why would it be a problem? People can marry anybody they wish to...Maybe you are referring to immigration and citizenship issues? I doubt there are any laws against marrying somebody from a different country. Immigration can be easily handled by a lawyer and citizenship takes a couple of years
Are there ever situations where a married man deeply loves another woman and becomes unattracted to his wife but doesn't leave his wife?
Yeah, that happened to me. With a woman in our neighborhood.Why stay? The kids, because my wife has been a good wife, and she didn't deserve it. Because the other woman's (the OW) views on guys who leave their families are not admiring and
Yes, economic and educational status and age are big factors (but not the only factors).LOW divorce rate:People with 4-year college degrees, married over age 25, and income over $50k.The other group with a lower-than-average divorce rate is people who attend religious services at least once a week.HIGH
The difference between pets and humans is the same difference between standing on stable ground or standing on shaky ground.Humans are unpredictable in their relationships. Their emotions and thoughts change frequently. Humans have ulterior motives that go beyond survival. Humans, even those close to you, can leave you feeling uneasy. The range and complexity of negative emotions
Short answer: YES! Both of us, actually! We are blessed with three daughters who now are adults. Two of them still are sticking around, though. They seem to like it around us, too. It's been 26 years and since we married rather unprepared and out of the blue. After some 10 months Long Distance and
When I decided to take the blame so she stays happy.I am an Indian guy, 24.During my Engineering days in my third year, I was introduced to a girl who was a year senior than me through our common friend. She was pretty simple, smart and good looking girl but I wasn't attracted to
At what point is it time to walk away from a long term relationship when you love that person but realize you are incompatible?
A difficult yet a necessary walk out:After being in a long term relationship, a person kind of gets used to the other person, both- the likes and the dislikes and all the small and big things that matter to the significant
Mine did. If a covert is truly capable of some kind of love I believe she felt it at times, but it came in cycles. Typically it went in the classic love bomb/abuse/discard cycle, except instead of completly discarding me she'd have a failure to launch and change her mind. Or
If the love was real, I'd imagine it could take a little while longer.Or you can experience what I experienced. We dated in 1989 for 4 months, while in college. I was 23, she was 19. We stupidly broke up, motivated by my fear of commitment.
I work in the field of infidelity, so I've heard this story from a variety of husbands.Often the story starts out like this:
Yes. It would seem the first question could be summarized like this, can one person love two people at the same time? Sure. I have four children and I love all of them. I'm not certain I understand how that's any different than saying I could love two women at the same time.You did say love and
Yes! My husband and I have a happy marriage of over 17 years and counting; we've brought five children into this world together, four of them still living. My husband is in love with his girlfriend of two years and shares a son with her who will turn a year old soon.
7 tips to tell if you can get your ex-partner back and how to do itHe wasn't just determined to get his ex-girlfriend back; he wanted to marry her. Trouble was, she was just about to marry another man - she was literally at the altar. But
You certainly aren't talking about husband-wife love.....So, i'll cut the crap that most of the other answers have talked about.Short answer for your question is- YesNow, here's the detailed one- Your heart doesn't care about your marital status. When you love someone, you just love them. Period.I know there'll be a lot of moral policing around that statement, but
I assume you're talking about a married man being in love with a married woman who is not his wife.Yes, of course. Love is an emotion. Can a married man feel anger for a married woman? Of course. Disappointment? Yes. Joy? You bet. Love is no different.However, there is a difference between
He will say he loves you too and he cares for you too. He would want to know everything about you, about your day. Your ups and downs even what you wore to work and maybe take a selfie every day. You will feel so loved
I shall start with the concepts of love.Monogamy, I am committed to you. One love. One sexual partner. I want to build a life with you. One human being that has my heart and soul until death breaks our bondLust. I love having sex with you. You
Can a married man who claims that he loves his wife, but has relations with other women, really love his wife?
Absolutely. You are equating sex with love and they ARE mutually exclusive. You can easily be in love without ever having physical relations. And to say you've loved everyone you've had sex with is probably pretty damn rare these days.Our mistake is thinking
MANY A HAPPY RETURNS OF THIS HAPPY WOMAN'S DAY!!!Passionless & loveless life before marriage. Anxiety + Depression can be vanished through marriage.40% modern women are victims of Anxiety Neurosis & depression [2 sides of same coin].Tips are given to make a happy healthy & marvelous
Personally I haven't, but it differs from person to person. I think most of us who love someone truly would relate to this that Love just doesn't fade away with time.May be the pain will be less with time and you will learn to live with that pain, but that
The harsh truth is he won't. He won't be kneeling before you holding red roses requesting you to become 'his' forever (As I received & saw the edit). There may be a possibility that he's not ready for you at this time despite
Yup!We humans have a tendency of
Well, I am going to swim against the current here and say YES but before you hold your breath, read my entire response.He dumped you because of different things. He may have not been happy with you anymore . There was something he wasn't getting. Try to find what that was and fix it.Now,
Can anyone fall in love with his/her first love after losing once? Can you fall in love with same person repeatedly? Can lovers become friends again?
First love is very powerful love. It often came to us at a time in our lives when we were young and innocent and idealistic. They say you never forget your first love, and the remnants of that memory can color everything that you do ever after.They say that you should
I disliked him for I found him way too egoistic.Apparently my teacher intentionally grouped us together for an assignment.He called me up at 10 in the night to discuss the project. The call lasted an entire night.I fell in love with him.I fell for his impeccable
It happens often, especially in long-term relationships. Things ebb and flow in life and relationships. To assume that all relationships are never-ending love fests will lead to disappointment and heartache. Being in a successful relationship takes work - real, honest,
You can't fix your husband only yourself. It might be that nothing you do can save your marriage but it's always worth trying. Think back to when you were dating or first married what things did the two of you enjoy doing together. What are things you did for him that brought you both close. I'm not talking
After reading this story, I would definitely say yes!*I Married a Stranger*I was on the bed, feeling terrified. I opened my diary and wrote, ‘I married a stranger' and quickly hid it under the bed. My whole body was shaking.
Yes, of course. It happens.It might be a
Although popular belief is that men wish to screw any good looking girl they see walking on the street, that is not the case. There are many men out there who merely wish to bond with a partner and spend their lives with
To borrow a phrase: When a man loves a woman...yada yada yada. Ok thats a combo of two phrases. Men are initially more analytical. We measure everything whether we mean to or not. Her smile. The way she is with her own family. Her body. How good she is at stuff whatever that stuff is and most
At the same time? It would seem difficult. Both ‘love' and ‘hate' are strong, all-consuming human emotions – and take up the entirety of heart and mind to be truly experienced. Co-existence of such diametrically opposing mental states, at the same instance, would question the very premise,
Absolutely! You love your spouse on a multitude of levels! The biggest part of that love is their friendship. Your best friends, confidantes, lovers,PARTNERS!. Perhaps if your not happy in
Can you compare adoption to a man finding out that his wife/girlfriend getting pregnant by another man?
You could agree with both stands, because both make sense. I think it'd be the best to separate the two events/states of affairs:1) The wife cheated. That's rightly considered a bad thing in a monogamous relationship, and should be treated as such. There's many different solutions to 'fix' it, one of which is splitting
Edited, 10th April 2018It is just over 3 weeks since my wife found out about my online emotional affair with this "soulmate", and I'd like to make a number of corrections to my original answer below.It turns out I've been deluding myself heavily and acting incredibly poorly. The majority of interactions with this
Have you heard of people who are asexual? There are other ways to show your love besides sex. There is more to intimacy then sex.But that being said both partners have to be ok with it or have knowledge that one
Can you love someone who doesn't love you back? If you love someone, but they don't love you back, is that still love or just an obsession?
We all love someone we can't have. Well that's one of the hard truths of life. Never really loved any girl in the first 23 years of my life. Met this girl in MBA who became my first crush. Never told her about this thing (it's been 2 years since I met
In my heart that is so. What would be the lessons, and up's and down's. Good moments and the ones you want to last forever in your mind if we only had the ability to love one person. I like to think if I have the power to believe in
Try to establish contact.Do confidence building measures.Resolve oustanding issues by healthy dialouge. Do not argue and listen patiently first and have a big heart.Never involve a third party how so ever close thst guy or girl might be. They will develop a conflict of interest over a period of time and spoil your prospects instead of making it any
Could you forgive infidelity and accept that your husband or wife to come and live with you, forgetting all without fear that thee be unfaithful again?
I can forgive, and have, and am working on our marriage again. But forgetting is just almost impossible. How exactly would one do that anyways? He doesn't get to burn down the house with everything in it, and then have me pretend I don't remember just because I
The question and description are not in synchronous.1. You are still in relationship and you don't feel the same for them.2. The relationship has ended but you still want to pursue it.To my understanding the question points to first situation so
I am in a relationship when i was in class 10th and he was my senior in school. After completing his 12th he cleared CLAT exam and selected in NLU assam. All the problem started from here only. We both are immature and young. It's really difficult for
Do a lot of divorces happen between partners who still love each other but nonetheless have irreconcilable differences?
Love is not the only ingredient in a marriage. I think what many people forget is that marriage takes work. It is not a state of complacency, where you ride on your love for one another to carry you through, because love needs to be recognized and nurtured. Because of this, love and marriage go hand in
Do children born to parents in love marriage get more love and affection from both parents as compared to parents who had an arranged marriage?
NO.........IN love marriage ,there are more commitments before marriage.as no one is perfect and able to fullfilll all your desire, there is dissatisfaction after marriage and even force them to think over their choice.now there is less expectations in arranged marriage, as
Do high business ambitions and the ambition of staying with the person you love forever (commitment to partner) go together?
I think that a good partner will encourage high ambition. Next year I'm anticipating doing my PhD in the US while my fiance remains in Canada, most likely. I want to become a professor and it's much easier to become one if you get a PhD in the US. My fiance is encouraging me to follow this path. He
I was thinking the other day about the miscommunication that occurs between husbands and wives when it comes to love making. This analogy came to me. See if it works for you.The husband is like the ice cream man at an ice cream parlor. His greatest satisfaction comes when he serves his wife a flavor
Assuming a set of healthy relationships between all parties, then the two kinds of love are pretty incomparable in my own experience. That is to say that the love I feel for my wife is of an entirely different nature than the love I feel for my sons. The question you are asking strikes
Answering this anonymously because of the potential backlash I may get.Do not mistake what I am about to say. I love my wife to death. She is one half of my soul, my teammate against the world.BUT, I do not find her as sexy as I used to before she had our son.Before you
There are two types of husbands who take dowry.Husband 1 after taking dowry :I asked 10 lakhs but my father in law gave me 5 lakhs. This is bull shit. I have to criticize her to get the balance 5 lakhs
The Love marriage centric societies have found love in multiple partners and societies are destructed to the core. The family system is destroyed and hardly exist. In america the marriages are down trend and live ins are uptrend. It is pretty common to have more than 5 parters
Thanks for A2A.I will tell you both the sides ( Pros and Cons) of Arrange and love marriage.Lets Start with Arrange marriages:A person got into an arrange marriage and then later realise that it was not his/her cup of tea. The person
The only way to remember the name of a physically unattractive woman is to sleep with her.It's a nasty joke best left to an all male company. Biological injustice.It's not a waterproof approach, but the prospects of remembering the woman's name
The secret to finding love is to "Love In General". That means be kind and warm hearted to EVERYONE! The mailman, the check out girl, everyone. It is contagious.If you are outgoing, smiling, that in itself is much more attractive than a cute figure or fancy clothes. Let it be your "calling card"....the person who remembers their name
A better question would be do parents like each of their children equally, and for many of us the answer is no. Children have different personalities and interests as do their parents. Some combinations mesh better than others. So a parent may feel more comfortable with one child and have more interests in
I thought that my husband loving me was sufficient reason to get married. He was handsome, kind and affectionate. He had a good relationship with his family and was well-liked by teachers, pastors and even elders in his community. I had every reason to believe that he was a good guy and a decent marriage prospect. Most importantly,
Here is the true story one of my friend.They were into long distance relationship, beautiful couple, compatible , loving and partners in crime ( I think thats enough to understand that how much they are into n how Perfect they were)They got break-up both have their
Yes, It's needed. There is no life without love.Love is not only between a boy and a girl. Love also exists between child and mother(mother's love), child and father(father's love), love can also be between two persons of the same gender, and that's the only reason, why life is
Not. NEVER. NEVER EVER. Oh, my God, you can't be serious.I get many people has different types of intellect: I can perfectly find myself loving a man who is a great conversationalist, a social butterfly, but has no formal education, only curiosity and charm. Or, instead, loving a strong, silent man, who is really confortable in intimacy,
Of course. In fact if there wasn't some degree of love involved it is doubtful that there would be 30-year marriages.While some people may cite children,convenience or fear of dying alone, after 30 years with a person, unless you both are emotionally damaged, you develop feelings of concern and care which
Yes, I love my family, but I can't say I necessarily like them. I love my boyfriend, but I don't always like to be around him or like the things he does.My family has done me wrong, they've made me
Very, mighty much :)I think every girl happily married would love her husband. At least, that's what I would like to believe. However, in most cases today, that's not the ideal scenario.Coming to my story, yes, I love my husband very much. The reason
Beyond words. I can't believe, after what I went through in my first marriage, that he fell into my life.I'd been in love with him for years. He has this amazing smile, and a laugh that lights up a room. He's kind, thoughtful, loving, and
No.It's been a long road and loads of bumps and bruises. Marriage is hard, really hard, especially to a man with an ego and tendency to selfishness. I have sacrificed, cried, hated and loved this man for 33 years.... but I wouldn't do it any differently. He put up with my spoiled and
I know a friend who married someone but he still love the girlfriend from his college days. He's in his 40s now with kids in their teens married for years. Yet in his heart he never let that flower die he planted in his college days.May be he didn't
Successful marriages have two people who are working hard to better their relationship while other marriages are dissatisfied or broken because one or neither are working together. Marriage is not easy but if two people are willing to fight well and towards a common resolve,
Yes. Yes. A DEFINITE YES.I really want to fall in love again with the same person.I was madly in love with my Boy and so was he. Initially, we were very good friends and then came into a (beautiful) relationship in the first year of our college. Unfortunately, things didn't go
Depends on the state you live in. If you are of age there should be no problem. Now, and most importantly, you must be mentally and financially stable. This is not the 19th or the early 20th century when before technology had an effect
Specifically for Indian Quorans.There is this Girl with a 5 yr old daughter, left his husband last year, divorce case and negotiation is in process. It was her love marriage with him but after 1st yr of marriage things got changed for her, husband is not more attracted towards her, having
Does anyone ever get back together with their first love after years and years apart? How did it go?
No, it is unlikely. If you have no communication with an ex for years and years (especially since people can reach out anytime nowadays), it is a clear sign of disinterest on their part, and you should move on. Here are some tips on moving on:Mark Lawrence's answer to It's been two years
Theoretically yes.Exercise in general boosts the amount of testosterone your body produces, which makes you feel more "powerful" and confident.But testostrone is not the only culprit of improved bed performance. When you start getting bigger and stronger through bodybuilding, you just feel manlier and more attractive in general. Thus increasing your "staying power" and your sex appeal.
BACKGROUND: I met my boyfriend when I was 19. I have no family cause my mom is a narcissistic woman that abused me physically and emotionally. I never met my mother. Having such background, I trsted him enough to move in with him after a year cause he was always caring
Nope. We're gonna need more than love. Assuming a
This story will tell you Is Love really Blind, if yes then Why?Once all feelings and human virtues gathered at the same place. When Boredom was bored enough, Craziness suggested
Does love marriage spell actually work? If there is refusal from the boys family for the same will this love marriage spell solve the problem and let marriage happen?
Yes,it works provided you trust each other and be there for each other during hard days..I am married to my husband for past 6 years..The thing in my marriage is ours is love marriage..I am north Indian whereas my hubby belongs to south.. Initially his parents were not happy with our relationship but with time they
Source: How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back: THE Guide To Win a Girl Back As Your GF or Wife 2018These 10 signs can help you know whether your ex-girlfriend wants to get back together:She stays in touch.She contacts you first.She waits a few weeks to
One day a man went to a park. He saw an attractive woman seated on a stone bench. He settled down on the same bench. After a few minutes he moved a little closer. She moved away. He waited for a few minutes, then moved a
Let's call the guy G.G and I grew up together, were really good friends. When we were about 15, we started dating. Stuck through high school and made it to the same college. Moved in together, only to find things rocky a year and a half later. We tried to make it
Has anyone stayed in a marriage when they knew their husband had a mistress? I love my husband and I feel like this is just a phase he needs to get out of his system. Am I being nieve?
No. We split for good once I knew for sure (straight from his mouth) that he was cheating. It was a deal breaker for me. This happened years ago now.Now let me talk to you from a different perspective, the mistress. Yep, I've btdt in recent times. I'm not at all proud of it. I'm
I regret my Love marriage at the time when my marriage was happening. I am guy from UP currently working in product mobile company with a very good salary. I engaged in Dec 2018 and My marriage was happened in Feb 2019 and spent a good amount of
Insights While Caring for an Elderly CoupleI was with the elderly couple, sitting in same room while relaxing after completing my morning duties for them, namely, getting them up out of bed, changing their Depends adult diapers, dressing them up and serving them breakfast.
Yes, I don't recommend it. We had remained friends while we were apart for 4 1/2 years. Her dad had terminal cancer, she lost her health insurance, and her job soon after. Basically I felt bad for her. She had given me sole custody of our daughter so she could be a flight attendant a year earlier. 2 years
Hey, first of all, trust yourself and your intuition.Here is the story: on of my friends loved a girl. She wasn't interested in him even in the least. She told him quite openly about that. That would be the end of it, had the guy
This is an example of a bad one,but its funny as hell! :A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door. She goes to the door opens it and sees a man standing there. He asks
'Letting the wrong girl go!'I'm 18 and look wise I'm a handsome guy. I'm not bluffing but for my alibi I'll tell you that in 11th standard, I was a new admission in this one school and I became an outrage there with every girl falling for me and
How can I believe in love again after my parents' divorce?Just because your parents have divorced does not mean that they do not love each other. There are a lot of people who love each other dearly but just can't stand to be in the same room with each
Be as honest as you can.Be as loving as you can.Allow some time for you and your partner to adjust.Unless there is a major problem in the relationship, I would try to stay and work things out. There is probably a reason why you guys stayed together for so long.But if you have decided to end the relationship,
Do you have to label all of this as out of love? It sounds like you still really dig each other, but that you are just exploring other parts of yourself, how you interact with others, etc. I think it's important to have other friendships, interests, etc. outside your marriage.
I have lost hope. Dating sites do not allow anonymity OR the expression of sexual preferences. Hookup sites are for casual encounters. People on spiritual dating sites do not believe sexual preferences should be important. How am I supposed to find my soul-mate if I would like a long-term relationship with someone spiritually oriented who also loves cunnilingus?
If you are somewhere in the US. I would think you simply go down to your local court house and inquire. For me I was finally directed to a section in our local family court building in California. In the office I was eventually guided to was the
How to get my husband to stay with me after he has fallen in love with another woman with whom he had an affair
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The basic technique is to watch your words. PRO 12:18 There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.If your words are health to him, he will want to hang
Cook delicious food for him.Dress nice and smell nice.Don't be a nag.Love his family as yours.All this may work or may not work. At some point, every wife finds herself in a dilemma like this -
My wife and I have been married for 26 years now. All told, we've lived together for about 28. We stopped sleeping in the same room about 12 years ago. We were both married before - me twice. Between us, we have 6 children. 21 Foster children have come through our doors. 1 of them
Maybe, they are unaware of its value. If both are employed, reaching home totally tired no scope for sharing happiness. Tips for happy married life.In these modern days, more & more cases of divorce are filed in courts; wherein in love marriages without parental support, the couple fights and feels lonely, with zero counseling. Whereas in arranged
What do you wear to bed? Men are very visual. Try garters, silk stockings and a matching bra. Or a crotchless catsuit. That ought to work. You could call him into the bedroom, and if you're masturbating when he gets there, I'm sure that