A divorced woman aged 35 years filed a petition against me, (age 24) that I used her, promised to marry and took money from her. What do I do now?
Your situation requires more background story. First of all, who is this woman to you in the first place, and how did you know her?If you don't know her: You made it sound like you don't know this woman at all and she simply appeared in
A man has been saving money in a secret spot on his own property, unbeknownst to his wife. If they were to divorce would his wife have any way of finding about this money?
It could depend on how he came to have the money, how long this had been going on, and how much money was involved. If he had at some point started sticking back half of his paycheck then it's probably someone could figure
A wants to divorce B; how does A get the divorce without a lawyer and/or without knowing the location of B?
I cannot tell you how to do it without a lawyer nor do I believe you should even attempt to do so. The old saying "the man/woman who represents himself in court has a fool for a client" is very true. Even in a divorce case. Lawyers go to school for a
My ex divorced me, because I had a hard time getting along with her parents, and she used the excuse that
Let me tell you, unless you've been exactly there and lived it, no one could possibly know or imagine exactly how this wrecks your mind, body, spirit and soul. Especially if they were leading a "double life" so to speak, meaning they were telling you one thing
According to Christian religious principals only, what happens when a couple divorces and remarries? After death, does the original couple reunite?
This question is almost identical to the one posed to Christ Himself by the Sadducees in the book of Matthew (22:23 - 31). The Ancient (Orthodox) Christian answer to this would be the same as His: There is no marriage in Heaven, so there is no question of couples (divorced or otherwise) reuniting in Heaven.That probably
As per Hindu law, if a man and women get married they can further re marry only after ending their first marriage.So if a married man starts staying with a widow before marriage that amounts to illegality. So in order to start living with the widow is to end the first marriage.An expert
According to Indian law if a married woman living or marries other man without getting divorce from the first husband what will be the consequence?
Without divorce second marriage is an offence under section 494 of ipc. He/she can be live with him/her as live in relationship only.She may file a divorce petition before family court through power of attorney holder.1. You
According to Indian Law, what are the legal entitlements of the wife over the husband's financial assets?
Thanks for the A2A.Legally, apart from maintenance from husband, a wife is not entitled to anything else, either movable or immovable, owned by the husband. However, at the time of Divorce, she would be entitled to alimony, and if the husband dies without leaving a
According to Islam, and logic, if the husband is abusive, she should seek a divorce, and consider a protection order. Despite what some misogynistic cultural interpretations claim, Islam is inimical with any form of oppression, and this is clear oppression. It may be emotional, or physical abuse. This is why divorce is an option, and that is in the
Respected madam/sirExtremely sorry to note that you are thinking divorce with in a month ..Are you having stand by arrangements.. meaning some one waiting for you to come out of Marriage .?Divorce is start of new problem ..you have to again start afresh and how many times you
If you are Indian, and if you have not re-married yet, you can claim for maintenance, but you will have hard time convincing court why you did not ask maintenance for 10 years. If you already received cash as 1 time settlement,
Yes, absolutely divorce him, but please do so with the help of a therapist and a lawyer, and if possible, with a few trusting and supportive friends or family. 16 years of living in this kind of marriage has unfortunately eroded some of your self respect and self esteem, and if
The problem indicated in this question does not depend on the choice between love marriage and arranged marriage.It depends on the FALSE EXPECTATIONS of people, and this factor of false expectations can apply both to love marriages and arranged marriages.So the solution is
I suspect that the small differences between two people who are otherwise attracted to each other early in a relationship often seem to grate on each other and assume larger importance as the relationship deepens. They were charming at first, but now the fact that he doesn't like the way she
What causes a divorce after 25+ years of marriageWell, I was with my husband for 26 years, until one day when he sent me a text message that said he
Yes, You Should Go to Marriage CounselingIf you go to any kind of counseling, you know there's a brief hitch in a conversation whenever it comes up. Even if you just casually drop that you had a counseling appointment the other day, the person
After 8 months of marriage, I lost my father. After a few months, I had a strife with my mother-in-law, after which my husband wants to divorce me. What should I do? I don't want to live.
After 6 years Marriage, 2 kids, I am debt trapped as a result of a project going beyond my control and beyond my plannings. it just happened. Now all be wife, her mother, my parents and relatives too, all don't want me. Does that I mean I should take my own life ?Still I love my wife unconditionally.
If you really love him that love never really goes away. But ways you can move on is first of all accepting the divorce, and not hold any negative feelings for yourself nor for your ex husband. Focus on all the things you gained and learned throughout the years
This is a complex question. Most couples address this paramount decision before marriage. Since you are past this-it seems like you, both, need to make a dicision. Parenting is not something to "do" under pressure-it's very challenging and NEVER ending. If your husband
Do not tell him. Just leave.Telling him is cruel and just another power play. Pluck your head from your filthy vagina and consider his feelings. You can go on doing what you do, after you leave, but telling him is insult
I am not your lawyer, I am almost certainly not licenced in your jurisdiction and this post is not legal advice.I do not know where you reside. Laws differ from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. I note you use the term
I struggled with that. But after the second divorce (it took a while) and about 6 months of work, I thought I was finally through with my emotional work.But as I was thinking that, I heard a voice in my head saying
If I understand your question correctly you're asking me if I would remarry after getting divorced a 2nd time. My answer to that is an emphatic
After divorce, should the parents and/or siblings of the ex-husband continue to pay alimony and child support to the ex-wife if the ex-husband dies?
First determine what is the likelihood of this.Many terminal illnesses today are curable or can be put into long remission, eg. cancer.An organ transplant might solve the pressing health problem.No, the family of the ex-husband will not do it except if they are extraordinarily kind.You
It will change yes because you are no more
I didn't even realize that this is a problem to women till I saw this question. In olden days when things like joint family structure and family business are strictly followed it is necessary for women to change her surname as joint families are usually
My suggestion to you is to get a lawyer to represent you in this process. Depending on the jurisdiction you reside in the process for getting a divorce is pretty straight forward.The court has rules on how to deal with non cooperative spouses. Best efforts to serve documents, communication with lawyer of record, etc.In my
Sounds like a beautiful case of insecurity here.1>Set some serious rules and stick by it.2>Use dramatic approach like Amitabh Bachchan : Aey!!! Mere maa baba k khilaaf ek shabd bhi bola toh mere se bura koi nahi hoga....ahaha.3>Sometimes parents can be
Although I cheated on my husband for 4 years, I really love him and regret ever doing it. Now he's hooked and cheating on me with his female friend. What do I seriously need to do to get him back?
You destroyed your husband's self-esteem-in spades. He sought validation from another woman-and apparently is getting it.The first thing you need to do is profusely apologize for your past actions and to do damage control. You obviously never lifted a pinkie to restore his lost self-esteem.
From what you've said and the details you'e provided your husband seems to be an insecure chauvinist. You met with him and tried to compromise and things never seem to work out for him and he's bitching about it.I'll tell you that cooking and leaving a job is NOT
I met my wife at the age of 33. Having lost two children forever I never wished to feel that vulnerable.. that lost ever again. My current wife had never wished to have children from the time she was a little girl she preceded horses and livestock you could bond with and leave out in
Number 1: If you feel something is wrong, then it's wrong. If you aren't confortable with his current behavior, then you are allowed to leave. Number 2: Read Number 1 again. Number 3: Go to a safe location and call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. 1-800-799-7233 Ask questions. Number
I gave up on the only girl I had ever loved!While I was in college, I felt great in the company of a beautiful young girl. She studied engineering while I studied medicine. We had common friends. She was bold, very lovable, respectful, and whatever she spoke made sense to me.
It would seem that you are having second thoughts about your decision to move out. The best thing to do is to reconsider the reasons you had at the time you made the decision. For example, if it was one of
This is tough. I'll start by saying I am VERY pro-choice.If you are considering aborting this child because the MAN is no longer going to be in your life then - and I say this with no judgment - it has to be considered that you don't want
Everyone can have a bad day, and being stressed out having to care for both a kid and someone who's ill can definately make one on edge enough to say something unfair. However, it's also not uncommon that one part in a marriage does a crapload of more
I was hot right before I got married, or at least my version of hot: fifteen pounds down from when I first met my husband, teetering on the edge of a size 8 (a milestone for me). In our wedding photos, my stomach looks flat in my fitted dress, my arms toned, my cheekbones visible.Real
If this question is asked for academic presentation, then this is not the forum to get an answer. If this is your personal question then, this looks a futile exercise to answer it rather this question raises more questions about the intentions behind asking it.If
Among the men whom beautiful women want to marry, do some of the men not deserve their beautiful women?
Women will marry good looking and not so good looking men. That is just how it is. Why? Because the man is a good provider, or works his best to provide and be a good friend and protector to the family he wants to make with that woman. Women
In western countries theft is obviously a crime, so the woman would be interviewed and if found guilty charged. She would have to pay the money back and also face a term of probation or even jail time. In Asian countries, where the women don't often work, or if they do don't have the high paid jobs
Are Americans astonished to know that most Indians have arranged marriage with very low divorce rate ?
During my two plus decades living in the United States, I have seen many changes occur in my native India. The country eradicated the scourge of polio, sent a rocket ship to Mars on a shoestring budget, built modern highways crisscrossing the country, and flexed its economic muscles, raising tens of millions of people
The question and its description clearly shows some grave misconceptions that you have. Unfortunately, many people share the same thought.First of all, please don't think that people go for arranged marriages after getting rejected lots of times. In fact, such cases are really rare and there is a huge number of
There is a very famous line
Mine was an arranged marriage, after a series of my failed attempts to make my various relationships work.My wife and me met in a restaurant, under the watchful and curious eyes of our parents and within half an hour of talking to each other, we
I don't agree to the opinions stated. In my view, arrange marriages can be durable that too with loads of happiness if we make them work. Nowadays our parents take your opinions into considerations, we get some time to spend together before marriage, we do have a choice
Of course arranged marriages are safe.In Astrology, marriage is seen from the house of Libra, that is symbolic for relationship, listening, relationship of give and take and matrimony.Just imagine, you are thinking of a Libra matter, which is ideally done after
Yes. They're pretty much the norm everywhere. Doesn't matter whether it's urban India or rural India, upper class or lower class society, rich or poor, north, south, east or west (north east might be an exception). If you know India only through Quora/Reddit or other internet platforms, you might assume that arranged marriages are hated by younger generation
No. Cell phones are objects. They do not participate in the decision-making and activities of their owners and users. The telegram, a letter with stamps, visiting an out of town friend, to converse with about personal thoughts, relationship problems, to cheat emotionally on
No. At least not in the sense that there is any causal relationship.There's a common myth that cohabiting before marriage increases your chance of getting divorce. This story has circulated widely for 20 years, but it's based on really sloppy statistics.It's
One of the difficulties in doing a good statistical analysis of this is in defining the appropriate control group. I don't think that just pre-nup v no pre-nup would give correct results.For example; perhaps those who would consider a pre-nup already see
If you are dissatisfied, you may be tempted to file for divorce on your own using court provided documents or information from a book or website. While a do-it-yourself divorce may be acceptable in some situations, most people should consider hiring an attorney to represent their interests.Here are some reasons that a person should
It depends on the country. The problem is generally not so much that the court doesn't apply the law equally but that the legal framework itself is biased.Alimony for example is an outdated practice and is intrinsically biased against men, as men generally out-earn their wives and
It depends on the specific religion but it appears that divorce rates are slightly lower among atheists than religious people. Of course, there are factors that impact this. Divorce is not a problem; divorce is a solution to a problem. So pretending it is a bad thing is like pretending that cancer treatment is bad.
Seeing as women file 70% of divorces, then yes they are more likely too seek a divorce, but separations I believe are roughly the same, 50/50.But the thing too remember is that separation can't completely turn your life upside down, divorce can and it
Even before writing an answer to this question I am wondering about what on this earth made you ask this question. Anyways,I am a married Indian woman and have a loving husband who is quite an Indian, a father who has been quite a wonderful husband to
Marriage in India is much more about binding families, and much less about personal choice and fulfilmentIndia remains a highly traditional society. Marriage is much more about binding families, and much less about personal choice and fulfilment, than in most other parts of
That is such a weird question! Why would it be a problem? People can marry anybody they wish to...Maybe you are referring to immigration and citizenship issues? I doubt there are any laws against marrying somebody from a different country. Immigration can be easily handled by a lawyer and citizenship takes a couple of years
There is no caste system in Islam so there is no question of
I was a Japanese wife, though I am not Japanese. I experienced infidelity in my marriage which is what led to our divorce. My husband was trained by his father, who cheated on his wife on- goingly, and his friends, who encouraged him to see prostitutes in college. I
No I certainly do not believe marriage is about, or should be about happiness. If happiness is attained along the way that is a really good dynamic. But looking at current statistics and separation and divorce rates, that is not necessarily so for everyone. And even
Of course marriage is hard work. There is a reason the divorce rate is 50%.Marriage in a sense is like having another job.You come home from work at the end of a long day and all you want to do is sleep or chill watching tv but you have another person there that needs your attention.If you live your
Shaadi ka laddu jo khaye wo pachtaye, jo na khaye wo bhi pachtaye :V.Depends on you solely .No,your partner does not count hereYou chose them ,so you cant blame anyone if you are unhappy.You need to make your partner happy so that they keep
First I want to mention I am not against Husband but just to give a glimpse I am penning down some facts which people should know--( including girls who worships their shitty husbands).Most of the times women get abused specially in North and East states. I found South Indian Women
Research has consistently shown that men benefit from marriage far more than women do. I know I will get attacked by every red piller/MRA/MGTOW on the planet but you can't argue with the data.-Married men are healthier than single men. The same is not true for women.-Married men make more money and get promoted faster than single men.
Men have a much higher rate of suicide and depression than their married counterparts and divorced women.Men's Health - How Divorce Affects Men Emotionally and PhysicallyThere are potentially many reasons for this, but the clear obvious reason is men are far more likely to be pressed into financial servitude than women.Dads Represent 85%
At first I thought of responding with some sort of joke answer, because it is a strange but interesting question that cannot really be answered. Then reading Gwen's answer, a good one, I realized it could be taken seriously.
From The Financial and Emotional Realities of Divorce For Women:90% of divorced mothers have custody of their children (even if they did not receive it in court)60% of people under poverty guidelines are divorced women and childrenSingle mothers support up to four children on an average after-tax annual income of $12,20065%
No, definitely not, and if it is so it doesn't hamper men life because it is only married girl who is supposed to live like her in laws family rules and same is not applicable for men. May be today's situation is different because most off the
Are Mormon couples who 'seal' their marriages in the temple given a secret password they're to use to reunite in the afterlife?
Yes, in the Mormon church, such a new name or secret password in the Mormon temple sealing ceremony is, indeed, part of the
No. Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints don't arrange marriages.I've heard that the Kingston clan, also known as the Latter-Day Church of Christ and the FLDS, both of which are small polygamist offshoots of the LDS Church have experimented with arranged marriages. But I can't confirm that. And neither
Unhappy is sort of relative. Most longer term marriages are on cruise control and while not really fulfilling (which can make you unhappy) aren't worth a divorce either. Especially, if your desired state is to be with another partner down the road and essentially back in a similar situation. If you haven't noticed most people
I would say yes, but depending on your income level, it is for entirely different reasons.Showy weddings are expensive, and if you can't afford it and borrow to throw one, then a couple is adding additional stress to a new marriage. I have a friend who is a wedding planner, and her packages start at
Are same-sex marriages, geriatric marriages, open marriages, and bigamist marriages actually marriages or just convenient unions?
To answer this question, I'll cite some examples of convenient unions:Teenage girl marries the first guy who gets her pregnant because her parents said so, or to preserve the family's honor/nameCelebrity marries another celebrity to boost/revive their careersHomosexual person marries straight person primarily to allay suspicions of homosexuality and be accepted by societyArranged marriages between families for political, financial
I was a single divorce attorney for awhile until I moved to another area of practice. It did make me skeptical of marriage. Partly because of the way the soon-to-be ex spouses used their children to hurt each other, but even more it was that many of my
Let's look at this question from a different point of view-Would you like it if two people who didn't want to live together were forced to? Would you like it if you were one of these two?Increasing divorce rates merely tells you that people who were unhappy together got out of the marriage.Most
Yes it would. I am not considering the population fluctuations or rate of bachelors/spinsters against married couple. These numbers will have a huge impact on the divorce numbers too. Lets assume these factors are not varying and only other socio economic factors are. Even in this case divorce rates will still increase.
Sure, reported reasons for divorce might be lies or face-saving exaggerations. They are interesting in a voyeuristic way, just as reality television is. It only matters for entertainment value. Please note that the newspaper report was reported in a newspaper. This means it was worthy of note and not a typical divorce story, but
Of course.I try to never lie personally, but sometimes little lies are harmless.-spouse gets an article of clothing that they love and are very excited for, but you just don't like-
Most homophobia is caused by emotion (e.g. fear and/or disgust) rather than rationality. I can't prove this, but I suspect many homophobic theists use dogma to justify their emotions rather than the other way around. So it's probably not the case that they are prejudiced because the Bible says homosexuality is a sin. Rather, the Bible just excuses
Mormons aren't really a single culture. The
Are there attorneys that deal with common law marriage between same sex couples in the state of Texas?
Any family-law attorney can deal with common-law (informal) marriage claims. Because of the Obergefell decision legalizing same-sex marriage and invalidating laws restricting marriage to opposite-sex couples, Texas' informal-marriage statute also applies to same-sex couples despite the obsolete man/woman wording.The question is whether the change in the law applies retroactively. If the evidence of
Are there countries where the law may require a woman to pay alimony to her ex-husband after the divorce?
Sure. It happens in the US.Alimony, or spousal support, is granted to one spouse to allow that spouse to get on his/her feet following a divorce. It's normally granted in a temporary basis and only for as long as is necessary for the
Are there ever situations where a married man deeply loves another woman and becomes unattracted to his wife but doesn't leave his wife?
Yeah, that happened to me. With a woman in our neighborhood.Why stay? The kids, because my wife has been a good wife, and she didn't deserve it. Because the other woman's (the OW) views on guys who leave their families are not admiring and
Yes, economic and educational status and age are big factors (but not the only factors).LOW divorce rate:People with 4-year college degrees, married over age 25, and income over $50k.The other group with a lower-than-average divorce rate is people who attend religious services at least once a week.HIGH
Yes. Abuse takes many forms. It can take physical forms and it can take emotional forms. Women are as capable of abusing men as men are as of abusing women. Unfortunately, I have known several men who were or are in abusive marriages. Women do not tend to do serious physical damage
Considering the Case for Early Marriage sparks debate amongst many people and to be honest, I think it boils down to whether or not you truly love each other. My husband and I met in high school, fell in love, and married at 19/20. We've been married for 20 years this June and let me tell you,
Insecure people are jealous of other people. Wives, husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends, unrequited crushes, complete strangers--people in general feel jealous when they feel insecure, fear abandonment, or feel they might lose something they feel entitled to.In my experience, secure people tend not to feel jealous. This has nothing to do
No. They are interested in marriage. They also want to have companion and a partner.Only when their freedom is snatched or their opinion is not considered they would be reluctant to marry.Any guy who does not accepts her independence will find it difficult to marry such girl.Not that working girls cannot adjust or are just too independent. They also
Well, We will support and guide you through the various options that are available to you in resolving the issues arising out of the end of your relationship. Above all, we will strive to help you to resolve matters without acrimony - and in a way that minimizes the impact
Yes, I am, and I don't have any shoulder to cry on, a little background to my story(Mine was a love marriage, belonging to a conservative Indian Muslim family it was not easy to convince my family or her's for the marriage. I belong to a middle class family, worked for 2 years to save every penny for the
Yes I am.Terrible i know.He is a nice person. Decent, handsome, clean and honest. We met when we were very young and got married very young. I guess the reason i married him was that i know he would never hurt me based on those good qualities. But i had kept lying to
YES i did ...and i m happy that i didi met my wife when i was in my 2nd year of graduation since then she is the only women form whom i had my eyes for ..i loved her more than i love myself some of
Whenever we listen to the stories of the people who are in the divorce conditions, we probably ask them with one question that is they happy much by getting through tough divorce situations. Most percentage of the people will rather be saying it as yes. If
Short answer: YES! Both of us, actually! We are blessed with three daughters who now are adults. Two of them still are sticking around, though. They seem to like it around us, too. It's been 26 years and since we married rather unprepared and out of the blue. After some 10 months Long Distance and
My first marriage was sexless, or at least the last 10 years or so of it.My spouse had never had a strong sex drive. When we were dating I would pursue her but she was modest, and after all...we were not married so she had grounds to refuse me.After we were married I was
Yes. I don't even want to live anymore. I've been married 11 years and if I died or was told I was about to die I wouldn't care. My life is ruined beyond repair, I can't fix it and I'm too much of a coward to get out. Feel like it's too late for me especially being a
I have been for same-sex marriege for decades, long before my gay friends gave a damn. Now that we have it, in these United States, largely by judicial ruling, I see problems that I did not consider before.That being said, I am still for gay marriage. Why? I am for freedom of
Well, speaking from experience, I've been married a few times. My first wife, a beautiful Vietnamese girl I met in beauty school. We both got disgusted with the beauty business and she went back to waiting tables. A customer of her's kept asking her to go out, and of course, she kept responding that she was married. One
As per the renowned Oxford dictionary Satisfaction is defines as