Can a wife cope with the death of a husband?

Year 2008. Sultry afternoon in Mumbai. I was waiting for that phone call. That was the time when my daughter would call me every day.Finally I heard the phone ring.

Did you ever pee in a swimming pool?

"Mommy! I am peeing in the pool like you said to do and I like it!"I had just settled my huge 9-month-pregnant-body into a lounge chair at our large local splash park. It took me dang forever to get comfortable. Of course that day just happened to be filled with tourists. It was the Labor Day weekend after

Has someone ever just disappeared from your life without warning? How did you cope with it?

My ex and I had a roommate named Pat. We also had one other male roommate and we all were friends. So it was myself and three guys who were all struggling pilots.After some time, we all started to notice how Pats stories never lined up. He fake sicknesses, rich relatives,

Have you cheated your wife or husband? Did he/she forgive you?

Have you cheated your wife or husband? Did he/she forgive you?In

Have you ever almost died?

I was 21 years old, newly married and very healthy. My husband and I decided to take a weekend road trip to a beautiful place in the mountains out west. On the way there I began to feel very tired and I remember reclining my seat and viewing the mountains and trees from a reclining position. We stopped

Have you ever had a close up encounter with a polar bear? If so, what was it like?

I, personally, have never had a close-up encounter with a live polar bear. The closest I came is that one day when I was in grade school, there was a bear in town and we all had to stay inside after school.Polar bears are incredibly large. Like, it's hard to grasp just how big a full size

Have you ever had an affair with a hot Indian married woman?

I fucked a really hot Delhi woman last week.It was a launch of a club in Gurgaon & one of my clients invited me to it. By the time I reached, the formalities were done & people were drinking. My client came me & asked me to dance. While we were on

Have you ever ruined your marriage?

Not single handedly, no. Did I play a role? Sure. It takes two to get married and each plays a role if that falls apart. First marriage never should have happened, therefore I don't think either of us ruined it. It was just

Have you ever witnessed someone indirectly ruin another person's life?

Yes... I know several families that were destroyed by husbands cheating, after 15-20 years of love and loyalty they got from their spouses, and they all have kids also... those are real tragedies... once trust is broken, it can never be the same.. all of these woman stayed married, but none

Have you so far kept your gender reassignment secret from your partner?

I currently don't have a partner but I never keep my transgender status from a partner... at least, not to the point when we're about to do the mattress dance. I make it clear on all my online dating profiles and if I met a date in person and we arranged to go out in

How did you fall in love?

I fell in love with my girlfriend for her innocence, care towards me, her ability to understand my character and behavior .I fell completely in love with her only after being in relationship with her.I met her first time on project specific training . we both are freshers and she was seated next to me. Both of

How did you meet your spouse and what were the first few interactions like?

How do two high achievers ever get to be married to each other ?At the time my future wife-to-be had turned to be 30 and had given up the hope of finding a man she would be ready to marry. The problem was that she overwhelmed most men she met and no man

How has your fitness tracker changed your life?

How has your fitness tracker changed your life?My entire life, my immediate family would argue or belittle me regarding even the tiniest of claims.

How or where did you meet your spouse/partner?

I met my husband in 11th grade English class. The moment I saw him I knew I had to have him! He was/is the most beautiful human being I'd ever seen. And his smile, oh that smile! But I was deflated, he had a girlfriend... so

How was your marriage arranged?

It was 1971. He and his elder sister came for arranged marriage meeting.After usual questions of education etc, my father proudly said

What are some secrets that you have hidden from your best friend?

Until recently I hid who I really was from my best friend for over 10 years and as my best friend she didn't even blink an eye and stated she already knew lolI grew up in a diffcult and strict parenting. Although she is my adoptive mother she would beat the living shit out

What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?

I was working at the Wellesley Hospital in Toronto. I was looking after patients in I.C.U. An elderly lady asked me if she could have a cup of tea. She explained that she was uncomfortable and had some heaviness in her chest. The lady insisted that a cup of tea

What did your children become, to make you regret having them?

Do not ever regret having your children what ever they become it is their choice, it is their lives they will choose. Whatever they choose is not your responsability. Parents just raise them feed them and give them good examples. It's like food you

What does it feel like to have an affair?

This is actually such a complex question. I'll try to answer succinctly. First a little background.I've been with my husband nearly 20 years, married 17, with 2 children. We love each other a lot but the sex and intimacy are gone. At first

What is a crazy thing you see every day while driving to or from work?

Other than the sheer number of people who line up on our freeways morning and evening, and then complain about the traffic they are not only behind, but causing? I ride my bike on a trail to get to work each day, and I go under and sometimes alongside

What is the best kept secret?

INCEST.IT'S A SECRET BECAUSE IT'S A TABOO IN OUR COUNTRY.I have sex (consensual) sex with my cousin sister. I am 17, she is 18. We live in Bangalore (my dad and his brother's family live together). One bedroom is shared by my dad and mom. One by her dad and mom. One by me

What is the craziest thing you saw today?

Recently there was a news about a man who apologized to his girlfriend in a very romantic Romeo style.He puts up around 300 banners and hoardings in a street of posh locality of Pune's Pimpri Chinchwad area apparently to apologize to his girlfriend after a fight. The lover identified as Nilesh Khedekar, 25, who

What is the meanest thing your mother in-law did to you?

One of the meanest and hurtful things my mother-in-law did to me was when I'd just got engaged and she asked to see my ring. I held out my hand to show her my ring and at that point she just grabbed ahold

What is the most dirty/naughty thing that you keep secret, but still like to do?

Secret, oh yes, very much a secret. It started when I was around 15. I was into regular masturbation at that time. I mean, what in anyone's life could feel any better than when you cum? To me, nothing. It wasn't just masturbation then either, I willingly gave up my virginity when I was thirteen with a

What is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you or you have seen happen to in the gym changing room?

Not really embarrassing at all. When we use to play basket ball in the gym there was always a lot of pantsing going on and I finally just got tiered of it so I just reach down and got them and slung them into the bleachers and carried on. I n less than

What is the most important thing someone has ever said to you?

Well I have learnt now how tough life is by this guy who happened to meet us on an Uber trip on 20th of January ,2017.Well me and three friends of mine booked an Uber after a long session of classes at our coaching today. We

What is the naughtiest massage experience you ever had?

I was feeling pretty tight and stressed from work, so I decided to look through the pages for a particular type of massage. I happen to recognize this person's name as someone through town.I had met her a few times, but nothing more than a quick hello.I called

What is the naughtiest thing that you ever did?

True Story.This happened to me not so long ago. I was on a flight overseas. I boarded the plane and found my seat. It was a window seat over the wing. I sat for five minutes as the rest of the flight boarded. A well dressed guy sat next to me. I said hi and we

What is the naughtiest thing you have done with a friend?

Last summer, I was 40, been married almost 18 years and the only woman I had ever been with was my wife. Our sex life had become predictable and boring. It was sex twice a month (usually on a Saturday night) and straight missionary position. My wife does

What is the naughtiest thing you have ever done? ( for women)

I would have to say the naughtiest thing I have ever done was seduce a friend of my daughters. I'm an older male in my late 40s. A couple of years ago I got introduced to my daughters friend at my grand child's birthday

What is the weirdest thing you have seen someone do?

Well, there is a girl in the apartment opposite to my home. I have known her from my childhood, but never talked to her.So, I was 14 at that time so was she. I used to go to tuition where she too was enrolled.One fine evening, we were having a test

What is your embarassing moment after marriage?

I am the youngest child of my parents, have been immensely pampered. It really took me a long, to leave all my childish acts. My innocence could be easily identified in a conversation.So when I got married, my mom was anxious about our life in Bangalore. The house, my hubby had booked, was available only after 15

What makes you happy about yourself?

All kama(sexual desire),Krodha(anger),irsha(jealousy),dwesh(ill feeling about others),lobha(temptation), moha(attachment with materialistic thing)are chemical reaction in brain .Outside this brain this is meaningless.This was discovered by great Scientist at that time (2500 year back), Gautama Buddha. You will be surprise to know that he never taught about existence of God, heaven and hell but he taught steps to remain happy.

What's the hardest part about getting older that no one ever talks about at all?

Most older people actually do talk about the hardest parts, along with saddest parts, the scariest parts, the embarrassing parts, and even the funniest parts. But maybe not to everyone.I've just finished reading Dixie Golden's answer to this question (Dixie Golden's answer to

What's the naughtiest thing you did after 40s?

I'm using fake names because I'm still engaged.Last summer, I was 43, been married almost 18 years and the only woman I had ever been with was my wife. Our sex life had become predictable and boring. It was sex twice a month (usually on a Saturday night) and straight missionary position.

What things actually made your life easier?

Life does not get easier, you just learn to play harder. In today's lifestyle people are forgetting the real meaning of life, nobody is born with demons or darkness in their destiny. Life is a gift but you need to be practical in how to live it.1- Read booksWell this

What's the craziest excuse someone has given you after you found out that they were cheating?

Many years ago, I foolishly got engaged to a guy without really knowing him or his actual situation.I was a single mom with a young daughter. He was a musician who had come to perform at my daughter's school. We hit

Do you have a special song that calms you? If so, what is it?

Star Crossed Lovers by Kenny Barron.Kenny Barron is a master jazz pianist. His take on Duke Ellington's gorgeous composition is astounding.Barron has a lyrical way of playing - music speaks its own language, and Kenny Barron is a storyteller. It comes out in the fluctuations of

Have you ever been attacked by an animal and had to defend yourself? What exactly did you do?

Not really because I understand how to act/behave around animals. I'm also not a dumbass to get myself in a situation to get myself attacked. Even animals that act aggressive towards me initially tend to be fine with me.Look people it's all about how one thinks and acts

Have you ever had a wild animal befriend you?

I had a squirrel as a pet once, but it was raised from me from birth. As for wild animals in the wild, I've had encounters with all sorts of critters big and small.I had a doe come to my deer stand everyday for years. When she got to the feed, she would stop and look

Have you ever seen a kid getting bullied and then the kid roasts the bully?

This is hilarious as hell. ;pSo one day we were in school. My friend and I were talking; let's call him Mark. Mark was talking about a essay that was due tommorow. While we were walking, I ran into another friend; let's call him Sam. We

Have you experienced finding true love in your fifties or older?

Me? No. My grandmother? Yes. She has had two husbands. The first one- terrible. He was physically abusive, manipulative, narcissistic, selfish, and verbally abusive. Yet, he was the father to my father and aunt. Her second husband was her everything, and was

How did you fight in life?

Believe in yourself and concentrate on what you are doing.No one is perfect, and perfectionism will leads to fail. So, don't try to become perfectionist but concentrate on improving your skills and knowledge.Without knowledge, you will feel nervous and anxiety.So if you want to find in your life, you should learn how to face problems in

How to think up fun facts about yourself

Thank you for A2A, Sean.I've had such a strange, full and diverse life, so far, that it is not difficult for me to find a topic to write about. I just think of a period in my life, and choose one of a bunch of things that come to

How has your fitness tracker changed your life?

How has your fitness tracker changed your life?My entire life, my immediate family would argue or belittle me regarding even the tiniest of claims.

How old were you when you became a foodie?

Just a kid at my grandmother's knee. i guess I started with my little play electric oven where I could bake little cakes. I had to be 6 or 7. My mom was never interested in cooking. So I learned basics from grandma. It was enhanced because I

How old were you when you had your first bicycle?

My sister had a little kids bike with hard rubber tires, fixed gear, and training wheels. I learned how to ride it when I was 5. I can't remember how long it took before my father took the training wheels off.At 7 years of age, I received a 1962 Schwinn Typhoon, with 24" wheels. I couldn't straddle

Through my personal experiences, any person that I have encountered who unfortunately lost a newborn/stillborn/miscarried now has strong feelings against abortion, so I wonder, has anyone lost a baby and still does advocate for abortion rights?

My mother and father.Their first child, a boy, was stillborn at 27 weeks. It was a horrendous experience in the confusion of a French hospital where many things were lost in translation. My parents had been married 12 years and only recently decided to have children. My mother still blames herself for continuing to

What are the best songs you heard today?

Today I found myself listening to The Mekons. I really like them, and these past few weeks I've experienced an unexpected resurgence of interest in a cluster of punk and postpunk/roots-music bands I haven't listened to in a while, but have liked for ages.I have most of the Mekons' records, and, being old, I like the

What is one thing you did this year that changed your life?

Things that changed my life in 2015: - Breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years. Out of the abusive relationship & back to finding & loving myself. To get the courage I lacked, I had five sessions with a psychologist which helped me see & get rid of my destructive patterns and get the courage to leave. After

What is something that someone in your life has done/told you that made your life take a turn for the better?

I was working nights in my mid 20's, I had been aware they had wanted to get rid of me for some time. You can read that full story if you ask, what's the most ridiculous reason for being fired. Anyway, I had put a works claim in

What is the best compliment you could ever receive?

A few months ago, I met a fellow traveler from Nepal and we did hangout for a couple of times. We mainly talked about interesting stories from each other's journey, and discussed some more topics. I explained to him what is life and love from my own perspective. We were

What is the best compliment you have ever gotten from a stranger?

I was travelling in my 20's after a really really bad break up where my partner cheated on me. At the time it was horrific but it pushed me to follow my dream of travelling around South East Asia.As a rule, I like

What is the best gift you've ever received? Who was it from?

One day I randomly decided to take a college course in Geology.Well it wasn't random but I don't need Geology for my major.It was a lecture along with an almost 3 hour lab two days a week.It was more out of why not and curiosity.I've been collecting rocks since I was a kid

What is the luckiest thing thats happened to someone you know?

The luckiest thing thats happened to me is when my non curable disease become cured completely without any medicine just by living positive and constructive way.I lost all hopes with this disease but by mercy of Govinda,I started to live peacefully and healthy .I started to run

What is the most beautiful compliment you ever received?

My family has always been physically and verbally undemonstrative. Hugging and kissing just ‘weren't done' when I was growing up and I can count on one hand the number of times the words ‘I love you' were spoken out loud. We didn't

What is the most chill or relaxing song that you ever heard?

There can't be just one song which relaxes you all the times. Not at least for me.There are times when I feel relaxed and calm listening to a song.There are times when I hate the same song. There is another song which is pacifying my soul at that moment.Now, I'm sitting in a cafe alone. There is no one

What is the sluttiest thing you've done that was out of character for you?

I've done every slutty thing you can imagine, I'll try to remember and arrange them from my youngest moment up till the present:Had my first sex in the living room, which is just beside my parent's room.Had the first blow job, and second

What's the nicest accidental compliment you ever received?

Heard two girls discreetly talking about how good my butt looked while they were walking down the sidewalk behind me. I guess they figured I couldn't hear what they were saying, but after 30 seconds of them going on about it, I thought it would be funny

What sounds make you anxious?

It's very different from person to person. I am personally extra sensitive to any loud noises and can often find them unbearable.Here are a few sounds that usually triggers my anxiety:Sudden loud noises, like a balloon popping or someone drops something.People yelling or arguing.General

What surprised you the most during your first trip to Japan?

Before visiting Japan, we had read up on it as much as we could. There were also things that you keep reading, seeing and hearing about Japan throughout your life, all over the media and the net. So, things like funky clothes, funky teenagers, funky food, funky toilets, bizarre things, cleanliness, politeness, aloof-ness, safety, punctuality, etc were not

What was the weirdest compliment you've ever received?

When I was sixteen my mother and father discovered that I had been having sex with my also sixteen-year-old boyfriend. Both my parents had had children when they were sixteen to other partners and panicked. I was grounded, forced to take a pregnancy test in front of them, and ignored when I said

Did you ever pee in a swimming pool?

"Mommy! I am peeing in the pool like you said to do and I like it!"I had just settled my huge 9-month-pregnant-body into a lounge chair at our large local splash park. It took me dang forever to get comfortable. Of course that day just happened to be filled with tourists. It was the

Has someone ever just disappeared from your life without warning? How did you cope with it?

My ex and I had a roommate named Pat. We also had one other male roommate and we all were friends. So it was myself and three guys who were all struggling pilots.After some time, we all started to notice how Pats stories never lined

Have you ever almost died because of something that could have been prevented?

There was one time when my mom and I were coming back from an eye appointment. She was driving and I was blinded by the sunlight since my eyes were recently dilated. It was fun and all. We had food and we were talking to each other. It was about distracted driving

Have you ever almost died twice?

More than twice.My father said he was teaching me how to swim when I was young (6 or 7). Everyone else in the pool thought he was trying to drown me, including me. But I didn't die.I fell off a roof around 8 and a cinder block also fell off the roof and hit me in the

Have you ever been caught or caught someone taking a leak outside a bathroom?

Yes, I've been caught, and honestly, people over react in certain areas!Now, if you're like this guy, you're going to be disgusted and be thinking how much of a vile, nasty, uncouth person I am but, I'll lay it out where it comes

Have you ever been told you look like someone, only to be secretly insulted or disappointed?

I wasn't really insulted or disappointed, but I was...bemused. I was teaching an abuse-prevention class to high school students in the hinterland of Pennsylvania, and there was a giggling at the back of the class. I paused and looked quizzically at the

Have you ever catfished someone?

He offered to meet at a place near my office, despite it being a 45 minute drive for him. How considerate! I arrived first, so I got a table facing the door, so I could see when he arrived. He was running a few minutes late, but texted an

Have you ever experienced a 'Lean On Me' moment?

back in '99 I called a social worker after arriving home one day to find three days worth of cleaning effort turned every which way BUT the way I left the place a few hours earlier that day -

Have you ever found a secret room in either your home or anywhere else?

Oh man, I have quite the story.When I was about 12, I went over to the house of a friend who was ... interesting. I couldn't quite put my finger on it. But she was always just a bit different from everyone else at our conservative religious school.We would always

Have you ever gotten home and found evidence that somebody had been in your home while you were gone?

I had recently begun the process of commuting between Chicago and Atlanta due to my father's health. It was close to Christmas and my father had made plans to spend the holidays in Florida with his girlfriend. That left me free to do Christmas in Chicago.Everything in the house

Have you ever lied to clear yourself of a problem and now you feel bad because someone else got in trouble for something you did? What was it that you did?

When I was a child( 8–10 years old), the back part of our house had a flat roof that could be accessed via my bedroom window, I was out there one day playing around and had a croquet ball which I went to place on the top of a drain vent, well the next

Have you ever made out with someone you just met?

It wasn't possible back then but as time advanced it became a common thing in India. I have traveled through India sometimes for Business sometimes just vacation. Woman are different in every state but one thing i have found common in all, You take the first step she will lead you to victory. My

Have you ever met someone and everything around you immediately just disappeared?

I was in a bad way and ended up at a church I had never been to. I was wearing my 'I'm a happy Christian' face, but broken inside. Anyway, we worshipped and the Pastor started speaking. Suddenly he stopped, walked over to me and said

Have you ever met someone from a previous life?

Yes, but the word met is a nebulous definition of my interactions with this person.I became aware of someone I had

Have you ever met someone where something just didn't seem right about them?

Yes! Back in the early 90's my good friend( I'll call her Jane) came by my job (at a restaurant) because she wanted to introduce to me to her ex boyfriend,Jim, and his parents. During this time I was only 22 and when we shook hands I just suddenly grew cold

Have you ever misjudged someone?

Yes. This happened during my college days. In 1984 we shifted from Mangaluru to Bengaluru. At that time I was doing my final year Bcom. My father somehow managed to secure me a seat in a good college which was walkable distance from our flat.Being a small town girl everything was new to me

Have you ever peed on another person?

As a matter of fact, I have peed on someone. My husband, to be exact. If that kinky part of your brain is starting to perk up, go ahead and tell it to go back to sleep. This is not that kind of story. It

Have you ever rescued someone?

As a paramedic I was involved in several sea and mountain rescues, usually in storm weather. Some of those situations became risky, yet somehow we got away with successfully completing all of them, with colleagues and myself having no more than minor injuries.I recall a particular rescue where the swells were large enough to crash

Have you ever told someone's secret to someone else? Why is that? What was it?

No.Why: I haven't been close enough to others to hear many secrets in recent years, but back in junior high when lots of secrets were going around, things were a bit weird... I was too goody-two-shoes to ever give my friend's secrets away, so I got too boring to share

Have you ever unexpectedly quit your job?

I worked in a restaurant that was part of a retail outlet when I was around 20 and got along really well with my manager. Within only a few months, she was promoting me to supervisor. While this was happening, the head manager of the whole retail outlet had left and his

Have you ever unintentionally ruined someone's life?

Yes I did. I regret that to hell now.....I reported about a man who was dealing drugs, heavily. He used to live around my neighborhood. I saw he lived just his own just doing these things.After seeing he selling cocaine for minors I decided to report him to

How did intermittent fasting change your life?

I am going to explain everything about fasting in details so you will get a clue how it changed my life:Fed vs. FastedYour body is designed to smoothly transition between two different and opposing states: ‘Fed', and ‘Fasted'.In the fed state, insulin is elevated, and this signals

How do cats and dogs seem to instinctively know when their owners are coming home, even if they're more than ten minutes away?

I want to dispel some of the answers here with the case of Barbara, a Great Dane puppy that my wife brought home when we had our general dealer shop in a rural area of Limpopo in South Africa. Barbara was riddled with worms, but we soon fixed

In what ways have you noticed that people treat you differently after losing a large amount of weight?

Yes, people do and I have experienced it too many times. I have a 5′-9″ tall muscular V shape frame and at my best shape, I weigh around 180 pounds. However, I always struggled with my body image entire adult life and found it very difficult to maintain my ideal weight as a working adult.Frankly

What are some secrets that you have hidden from your best friend?

Until recently I hid who I really was from my best friend for over 10 years and as my best friend she didn't even blink an eye and stated she already knew lolI grew up in a diffcult and strict parenting. Although she is my adoptive mother she would beat the living shit out of me if

What are the most romantic words ever said to someone?

The most romantic things ever said to me? I can't really speak for anyone else. There was a huge range in what was said and my responses at any given time. Also, it's important to preface that as I get older, my priorities shift

What are your top 5 experiences in life?

Ummm......i have got some experience......& yes , after that... my way of viewing things , observing people , maturity level & confidence has really boosted up.Let me tell you about myself....... During my schooling days I was really careless , naughty & used to do all sort of mischievous activities in my school & at my home........So at

What do you consider to be the hardest thing that you have ever experienced?

Watching my best friend drift away from me.I've had this one friend for several years now, they have been a blessing - they were so fun to hang out with and I would have the best conversations with them, we

What do you do to make sure you're still having fun and enjoying yourself while working?

I have a firm belief that you should have fun while you're doing your work. Yes make sure that work gets done and done well but also enjoy yourself. Be there because you want to be there. In my jobs, even on rough days I find the silver

What has been the hardest thing you have had to say 'no' to in your life?

I met this guy at a job I had. We were both immigrants starting life from scratch. We both didn't have much of friends. Our relationship grew from very close friends to lovers.This guy gave the the best sex of

What hobby did you leave behind when life got in the way?

Thanks for the A2A.I've left behind both climbing and sailing since moving to San Francisco.Since moving here, housing has been a constant struggle. It's really embarrassing to talk about, but I have moved dozens of times and am still struggling

What is something that never frightened you as a child but increasingly scares you as you get older?

My future.I thought in Grade 6, simply that becoming a Lawyer would be hard.But, I'm smart, and enjoy a challenge.Now I'm in High school, go to a school with weak graduation classes, with 100's of scholarships for our school only. That's positive right?Now I see that

What is the best kept secret?

INCEST.IT'S A SECRET BECAUSE IT'S A TABOO IN OUR COUNTRY.I have sex (consensual) sex with my cousin sister. I am 17, she is 18. We live in Bangalore (my dad and his brother's family live together). One bedroom is shared by my dad and mom. One by her dad and mom. One by me and her.